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During e past years my sex life w my hubby dropped drastically. It's like an average of only once per year. I just had given birth some one year old and ever since then till now, we never had sex yet.

He is a very loving & great hubby & dad, except for the sex part. I'm really feeling extremely upset as time passes.

I'm very very shy to initiate sex as we didn't had it for the longest time already, and I had never done the initiating. (except once during pregnancy which he almost rejected me but still did it reluctantly) This incident really failed me to pick up my courage once again to initiate sex and it indefinitely is a great hindrance to our marriage.

Pls help me and share with me how I can rekindle our sex life naturally and mutually and turn him on (we don't French kiss so it's altogether another challenge). What should I do to make him wanna have sex with me again? I'm going away on a long trip soon together with him, so I'd like to seek opinions cos I'm nervous about initiating it.

I'm still a very attractive lady. So appearance is not a problem.

Some kind souls, please help me!!!! It will really save me. Really grateful to you all with much appreciation!