Advice on dealing with Thai SYT
 

Recently, I got to know a Thai SYT (with a very nice rack :D). We met up a few times then she asked me to be her bf. I would have to say I do feel for her. She is currently working in one of the TD. I've only about another month in Singapore, I will be away for the next year or so.

Should I just up her and forget?

Or try to maintain this seemingly impossible r/s that doesn't look like it will go anywhere?

Any advice for a very lost forumer?

Regards
motard

Re: Advice on dealing with Thai SYT
 

didn't you just answered yourself?

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I guess I was hoping someone would say otherwise

Regards
motard

Re: Advice on dealing with Thai SYT
 

Why you hope for someone to say otherwise ? Do what you think is correct !!

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1. What do you want from this relationship?

2. What does she want from this relationship?

3. Are you willing to wait?

4. Is she willing to wait?

If it's positive and similar in terms of objectives from both of you, then there's alot more likelihood of success, no? If it's dissimilar, and you need to be honest, then well, let's up the lorry and leave it as a pleasant memory of nice boobies!

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I would say this could those spur of the moment thing.
It may die out sooner than u expected.
We can't advise you what to do.
She is still young.
Are you ready for the pros and cons?

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Why don't u introduce her to one of the samster here to look after her while you're away :D I am sure many will volunteer to take care of her while you're gone :D LOL.
When you return to SG, you can continue your relationship with her from where you left.

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since you know it is not going anywhere..

life is short.. just enjoy the moments while you can.. but don't have to mislead her though

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1st 2 questions very very impt...

if u jus wan a fling, then go ahead... since u are not gonna care about her feelings...

if u wan a Long Distance Long Term relationship... make sure you both understand the problems in the future... cos u dun have much time to have a strong foundation...

Re: Advice on dealing with Thai SYT
 

I do appreciate comments however comments such as these, you might as well keep to yourself.

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She seems to like me a lot. I feel she's a very nice girl thus do not wish to hurt her. Then again, it could be I 自作多情.

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Does she know you will be going away for a year or so?
Since you ahve some feeling for her, why not just take it easy. Can continue good loh if no just let time fade it off.

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Let time decide if she likes you or not.
In the meantime, you can maintain contact with her.
Do note relationship like this, do requires alot of patience and perserence.
Cheers.

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ask her out for a date.... talk to her about your feelings and worries...

at least know her reaction... then decided together what course of action...

Re: Advice on dealing with Thai SYT
 

Can't you take a tongue-in-cheek joke like this? :confused:
Perhaps you are not in the right frame of mind to appreciate jokes right now since you're face with a difficult decision to make and in a dilemma.