Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

Hi fellow bros

Recently been caught by wife going massage with GQ (HJ only)
Is this consider cheating ?

Pls advise how to explain to your partner?

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

I would think so. Female touching a male, getting sexual satisfaction. How on earth did you get caught?

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

Just say you were caught off guard. Seemed like a regular massage, like with proper pressure at the right areas and you dozed off while she started jerking you off. Didn’t realise till midway and you were caught out surprised/ shocked.

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

It’s an easy question to answer. If your wife told you a male masseuse fingered her until orgasm, would you feel she had cheated on you?

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

it depends, if you went to a dodgy place, guess there's no need to explain, just admit it. However, she might ask you how many times have you been. Think most if not all women will find it disgusting if they know their bf or hubby goes to such places. Worst, if not just HJ but FJ.
If it's a normal massage place but being offered and accepted a HJ, can still try to explain.
You need to differentiate what you should tell and should not. Not telling the full truth versus tell a lousy lie can have big difference, especially if your wife knows you well and know when you are telling a lie.

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

TS probably went massage with wifey together and in different room or separated by certain, then while ML performed her speciality, kena caught by wifey when she walked pass or pull open the certain:eek:, just my guessing!

Cant imagine how one can get caught for HJ if wifey didnt go massage together! But sibey jialet hor, kena caught for whatever reason, in hot soup!

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

A hand job is not sex. It's just a massage of your organ. :D

Just explain to your partner that a hand job is just a job.. nothing more, nothing less. :p

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

You are being sexually pleasured by another woman.

Of course most women will see this as cheating, even if it just a HJ.

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

wondering how u get caught in the first place? haha
u seek pleasure with other women ya cheat la bro.

Ok bro, you have asked and sbf has answered. Now is your turn to contribute. How did you get caught? Pls share the full juicy story with description of said HJ

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

Lol! Yea! I’m keen to know too!

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

If your wife give another man HJ and nothing else, do you consider that cheating? That'll be your ans.

Re: Does massage with HJ consider cheating your wife?
 

Ur wife give HJ/BJ to another guy, u think its cheating? U ok with it ? ;)