Question for married man

[dogbaba1985]

if you need this for your wife and not your mistress, you are better off leaving that woman and finding joy elsewhere.

stop wasting your time.

Originally Posted by blufaiz

Hi All,

I also faced the same predicament as TS.

Anyone has any lovedrops / love potions / love powder that I can used to spice things up and add it discreetly without her knowing?

Thanks a lot.

[someonelonely]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

What you said majority is true. People don’t understand why i go out to play when i have a beautiful wife and 2 healthy kids. I have a decent income, property and car.

Sometime i really wonder too. Just that my relationship with my wife is not so good mainly due to my mistake. I am a passive giver since the start of the relationship 10 yrs ago.

There is nothing wrong being a passive giver. Did you try to communicate with her more to help the relationship ?

My 2 cent worth is .. Stick to your massage and try to slowly reduce it. Slowly increasing your communication with your wife. Be positive about your marriage.
Try to plan your future with her in mind.

Hope it helps !

[larue]

Originally Posted by someonelonely

There is nothing wrong being a passive giver. Did you try to communicate with her more to help the relationship ?

My 2 cent worth is .. Stick to your massage and try to slowly reduce it. Slowly increasing your communication with your wife. Be positive about your marriage.
Try to plan your future with her in mind.

Hope it helps !

That's good advice for men who still live their partners.

All one ever hears about is men getting no sex from their wives. But no man ever stops to look in the mirror and ask 'could it be me'?

There are plenty of men who get lots of fulfilling sex from their partners, and I'd wager one common trait amongst all these men is they don't spend much time complaining about their partners because they know they should be focusing on themselves.

[Eddikok]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

I have been lurking around without posting. I have a question for married man.

I have 2 kids and a beautiful wife. However, i feel like nothing but just a husand to my wife, father to my kids, and employee to my boss.

I have no hobbies, no interest and rarely feel joy in life. Sometime i feel like crying for no reason.

Going for massage is my form my weekly happiness. The small talk with ML. I make it a point to not repeat ML so not to develop feeling.

Any married man facing same issue?

your situation is very common. somehow with sg women, once they become mothers, they somehow forget their husbands . not all but there is a growing trend.

I have friends with loving wives that literally do everything for them, and they are super faithful to their wives and will lay down their life for their wife kind.

but then i also have friends whereby, after 10 yrs marriage, 2 kids , wife is always tired everyday regardless of how much help there is at home and in a bad mood. well, it is what it is..

[LauAdi]

Originally Posted by Hidan88

I have been lurking around without posting. I have a question for married man.

I have 2 kids and a beautiful wife. However, i feel like nothing but just a husand to my wife, father to my kids, and employee to my boss.

I have no hobbies, no interest and rarely feel joy in life. Sometime i feel like crying for no reason.

Going for massage is my form my weekly happiness. The small talk with ML. I make it a point to not repeat ML so not to develop feeling.

Any married man facing same issue?

You are not alone.
Sometimes after women become mums, they forget they are still wives and men are still men.

Do you think your wife still cares for you? Maybe you can try telling her how to care for you.
Sports may help, but you sound like you need companionship and intimacy, so it might not be the solution.

But one thing really good is you never develop KC for the ML.
Steer clear. You have enough to handle.

[gerber88]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

You are not alone.
Sometimes after women become mums, they forget they are still wives and men are still men.

Do you think your wife still cares for you? Maybe you can try telling her how to care for you.
Sports may help, but you sound like you need companionship and intimacy, so it might not be the solution.

But one thing really good is you never develop KC for the ML.
Steer clear. You have enough to handle.

agreed. somehow women prioritise the children over the husbands when they become mothers.. they forget they are wives .

this is a real woman issue. for those unmarried or about to get married, best to talk about this subject to your partner before getting married.

i told a few friends that post portum is a real problem, before they had kids, the coupled work it out and they are handling parenthood well.

all the best to the bro..

[LauAdi]

Originally Posted by gerber88

agreed. somehow women prioritise the children over the husbands when they become mothers.. they forget they are wives .

this is a real woman issue. for those unmarried or about to get married, best to talk about this subject to your partner before getting married.

i told a few friends that post portum is a real problem, before they had kids, the coupled work it out and they are handling parenthood well.

all the best to the bro..

Yeah all the best to the bro…but also keep in mind sometimes when a woman give up liao she will just see you as an enemy
By then time to up lorry just have to move on

[sane]

Choosing the right partner is like entering a business partnership.

Both of you need to share the same goals — just like partners working toward the same outcome.

Think of it as a team.

Have you planned for things like:

* Family goals
* Whether to have kids
* Who wakes up at night
* Who changes diapers
* Who spends more time with the children
* Who plans ahead vs who executes
* Financial responsibilities — who pays more, how to manage money
* Each person’s role in the household

This is no different from work.

The only difference is —
you can quit a job, but you can’t simply walk away from a family.

Like any team, you need:

* Someone who can lead when needed
* Someone who can plan
* Someone who can execute

And most importantly — communication.

When your partner is unhappy:

* Do you blame?
* Or do you listen and work toward a solution?

This partnership between two people is very much like a working relationship.

You either have the rapport — or you don’t.

But beyond that, you must have the ability to:

* Talk openly
* Solve problems together
* Plan ahead
* Execute as a team

That’s what makes it work.

[Foden5]

What if the wife is totally not interested in sex?

[LauAdi]

Originally Posted by Foden5

What if the wife is totally not interested in sex?

Gotta make a choice loh
What can she tolerate?
I got a friend not even allowed to pcc, damn poor thing

[Foden5]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

Gotta make a choice loh
What can she tolerate?
I got a friend not even allowed to pcc, damn poor thing

Ok your friend more sad la, i still can pcc, hahaha

[owlette]

Originally Posted by Foden5

What if the wife is totally not interested in sex?

i think like another bro mentioned, some times we may have to ask ourselves whether we are the problem.

like my friend share with me the kind of sex he have with the wife. little to no foreplay, rub her abit, start to wet, he just stick it in and f already. finish already, just go shower clean up

if i his wife, i also not interested to have sex with him lol

[LauAdi]

Originally Posted by Foden5

Ok your friend more sad la, i still can pcc, hahaha

Haha you are one level above him
Once his wife caught him fapping to jav and she fined him $$ to show his remorse
Kena caught go for hj she wanna divorce and get half his assets
No wonder less people want to marry sg women

[reborne01]

Originally Posted by sane

Choosing the right partner is like entering a business partnership.

Both of you need to share the same goals — just like partners working toward the same outcome.

Think of it as a team.

Have you planned for things like:

* Family goals
* Whether to have kids
* Who wakes up at night
* Who changes diapers
* Who spends more time with the children
* Who plans ahead vs who executes
* Financial responsibilities — who pays more, how to manage money
* Each person’s role in the household

This is no different from work.

The only difference is —
you can quit a job, but you can’t simply walk away from a family.

Like any team, you need:

* Someone who can lead when needed
* Someone who can plan
* Someone who can execute

And most importantly — communication.

When your partner is unhappy:

* Do you blame?
* Or do you listen and work toward a solution?

This partnership between two people is very much like a working relationship.

You either have the rapport — or you don’t.

But beyond that, you must have the ability to:

* Talk openly
* Solve problems together
* Plan ahead
* Execute as a team

That’s what makes it work.

I believe we all know communication is important but as with everything it is a 2 way street. In this predicament, both side must be willing to talk and not run or hide.

Sadly as we progress the definition of a home has changed alot. habits and ways of living change. What makes a house a home? We can only define it for ourselves.

[moremorepls]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

Haha you are one level above him
Once his wife caught him fapping to jav and she fined him $$ to show his remorse
Kena caught go for hj she wanna divorce and get half his assets
No wonder less people want to marry sg women

Wah this type of wife sibei scary.

Actually why man pcc the woman also cannot accept? Don't want give pussy, don't want husband pcc, then want him go out find ML and FL???