Is this considered an affair?

[LuisitoAngel]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

Lucky for me i am just a colleague and we both report to same reporting officer. Our company policy is sale team must work in pair to prevent any undertable with client. So she don’t grade me and i don’t grade her.


Only thing is her drive is high and sometime i have issue. It is like 2 time a week during lunch time. Then i have to go home for my wife also about 2 times a week. My body is going down.

time to 'jiak porr' bro! look for crocodile soup , gingseng chicken! all the best!

[AngelFirst]

As long as it is not a transaction it is an affair

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

Lucky for me i am just a colleague and we both report to same reporting officer. Our company policy is sale team must work in pair to prevent any undertable with client. So she don’t grade me and i don’t grade her.

Only thing is her drive is high and sometime i have issue. It is like 2 time a week during lunch time. Then i have to go home for my wife also about 2 times a week. My body is going down.

You probably need to have some mental preparation for the inevitable endgame.

Given you are married with kids, the only way this can end well for you is if she meets a suitable guy that she sees a future with and she ends the affair. If this happens, then you are truly lucky, other than a broken heart you will probably end up relatively unscathed.

If you think you can maintain this double life and satisfy both ladies' demands on your sperm then by all means go ahead and enjoy every cum that you have with her. Count yourself lucky too, that you have such a horny work wife.

But, reality bites. We can always hope for the best, but we need to prepare for the worst.

Wives have this sixth sense when a husband strays. Unless you are super disciplined, chances are you will be found out. What would be your endgame then? Think hard whether you can really bear the consequences. The divorce part is easy - adult do shit things to each other and generally move on without much drama - Grayce being the prime example, but the kids - that is a different matter. If your kids grow up with the knowledge that you cheated on their mum, you will never be able to look them straight in the eye.

Women, in my own experience, also tend to fall in love with you if you can make her cum consistently. The way I theorize it, each orgasm brings them closer to the feelings of love, and your work wife's sense of possessiveness will grow the longer your relationship develops. This progression is inevitable, no woman is content to always be a mistress and very few can openly live with the knowledge of being a homewrecker.

Not to moralize, but these are difficult questions about the endgame that you need to consider. Only if you are prepared for these scenarios, then you can enjoy the great memories, before the inevitable endgame comes.

To answer your other question - yes you are 100% having a full-blown affair, no questions about it.

[Hidan88]

I’ve been receiving dm.

The girl is not interested in having sex with another male for now. I am her only sausage now. However, it is at the expense of becoming her driver, lunch ticket and recommend sales lead (whenever she can’t hit).

I am also not interested in swapping partner for casual sex. I do not see her as a mistress or fwb. She is more like my junior who just happened to love sex.

[Penguin23]

How you see her is not as important, as how she sees you.

Just watch out for signs of possessiveness, once she thinks she owns you she will not want to share you with anyone else and things will quickly go downhill from there - regardless of whatever you say, about how you feel about her.

Realistically, you will never know if you are really her only sausage. After all, you are married and she is still single, and she knows it, so this affair won't be going anywhere anytime soon.

Just enjoy it while it lasts, and don't be too sad when it (inevitably) ends.

[Hidan88]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

How you see her is not as important, as how she sees you.

Just watch out for signs of possessiveness, once she thinks she owns you she will not want to share you with anyone else and things will quickly go downhill from there - regardless of whatever you say, about how you feel about her.

Realistically, you will never know if you are really her only sausage. After all, you are married and she is still single, and she knows it, so this affair won't be going anywhere anytime soon.

Just enjoy it while it lasts, and don't be too sad when it (inevitably) ends.

Somewhere in me hopes it end soon. My body cannot take it

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

Eat and shit cannot be at same place
Be careful cos in sg, besides women’s charter, they will always give the woman the benefit of the doubt
Colleague is a big red flag
Make sure no recording or evidence

wise words.

[Hidan88]

Update

I dropped her off work yesterday and was spotted by her mother. The mother waved from a distance. She then texted me when she was home. She told me her mother thought i was her boyfriend and kept prompting. Luckily she did not go crazy and fabricated story. She simply told her mother we were colleague.

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

Update

I dropped her off work yesterday and was spotted by her mother. The mother waved from a distance. She then texted me when she was home. She told me her mother thought i was her boyfriend and kept prompting. Luckily she did not go crazy and fabricated story. She simply told her mother we were colleague.

So this pretty much proves your earlier point, that you are currently her only sausage. Good for you bro - stay fit, and enjoy having your balls emptied regularly.

The mother will keep asking, I'm sure. When CNY or her birthday rolls around, whichever comes first, she will get questioned again. Haha.

[Hidan88]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

So this pretty much proves your earlier point, that you are currently her only sausage. Good for you bro - stay fit, and enjoy having your balls emptied regularly.

The mother will keep asking, I'm sure. When CNY or her birthday rolls around, whichever comes first, she will get questioned again. Haha.

Somewhere deep down i feel she is servicing me only because i fetch her around and can help her

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

You probably need to have some mental preparation for the inevitable endgame.

Given you are married with kids, the only way this can end well for you is if she meets a suitable guy that she sees a future with and she ends the affair. If this happens, then you are truly lucky, other than a broken heart you will probably end up relatively unscathed.

If you think you can maintain this double life and satisfy both ladies' demands on your sperm then by all means go ahead and enjoy every cum that you have with her. Count yourself lucky too, that you have such a horny work wife.

But, reality bites. We can always hope for the best, but we need to prepare for the worst.

Wives have this sixth sense when a husband strays. Unless you are super disciplined, chances are you will be found out. What would be your endgame then? Think hard whether you can really bear the consequences. The divorce part is easy - adult do shit things to each other and generally move on without much drama - Grayce being the prime example, but the kids - that is a different matter. If your kids grow up with the knowledge that you cheated on their mum, you will never be able to look them straight in the eye.

Women, in my own experience, also tend to fall in love with you if you can make her cum consistently. The way I theorize it, each orgasm brings them closer to the feelings of love, and your work wife's sense of possessiveness will grow the longer your relationship develops. This progression is inevitable, no woman is content to always be a mistress and very few can openly live with the knowledge of being a homewrecker.

Not to moralize, but these are difficult questions about the endgame that you need to consider. Only if you are prepared for these scenarios, then you can enjoy the great memories, before the inevitable endgame comes.

To answer your other question - yes you are 100% having a full-blown affair, no questions about it.

wow penguin bro, words of wisdom.

[Welovebighugs2]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

Somewhere deep down i feel she is servicing me only because i fetch her around and can help her

Bro Hidan, I remember from another post that you talking to ML on dreams and she quit her job of ML and go back to vietnam.
haha, now you drained dry so no more bullets to go ML??

meant it in a good way,
congrats to you, enjoy in a intimate relationship now, haha.

[Hidan88]

Originally Posted by Welovebighugs2

Bro Hidan, I remember from another post that you talking to ML on dreams and she quit her job of ML and go back to vietnam.
haha, now you drained dry so no more bullets to go ML??

meant it in a good way,
congrats to you, enjoy in a intimate relationship now, haha.

I can’t visit ML nowadays. I usually visit ML during working hours but since i am now stuck, i can only say byebye to ML

[Jeremy021]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

Somewhere deep down i feel she is servicing me only because i fetch her around and can help her

its a fair trade.. enjoy it!dont think so much.