Originally Posted by bobian
When i saw ur thread, my eyes immediately set on clicking this thread, because like u, i am in the exact position, where my wife does not want to have sex with me.
We just got married for a year and 4 months. But all these while, whenever i wanted sex, she just keep pushing me away , saying shes tired, or dont feel like doing it. Only once in a while did i get sex from her, but its not making love at all, she would jus lie down motionless, not even moan or wet, like im fucking a corpse. Sometimes she would jus say its pain, and i would have to stop.
I have tried investigating whether or not shes seeing someone behind my back and that leads to her not wanting to have sex with me, the result is quite a safe negative. Dont get me wrong, i love her as though we just got together, but the lack of sex is killing the rship. We would quarrel when i dont receive any sex, and she would say that all i think about is sex. But cmon, if u have not receive any sex for months, of cos thats what u'll be thinking about. I did sit down with her and have a good talk about this, saying the unhealthy status if our marriage, she just shrugged it off.
This is the reason why i came into this forum. I feel i should jus shut down my desire for sex my own way, by just doing it outside, getting it over and done with, so that i can go back home and face her without having to quarrel not receiving any from her. Yes, this is fucked up for fucking other girls outside and using this as an excuse. Im sure karma will bite me back. At least i know once i've cummed, i wont have the strong urge to have sex for the next few days. I can live my marriage life peacefully with her.
Even my nick is "bobian". Hahaha.
Im not fat, nor am i underweight, or have a belly. So in that aspect i dont think im that unattractive to her. Hell, our sex life used to be awesome, but it jus detioriated over the recent years. If u ask me why did i even marry her in that case, i would say i didnt marry her because of sex. But to say that if i knew i wont have a normal sex life whether or not i will still go ahead and marry her, now im starting to have doubts.
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