its the other way around for me... I am the one who is beginning not have any feel for my wife of 10 years... we have no kids... I think I can't bear her any as we have gone through IVF and it still failed... now each time when we had sex, I feel I'm the only one who are active in trying to arouse her while she just do a bit of touch her & there...and last sex was going be 2 months now... I feel like giving up, let her go and maybe she can find better one that can bear her children as she is still young...sad, just sad...
now I have begun chatting online trying to get that girlfriend-boyfriend feel again to make myself excite to life everyday.... sad, just sad....
somehow, I just wanna say to her I wanna have a time off and would like to spend travel alone somewhere sometimes to think on this....