Arranging a playdate with my fwb, her kids and mine
 

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

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Women sixth sense are very accurate.
High chance your wife will sense something.

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Probably ask your wife what does she thinks? Is she being invited too?

Same thoughts. If jus u, wife n Fwb, how u go missing with fab for hr

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You are one big risk-taker for sure. Never under-estimate a woman's 6th sense. You even said it yourself that it is a recipe for disaster.

But of course it's your life and your call. Always happy to hear any updates from you in the other thread. Is this the Jap lady that you mentioned in your other post? :D

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From a story POV, yes. pls do it and share with us. With pics even better.

From a concerned bro.. no la... life is hard enough. dont make more problem for yourself.

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Intro ur wife over bro. I go play with her while u go playdate with ur fwb n her kids etc.

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Many bros here sure support this arrangement :)

Better don’t play with fire, nowadays OC very smart and sharp 1

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Stop thinking with small head. You only think of ideal situation. Million one things will go wrong. Better to keep status quo.

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You never die before is it?

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Living dangerously. Sound like time bomb.

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To me, I will do it for the following reasons

(1) Never get caught - sibei song. Play till no horse run
(2) Get caught - scenario 1 (wife may join in so become happier)
(3) Get caught - scenario 2 (wife tulan then nothing happens. Still song for you)
(4) Get caught - scenario 3 (wife tulan and divorce. Then you openly can play the divorced wife and your wife other bro can play)

Above scenario nothing bad for you. Just that

(1) have you ringfenced your assets? I got 1 friend forever playing and I realised he ask his mother to look after his assets. Wife get almost nothing as he has no assets but alimony still have to pay
(2) Do you bear to leave your children with wife? My friend no problem as he feels that his children is mere outcome of his sex enjoyment. He buys them expensive gifts but didn’t really care about them so he let his ex wife have his children

My 2 cent worth

I think it should be ok as long as there is a good back story. A few years back while I was with my kid at a playground, my kid and another kid started playing together and then I got to know the mom. From there, I introduced her to my wife and the lady introduced her husband, and we went over to each others house to play a few times.

If I could recreate a similar scenario with this fwb of mine, then should be ok. One time, my fwb and one of her kid, and one of my kid, went to a musical. We bought seats next to each other. In between when our kids were not noticing, we held hands and kissed. Such was the thrill.