Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[LauAdi]

Originally Posted by mqman

this one is a true story but with a happier ending. someone i know in my group of friends

1) successful corporate career
2) extremely wealthy family
3) perfect SG family ( 5Cs + everything you want) with kids
4) typical sg wife, want power and $$, then bored go and play duck outside, get caught and divorce
5) guy relapsed, career suffered, divorced wiped out a few of his properties
6) found vietbu about 20+ younger than him( could be chioer but he dunno)
7) wanted to marry within 6 months
8) Quit corporate and went into private consultation
9) Family still very wealthy
10) before marriage, vietbu asked for investments in vietnam ie
- property
- internet cafes
- commercial property
11) But he got $$ so no problems
12) started new family ( 1st batch of kids all grown up)

Happy now.

For him, he had the $$$ to sustain,but neglected his first batch of kids, came at that cost

but if average joe singaporean, the $$ part would definitely hit hard.

BUT on the other hand, i know of friends with viet wives, knew their wives from working normal blue collar jobs, wives supported them mentally physically and emotionally thru hard times .

so just have to look for the right one.

Happy for him
I know some vn ladies working in foot and nail spas who married sg guys and stayed faithful and took care of the family.
Everywhere got good and bad people.

[mqman]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

Happy for him
I know some vn ladies working in foot and nail spas who married sg guys and stayed faithful and took care of the family.
Everywhere got good and bad people.

yup true.. agreed

[HBK1234]

A throwaway account obviously.

Recently i got hooked on a very young ML from VN. She said she developed feelings for me. She claims she dont do anything more than HJ, roaming only 4G. She said she usually receives above average tips (some even low 4digits) but she ok with me tipping under below average.

I stopped finding her at her shop. Instead she meets me every night where i treat her coffeeshop BCM and BBT, then we hang and talk for several hours. Sometimes she offers to treat me.

On her day off, she went out with me. I took care of the meals, most ex is $60. We took bus and train (i paid) she doesnt seem to mind. When we went to a hotel, she doesnt want to FJ or BJ, but she willing to HJ me and let me grind her and kiss her. No tip was even requested. When she saw a handbag about $30, she paid for herself. She is looks a little upset so i reimbursed her the when we left the shop.

Idk if she is seriously falling for me or its just another KC trap. Because i'm falling for her.

[HBK1234]

A throwaway account obviously.

Recently i got hooked on a very young ML from VN. She said she developed feelings for me. She claims she dont do anything more than HJ, roaming only 4G. She said she usually receives above average tips (some even low 4digits) but she ok with me tipping under below average.

I stopped finding her at her shop. Instead she meets me every night where i treat her coffeeshop BCM and BBT, then we hang and talk for several hours. Sometimes she offers to treat me.

On her day off, she went out with me. I took care of the meals, most ex is $60. We took bus and train (i paid) she doesnt seem to mind. When we went to a hotel, she doesnt want to FJ or BJ, but she willing to HJ me and let me grind her and kiss her. No tip was even requested. When she saw a handbag about $30, she paid for herself. She is looks a little upset so i reimbursed her the when we left the shop.

Idk if she is seriously falling for me or its just another KC trap.

[TenSanYi]

Just curious, not sure if any bro can share. how much do we need to earn monthly to marry a viet?

[fwchong]

Just treat her as a friend and monitor over a period of time. The red flag will comes when she start to ask you to help with immigration etc.

Originally Posted by HBK1234

A throwaway account obviously.

Recently i got hooked on a very young ML from VN. She said she developed feelings for me. She claims she dont do anything more than HJ, roaming only 4G. She said she usually receives above average tips (some even low 4digits) but she ok with me tipping under below average.

I stopped finding her at her shop. Instead she meets me every night where i treat her coffeeshop BCM and BBT, then we hang and talk for several hours. Sometimes she offers to treat me.

On her day off, she went out with me. I took care of the meals, most ex is $60. We took bus and train (i paid) she doesnt seem to mind. When we went to a hotel, she doesnt want to FJ or BJ, but she willing to HJ me and let me grind her and kiss her. No tip was even requested. When she saw a handbag about $30, she paid for herself. She is looks a little upset so i reimbursed her the when we left the shop.

Idk if she is seriously falling for me or its just another KC trap.

[fishball]

Any bros here bought properties in vietnam so far? Can share on the experience?

[Darkraidxxx]

Where do u guys find viet cuties?

I've dated a Viet classmate while studying and dated a viet lawyer while working. Any clean place i can find good viet ladies?

Looking for life partner here

[bearbear87]

Vietbus seem to all inherently know how to draw guys in. Nowadaysnin SG, there are more independent, well educated vietnamese with careers rivalling ours. Much prefer them to entititled SG girls. You know you have them hooked when their submissive and tender side comes up when they are with you in private. When that happens, they are irresistable, confirm fall in love with them. But... always keep in mind, viet girls are usually very possessive, and their family will at certain points expect financial help from her, which she will probably earn more than enough to give by herself but you can't say no. Also, if you want to maintain the relationship dynamic, better work hard and make sure you continue to earn more than her by a good margin.

[Hidan88]

I heard from my peers with viet spouse. Almost of them need to help their spouse’s family financially. Some is 300$ a month some is 1000$ a month. Even for those whose spouse is educated with degree, they still must support.

[gerber88]

i guess that their family at home think all sgmen have money and can help support them as compared to their vietguys..

but i must say viet girls are getting prettier and prettier! the plastic surgery also dam good too

[bearbear87]

Actually if your partner successful in her career, which is not difficult to find nowadays, the family will target her for support, no need for you also. But... if you offer to support instead and let her pamper herself with her salary, you will be a very lucky man in bed and at home. In general lah