from F##k Service to Friendship, Possible ?

[yellownelly]

bro, thanks for waking up my idea. hard to talk to any one to knock some sense into me. this forum is good to wake up my idea. appreciate it

[happytree123]

Originally Posted by yellownelly

Bro,thanks for the advice. I guess it's me 自作多情, hence leading to the overwhelming 占有心.

on one hand, I want her to be happy and earn more (I am not flushed with cash and she knows and understand) but yet at times, my mind is toxic with thoughts of her bonking and moaning with other customers.

we talked about this and she told me that it's her job and I am special to her. but really cannot permanently surpress these thoughts.

guess one way to protect myself is to don't care so much and treat it like a play thing

The 5 words very dangerous one, machiam like hallucination love potion.

Just take note that you probably only can see her like 1 hour each time. The other few hours, she could be either talking praise or trash about you.

This business is really just playing their respective roles. Her role is really to suck salty dicks and get fucked by all kind of men (from yandao to Uncle) each time. All else is secondary. Getting high from it can be like a bonus to her (cos at least she got some pleasure out of it)

At the end of the day, she eventually will leave and move on to a better life maybe with another rich bro back home. There is hardly any future to talk of cos she is not gonna come back. By then, another batch of girls gonna come in and this cycle of puppy love will come back again

Always come back to reality and all will turn out well eventually.

Cheers

[chrix]

Originally Posted by yellownelly

Bro,thanks for the advice. I guess it's me 自作多情, hence leading to the overwhelming 占有心.

on one hand, I want her to be happy and earn more (I am not flushed with cash and she knows and understand) but yet at times, my mind is toxic with thoughts of her bonking and moaning with other customers.

we talked about this and she told me that it's her job and I am special to her. but really cannot permanently surpress these thoughts.

guess one way to protect myself is to don't care so much and treat it like a play thing

You are welcome Bro.

Just remember that they are cocksleeves who are here to serve you.

Not the other way round and you go be a simp to serve them.

[electronics]

Originally Posted by yellownelly

any advice to handle the 占有心 toxic thought of WL bonking other customers, talking endlessly about them.

I experienced something similar recently.

In the past, we have other topics to chat. But recently, she would tell me what the customers buy for her, which restaurants she went to, what fine dining she eat, etc.

I know is the end of our connection.

Is painful when things were much simpler when she would enjoy doing normal stuff like bowling, movies, cycling in the past.

[Matman36]

Originally Posted by happytree123

You scared money loss, heart loss or both

Just enter with the right mindset and all will be well when you exit the game

Both yes haha.. They have advanced game. I prefer simpler Thai or Viet village girls

[Vangard]

Originally Posted by unfit

both guys and girls sama sama

we can open other doors

but we dislike people opening our door

so lady also curious about other keys

they wouldn’t want to stick to one master key

be it WL FL ML Ktv girl cos they are all women

my friends married ex WLs also forbids hubby go GL

Birds with the same feather, flock together, all kanna gong tao, just because got extra benefits. Haiyaaa

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by Topper

Wah, boh hua leh. Might as well pay for Rent-A-Babe for 2 hours, prettier, younger and cheaper

https://rentbabe.com/en/rent

100% agree with you good sir.

When you try to cuddle up a little to your 'rent a babe' and she cry molest then the 尻川烧

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by electronics

I experienced something similar recently.

In the past, we have other topics to chat. But recently, she would tell me what the customers buy for her, which restaurants she went to, what fine dining she eat, etc.

I know is the end of our connection.

Is painful when things were much simpler when she would enjoy doing normal stuff like bowling, movies, cycling in the past.

These relationships are inherently extremely challenging and difficult for 2 reasons

1. WE meet one gal in a day and she makes us feel good so have positive feeling
2. She meet 10 boy boy. All fuck her. How good can she feel

She come with the explicit aim of making money ....

When she is 'your gal' and then another bro is going into the room with her, then what it will do to your brain you have to experience to truly know

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by happytree123

The 5 words very dangerous one, machiam like hallucination love potion.

Always come back to reality and all will turn out well eventually.

Cheers

I beg to differ. Not saying it applies to everyone ......but there is also a chance that at some stage 20 years, 30 years you will be so jaded by this you will stop coming and cuming. Ok the second part applies to when you cannot Mari Kita.

If you are single, find a nice sinkie gal so that you can be as miserable as many of the married folks here

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by evantoh

I agree
If the wl likes you, regardless thai, viet or prc. They will report strength when they wake up, msg or call you during their free time, rush off work to see you.

You can expect not less than 20msg per day or 4~5calls per day. They will do what normal girls do when they fall in love.

So ya, you will know. Those going for the money, their msg is diff.

I was expecting president unfit to say this - if they really like you, you will get the creampie on tap and without having to ask for it.

sibei shiok and actually makes you a younger man

[Dignified69]

Apologies for spamming this thread, making up for the lost months.

Anyway, I planning to take my game to the next level.

Will make her my 'girl friend / friend with benefits' in her home country.

I visit every 2-3 months, can piak piak for 2-3 days, do the romantic things oso. Pay some amount per meeting. Visit on safe days so can have warm wet and slippery fun. Will make my horlicks more gao gao

in the meanwhile largely (to the extent possible) withdraw from GL. Already done nearly 20 year tour of duty so been there done that

Focus on health and business in the meantime ...

save a truckload of money ( I think in the last few months I have spent on her 4-6K)

[evantoh]

Actually, we keep reading many handsome posts here.....

We meet someone in school, at the workplace, in a nightclub, in other places, If two people hit it off, have feelings for each other and genuinely want to make things work, what does their past have to do with it?

What I find strange is that WL in GL seem to be labelled as people who are destined never to find true love. Yet, a girl who has had many boyfriends in other social circles can still find someone who genuinely loves her, even if her social life has been just as complicated.

At the end of the day, everyone has a past. Just that, we happen to know their past. What matters is who they are today, and the future is an unknown.

If two people genuinely connect, why should the circumstances of how they met or the lives they lived before define their chances of finding true love?

Just something off my head. Just wonder......

[evantoh]

Handsome, you visit every month?
Hahahaha

If you are in china, jio me. I already here for months already. Hahahaha

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by evantoh

Actually, we keep reading many handsome posts here.....

We meet someone in school, at the workplace, in a nightclub, in other places, If two people hit it off, have feelings for each other and genuinely want to make things work, what does their past have to do with it?

What I find strange is that WL in GL seem to be labelled as people who are destined never to find true love. Yet, a girl who has had many boyfriends in other social circles can still find someone who genuinely loves her, even if her social life has been just as complicated.

At the end of the day, everyone has a past. Just that, we happen to know their past. What matters is who they are today, and the future is an unknown.

If two people genuinely connect, why should the circumstances of how they met or the lives they lived before define their chances of finding true love?

Just something off my head. Just wonder......

Agree with you. The real factors which make it maybe more difficult is 1. They have found a way of making money by opening their legs. This can definitely distort the way of thinking. 2. I would suspect the more substantive issue is what this work does to their mental health.

When CPU is impacted many normal things cannot happen.

In any case I plan to be the mini Evan Toh. No bao and all this, but three month rotating tour of duty to enjoy with one special person in a far away land.

[heroi111]

Agreed. Once they leave GL, they are normal women.
Back to China as normal people.
They can still find true love and live a normal life.