Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23511779)

I dont know if this is something that all men go through but im increasingly starting to feel that mongering is getting to be extremely time consuming and tiring. I need a minimum of 2 hours every encounter and i also need that time cause i always do 2 shots if not i feel unsatisfied.

But between work and home affairs i increasingly find it difficult to find the time needed to drive my ass to the location , spend the 2 hours and then drive off to my next errand. Its honestly beginning to put me off mongering as its so difficult to squeeze in that 2 - 3 hours just to get myself off even once a week.

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore. Maybe my hormones are getting lower? im confused whether this is a good or bad thing for me.

any opinions?

Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23511779)

I dont know if this is something that all men go through but im increasingly starting to feel that mongering is getting to be extremely time consuming and tiring. I need a minimum of 2 hours every encounter and i also need that time cause i always do 2 shots if not i feel unsatisfied.

But between work and home affairs i increasingly find it difficult to find the time needed to drive my ass to the location , spend the 2 hours and then drive off to my next errand. Its honestly beginning to put me off mongering as its so difficult to squeeze in that 2 - 3 hours just to get myself off even once a week.

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore. Maybe my hormones are getting lower? im confused wheter this is a good or bad thing for me.

any opinions?

Originally Posted by dman19 (Post 23519771)

Personally, I want to slow down a bit but my wife cannot. So what to do…. Join her in the rat race lo haha

Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23520097)

i personally have a rule of never to DIY to maintain my brother's health , so to me its getting to a point where i would not be able to sleep well after a while as i keep getting dreams of fucking and i get distracted by women walking past me on the street.

Its getting to be quite annoying since i will forget what i wanted to do or think about after getting distracted and after a few more days as long as they are female i will automatically look at their butts or legs or boobs instead of their face which is not good conduct.

Originally Posted by chubbybastard (Post 23521311)

Then i think you better start breaking that rule coz its clearly affecting you. Last thing you need is to end up un an accident because you were distracted

Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23511779)

Im thinking of just getting a vasectomy so my libido dies down and i dont need to think about it anymore.

Originally Posted by orez (Post 23541008)

Genuine question here: "does vasectomy reduces libido?"

I'm asking because I'm considering vasectomy to avoid the need to use condoms.

Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23520097)

i personally have a rule of never to DIY to maintain my brother's health , so to me its getting to a point where i would not be able to sleep well after a while as i keep getting dreams of fucking and i get distracted by women walking past me on the street.

Its getting to be quite annoying since i will forget what i wanted to do or think about after getting distracted and after a few more days as long as they are female i will automatically look at their butts or legs or boobs instead of their face which is not good conduct.

Originally Posted by Dignified69 (Post 23562889)

I would not be surprised if your KKJ sued you for failing to consummate the relationship with your self. Obviously neber self love then going to go bat crazy on seeing anything with boobs.

My problem is opposite. Today have very good sex. WL is my sweetheart. French like no tomorrow, BBJ, DATY, long pounding and then release. Spend $200.

But 1 hr later see hot tik Tok and then get horny again. See pretty woman go crazy.

So it seems after my refractory period I horny again. Its like a never ending void of sexual need.

Originally Posted by Andreme (Post 23565311)

thats what im saying , when i do it regularly i become more horny and pay more attention to women but when i refrain it becomes super easy to ignore them and focus on my own things like my work and exercise.

honestly i indulged in a 2 week bender with a particular WL and thats when i started noticing my inability to focus on things. Not proud to say but in the interest of honesty i spent almost 4K in that house in that 2 weeks.

Now when i talk to people i meet i find my vision instinctively pulled towards observing their T&A rather than their face.