is money necessary to seduce PRC girls

[qsnake]

there has been a number of threads on the seduction of PRC girls. Most of the techniques involve money. Is it necessary to use money to seduce these girls ? I've also read seduction techniques on the internet that did not use money as bait, but rather force of personality. I've met girls in China, who were attracted to me, just based on who I am, not how much I have in the bank, but these are few and far between. I'm trying to improve on the hit success ratio. From first hand experience, I know that money is a big magnet for these girls. Once I got to know them, and hinted that I might "bao" them, almost all rose to the bait. Would like to know the experiences of bros here who has tried non monetary techniques, especially on PRC girls, which I find to be more materialistic compared to Singapore girls. The good thing about Singapore girls are that they are financially independent. The not so good thing about Singapore girls is that they don't hold a candle to the PRC girls in terms of looks.
The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

[machinehead1234]

The part about "in high esteem" and "ticket out of the country" seems outdated. I know of many successful PRC ladies who prefer to date their local men, just because of cultural familiarities. No offence, but perhaps you should shed light on the specific locality of these PRC girls...perhaps in second-tier cities?

there has been a number of threads on the seduction of PRC girls. Most of the techniques involve money. Is it necessary to use money to seduce these girls ? I've also read seduction techniques on the internet that did not use money as bait, but rather force of personality. I've met girls in China, who were attracted to me, just based on who I am, not how much I have in the bank, but these are few and far between. I'm trying to improve on the hit success ratio. From first hand experience, I know that money is a big magnet for these girls. Once I got to know them, and hinted that I might "bao" them, almost all rose to the bait. Would like to know the experiences of bros here who has tried non monetary techniques, especially on PRC girls, which I find to be more materialistic compared to Singapore girls. The good thing about Singapore girls are that they are financially independent. The not so good thing about Singapore girls is that they don't hold a candle to the PRC girls in terms of looks.
The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

[Erasure]

Dear TS,

I'm one of the genius who didn't use money to attract them to me...I simply gave them Gucci bags, LV, bring them eat fancy restaurants....and they can't get enuf of me....:D

[Mankok]

...The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

Within 20 years things will change as China is rapidly becoming a super-power. Within 20 years Angmoh can go and lick their own asses.

[Mahalapa]

i believe in mind set,if we approach gals going for easy $$$ sure they stick ard s11. those whose mindset believe in fate then u r in luck :)

[Stud00]

Hi Bro T.S and fellow Bros,

I personally think that it's bullshit to use money, cars, gifts to attract Gals of any sort. In the first place, if i have to use money to get this gals to hook on me, then i am pretty sure that they are pure suckers. I rather use the money on my loved ones or even invest it on something productive.

Maybe, i am speaking from a point because i am not well to do like some of the bros in here. But, yeah.. it's bullshit to spending money on them, unless of course for some wierd reasons, you meet a rare gal and shes really wifey type.

Just my personal opinion, no intention to offend anyone!

[Private88]

I think this question is too general... in most cases, 99% I supposed, the working girls (from KTVs or sauna) in CN will stick to you like glue when they know you are from other countries and hinted to them you want to BAO them. Hence, money is very important especially to open door for them to take notice of you...

However, if you are talking about decent PRC ladies on the street, then courting them will be like going after any girls regardless where they are from. I found it easier to approach Shanghai girls as they normally are very open and warm with foreigners. With a bit of personality and luck, it is possible to get a high quality SHA GF but prepare to spend big on gifts, as well as be prepared to marry them...

Also, the quality of these PRC girls also play a big factor, if you are talking about 5/10 or 6/10 look kind of girls, chances that they are easier and cheaper to "attack" as compared to other higher grade girls. Many years ago, I tried to go after a sweet innocent 22 yrs old university grad lady (from Sichuan) working in SHA with look of 8.5/10, however, she is a very serious person only looking for marriage, I have no choice but to brake halfway...

In short, using money will open lots of opportunities for you to meet the PRC girls especially those working in clubs/sauna. However, if you are looking to check out innocent PRC mei mei, then you would probably need more than $$$ to turn on the magic :cool:

[qsnake]

The part about "in high esteem" and "ticket out of the country" seems outdated. I know of many successful PRC ladies who prefer to date their local men, just because of cultural familiarities. No offence, but perhaps you should shed light on the specific locality of these PRC girls...perhaps in second-tier cities?

you're right with the successful PRC ladies. However, most working class PRC girls who's on 3000 to 5000 yuan a month will find it difficult to get out of the country for vacation. To get to Singapore, they have to pay a deposit of 5000 yuan (I think), to get to say Europe or the US, that goes up to 30,000 yuan for the deposit. The deposit stays with the govt till they're back. I think the govt is afraid the people will defect when overseas. :) Probably not such a problem now. Anyway, that's what I understand from this girl I know, or maybe she's pulling a fast one and wants me to give her the deposit money. :) Bros here can verify with their China COs.

On another note, most white collar workers in Shanghai are getting 3000 to 5000 yuan a month (less than 5 years experience), comparable to Singapore (if currency is 1 to 1). However, the cost of living is way up. Taxi rides starts from 12 yuan, bowl of noodle starts from 10 yuan. If you convert that on a 1 to 1 basis (currency exchange), you'll know that they don't have much savings.

Of course there are exceptional ones who are very rich. The rich are much richer than the rich Singaporeans cos' the market is so much bigger than Singapore and the rich normally has connections.

[jasen]

Well, my humble view on this is real simple. In every country, there are all kinds of people. In Singapore also we have those materialistic girl whom choose man base on their $. The fact that China is growing and Singapore is so call :established" country makes those girls wanna come/marry here. The fact that S$1 = RMB$5 only enhance it. Most general workers in China earns about the same as Singapore but the currency exchange makes Singapore more attractive.

[tryying]

As long u got $ for helping them to rent a room, u got a big car to drive them ard, they sure yours in the end. That's what I know lor. :D

[billgates]

Truth be told, money is necessary to seduce ANY girls, even your wife and loved ones.

For married men, try NOT giving any money to your wife for household maintenance and she will kick you out of the house.

I had a local gf once who knows her stuff, branded limited edition handbags, fancy restaurants etc. Guess who ends up paying?

For gals in China, they want stuff, too. But they are more easily contented. For eg: a China gf has no objections at all if you bring her to a roadside stall for dinner (maybe exceptions for city gals from SHA, BJ or HK).

IMHO it's much cheaper to maintain a PRC gal than a local one in the long run. The other factors are, PRC gals are much more prettier, cuter, sexier etc. Sometimes I look at my friends' local wives/gfs and I can't help feeling sorry for them. Most of them looks older than their age.

[stephan]

钱不是万能的，但没钱确实万万不能。。。 :p

[AAdam]

As the saying goes:

Money is not everything

BUT everything needs money.

My humble view is not whether : Is Money necessary to seduce PRC girls?

But rather the appropriate question should be: " How much money is needed to seduce girls?

First, everone & everything has a price tag. The only difference is which market are we buying it from. For example a can of Coke has different prices too. Compare the price of coke among kopitiam, foodcourt, & hotels.

Second, then it will be how much are you willing to pay for the can of coke.Base on the price you are willing to pay & you then have no choice but to buy it from the right place.

In summary, everything needs money......Question is HOW MUCH are you willing to pay.

Buy gifts need money cos it depends on the gift.

Thank You.......

[simple2kee]

In summary, everything needs money......Question is HOW MUCH are you willing to pay.


yes i do agree. question is how much can i AFFORD to pay rather than willing?
DO NOT pay more than u can afford. :)

[qsnake]

For gals in China, they want stuff, too. But they are more easily contented. For eg: a China gf has no objections at all if you bring her to a roadside stall for dinner (maybe exceptions for city gals from SHA, BJ or HK).



girls from SHA have higher expectations now. This girl I know wanted to bring me to a 4000yuan restaurant for a Japanese dinner for 2. I guess her ex Hong Kong boyfriend must have splurged on her. Especially in Shanghai where the rich congregates, the pretty girls there are pampered with the lifestyle of the rich and famous. Roadside stalls are no longer acceptable.

[qsnake]

yes i do agree. question is how much can i AFFORD to pay rather than willing?
DO NOT pay more than u can afford. :)

in most cases, what I'm willing to pay is a lot less than what I can afford to pay. :)

[justl00king]

Why need to throw money to seduce these PRC girls?

Just pay for their services and get it over with. ;) :p

[wulie]

Hello there,

well my case is simple ,i first lure my PRC gf with money first say at 10k,after that she really fell for me until i was deadly broke ,she starts to spend on me even ask her family menbers to send it over to help me. more then 10k for a period of 10mths.


my ex wife first pay for everthings before and during marriage.now she wants everything of my half and even ask for 1k every month.

i rest my case is that whether it is local or PRC ladies,WHO KNOWS THE RULE BETTER (women charter) that will be more expensive to breed even after breaking off.(in term of marriage) ha ha ha

[Absolute]

The part about "in high esteem" and "ticket out of the country" seems outdated. I know of many successful PRC ladies who prefer to date their local men, just because of cultural familiarities. No offence, but perhaps you should shed light on the specific locality of these PRC girls...perhaps in second-tier cities?

This is true.

In the same way, there are some Singaporean women whom I have encountered telling me that they still prefer to marry local men.

[qsnake]

This is true.

In the same way, there are some Singaporean women whom I have encountered telling me that they still prefer to marry local men.

I think it cuts both ways. Some girls like the differences in culture, there's something new and exciting in discovering a new culture, while some girls prefer a familiar culture. I've met both types of girls. I've a few friends who have married outside of their culture, these are the more adventurous type. The caucasian look with their sharp features might appeal to some girls. Normally in Asian countries, the caucasians here are on expat terms, which means they are in high level management positions. I would say about 60% to 70% of expats are fairly well to do. Girls are always attracted to money and these caucasians are players too.

[BigBoy2]

Hi Bros,

Just to share.........

IS MONEY NECESSARY TO SEDUCE PRC GIRLS?

Well according to my knowledge and commonly shared views here by many Bros, its a matter of how much...... therefore, ITS NECESSARY TO HAVE MONEY.......

Its not only PRCs, any nationality anywhere in this world, unless you looks like Mr Universe, Tom Cruise, or some very handsome guy, otherwise you have to pay. Its only a matter of how much.

From my own experience, you would only need to show them what you are capable of, lure them into your so call trap...... when she is hooked, then how much is relative.... it all depend on yourself. How much can you pay, and how much you would want to pay.

Like myself, I drives a European car and most of the time, PRCs and local alike will be hooked. As I am still single and am commanding a fairly good salary monthly, therefore I can spend freely.

However, I always play by the book........ Never, never have any "meals" free. You will need to pay in $$ or in terms of gift. With this one will never goes wrong, also never bring the gal back to your place, its only $20 or $120for the night. Do not save on these as it will spell BIG TROUBLE for you if things turn sour.

Just my 2 cents worth....... and some little experience which I would like to share it here.

[honii]

Its not really necessary as it depends on what kind of PRC girls you are talking about. However, if you are asking if having tons of money helps you to seduce, then yes. It does help in one way or another. Anyway, if you have looks, girls and money will come your way.

[BT8888]

Why need to throw money to seduce these PRC girls?

Just pay for their services and get it over with. ;) :p


For me, I second to that totally.

Nothing is free.


But, nowadays, China is no more the old China.

In the past, 毛泽东提倡无神论, after ‘改革开放’, less than ten percentages of Chinese have religion. Most of them believe that ‘cash is king’. Thus they said, ‘钱可以解决的问题, 就不是问题.’

From the news, you guys should know what ‘富二代’ (2nd generation of the wealthy families) is.

Watch this video clip:-


YouTube - 20090508??????????F1?? ???????? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PFt6mvILLXg&feature=related)



富二代 thought that money can buy everything under the sun. Just like a lady relative of mine.

She worked in 苏州 as a 厂长 (factory manageress) for about ten years. She is single but she kept at least two 小白脸. Both of them are younger than her. I believe that her partners are handsome and they can satisfy her needs.


So, is money necessary to seduce PRC guys?

[TommyPingPong]

I think the book "No Money no Honey" states the fact tat $ still a motivation for these ladies, unless u say it the non FL PRC gals liked waitresses, or the innocent office clerk.

[ilovelife.now]

there has been a number of threads on the seduction of PRC girls. ......
The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

Anywhere u go leh you need money to woo girls PRC or anywhere.. only 6.5/7 out of 10 looking girls will be easier to get because the more beautiful the gal the difficult it is 'keep' her..

[qsnake]

Hi Bros,

However, I always play by the book........ Never, never have any "meals" free. You will need to pay in $$ or in terms of gift. With this one will never goes wrong, also never bring the gal back to your place, its only $20 or $120for the night. Do not save on these as it will spell BIG TROUBLE for you if things turn sour.

Just my 2 cents worth....... and some little experience which I would like to share it here.

I can relate to the no free "meals" idea. However, there is a famous caucasian blogger who boasts that he has bedded countless PRC girls and has never paid them anything. He writes of his exploits in his blog. You might have heard of him on the web. I'm wondering how he does it.

[simple2kee]

I think the book "No Money no Honey" states the fact tat $ still a motivation.

yes i do agree with u. :)

[Peggie83]

I never believe using money to woo gals for a real bf-gf relationship, spending on normal restaurants & gifts is ok la
but not LV bags or Omega watches lol :)

So what if she is a 7/10 or 8/10 looker, that doesn't mean men are really dumb enough to spend this type of money.
I would prefer they (PRC gals) calling me a miser than calling me stupid behind my back :D

And I would also tell earning face value by owning luxury goods is very unrealistic & impractical ways of showing off :rolleyes:

Never mind if they got pissed off with words, one PRC gal stop calling me after I told her the above :D

[Unrepented]

IMO, all PRC girls have to look for "meal tickets" because survival in china is key, love is secondary.

Ang Mo get girls because majority of china chinese still have the inferior complex and place Ang Mo above themselves. So if ang mo guy fancies them, these girls feels very privileged. Moreover, these PRC girls are also curious and want to find out how an ang mo cock feels;)

I have seen PRC girls feeling proud hanging around gangster Africans in china too. It sort of gives these PRC girls some reference power. I think, the same goes for being with other foreigners, like sinkies, american, etc.

Still money talks louder.

[BigBoy2]

I believe that "Ang Mo" are big targets to these PRCs..... For a simple fact that most of these PRCs wants a one way ticket out of CHina, and if they are able to cling on to these "Ang Mo" for good then, they will be given this one way ticket.

For us Chinese Asians are abit tough for them as we look just like then except that they might think that we are from different part of China thats all. Just to state an example. I am sometimes required to go to Shanghai as our head office have got a factory there.

I was there many a times and more often I will be walking down Nanjing Lu as I stays near there.

There is this once that I am with my "Ang Mo" guy from Europe and while we were walking down, we have met more then 3 ladies trying to strike up a conversation with us. When I am alone, it seldom happen.

I think this is just 1 theory.... Maybe there are more, I do not know.

As for branded stuff....... Its very individual. When you belongs to certain click and certain income bracket..... You will automatically being sweep into this category.

I also want a small car, but due to work, business, I am not allowed to do so due to various reasons...... After you have a chance to drive a decent car, then you will discover that not only the performance, and the safety aspect of it, you will want to continue to own such cars...... Besides that, you are, and will be treated more differently by valets, in hotel lobbies, with security in places that you visit, like condos, factories, offices, etc. Trust me...its a different ball game all together.

Let not cry sour grapes...... but once you been there you will be able to tell the difference.

No offence, but just my 2 cents worth.

[Mekatulia]

But, nowadays, China is no more the old China.

In the past, 毛泽东提倡无神论, after ‘改革开放’, less than ten percentages of Chinese have religion.

Hi Bro,

Just offering my 5cents worth, the Chinese culture whether modern or olden, is already 无神论, or as a matter of fact - 无宗教信仰

The deities or Gods that Chinese worship, are infact people, e.g. Confucius, 关公, 岳飞, 诸葛亮.

This can be traced all the way back to 周朝

So the credit cannot go to 毛主席 only :D

[BT8888]

Hi Bro,

Just offering my 5cents worth, the Chinese culture whether modern or olden, is already 无神论, or as a matter of fact - 无宗教信仰

The deities or Gods that Chinese worship, are infact people, e.g. Confucius, 关公, 岳飞, 诸葛亮.

This can be traced all the way back to 周朝

So the credit cannot go to 毛主席 only :D


Bro

You may be right.

But, my point is:-

Since there was a ‘void’ in term of belief and China economy was flying like a rocket during the last twenty years, the ‘void’ was filled up by ‘物质财富’ (MONEY AND MATERIALIZE).

So, majority of the Chinese were worshiping ’物质财富’. Like I have mentioned before, they thought that ’钱可以解决的问题, 就不是问题.’

I recalled last year, I read some reports mentioned that after Sichuan Earthquake, many Chinese went to Sichuan as volunteers to help the poor. Then, the Chinese realized that there is existence of ‘人情’ in China.

The above-mentioned is my 2 cents view.


Nice talking to you. This is not a right forum to discuss about serious topic. I’ll stop here.

Have a nice weekend! :)

[Big Semens]

1. What is become a luxury item to some people has become a necessity item to some.
2. PRC are usually very face conscious, so they like to brag about rich bf and electronics goods and luxury items

Examples, it is a necessity now to have a notebook (for playing QQ, SONY and Apple brand preferred), mobile phone (now want Apple), bags (LV and Gucci preferred), wear perfumes (Chanel, Gucci preferred), digital cam (Sony, Canon) .....

So if you want to seduce them or bed them, get ready all these stuff. Sure can.....

Once I buy them a bouquet of flower, then kanna fuck ! Because outside their kampung house got a lot wild flower/grass/plants. Say why not give gold chain ??? :eek:

[scorpionnn]

One of my personal experience :

Ex-gf A
Me : What you feel like having for your b'day present?
Ex-gf A : hmm... that day I saw this Guess bag, very nice leh
Me : you serious, expensive leh
Ex-gf A : mmm... darling, don't like that lah, I really like it
Me : ok lor

I didn't buy the bag, as I came up with a cock excuse to break up with her 2 weeks before her birthday

Ex-gf B(Found out later she knew ex-gf A)
Me : What you feel like having for your b'day present?
Ex-gf B : hmm, nothing specific leh, most I need, I have liao. Aiya, don't waste money lah, we go for a nice dinner, I happy liao
Me : huh? you sure you don't need or want anything?
Ex-gf B : Yes, baby. My greatest present is you celebrating for me :eek:
Me : ok lor

On her big day, I appeared with a nice bouquet of 12 tulips and a Tag Heuer watch. :D

Morale of story : As one bro mentioned, not the affordability, but more on the willingness, however, necessity, still yes, irregardless of nationality.

[BMW Lover]

1. What is become a luxury item to some people has become a necessity item to some.
2. PRC are usually very face conscious, so they like to brag about rich bf and electronics goods and luxury items

Examples, it is a necessity now to have a notebook (for playing QQ, SONY and Apple brand preferred), mobile phone (now want Apple), bags (LV and Gucci preferred), wear perfumes (Chanel, Gucci preferred), digital cam (Sony, Canon) .....

So if you want to seduce them or bed them, get ready all these stuff. Sure can.....

Once I buy them a bouquet of flower, then kanna fuck ! Because outside their kampung house got a lot wild flower/grass/plants. Say why not give gold chain ??? :eek:

Bro
How about car?
Is my car good enough to seduce them?


Just joking lah. :) :) :)

[Roll Mario]

钱不是万能的，但没钱确实万万不能。。。 :p

钱不是问题，问题是我没有钱。

Money is Not Important, Important Things is I got no money. :p

[Mekatulia]

Bro

You may be right.

But, my point is:-

Since there was a ‘void’ in term of belief and China economy was flying like a rocket during the last twenty years, the ‘void’ was filled up by ‘物质财富’ (MONEY AND MATERIALIZE).

So, majority of the Chinese were worshiping ’物质财富’. Like I have mentioned before, they thought that ’钱可以解决的问题, 就不是问题.’


The above-mentioned is my 2 cents view.


Nice talking to you. This is not a right forum to discuss about serious topic. I’ll stop here.

Have a nice weekend! :)

Bro,

Don't worry, I am not asking for confirmation. And my point is (overly simplified way of putting it), China historically was like that, is still like that, and will probably be like that for ages to come. So i don't see no reason why everything needs to be attributed to just developments made in the last 20+ years.

Is this a serious topic? Pardon me, I didn't know. :D

By the way, if anybody can tell me which country, don't need money (or some form of economic benefits) to seduce the girl? :p

[qsnake]

Bro,

By the way, if anybody can tell me which country, don't need money (or some form of economic benefits) to seduce the girl? :p

this guy did seduce girls without money.
Chinabounder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinabounder)
..... or maybe he's not telling it. :)
Anyway, as an English teacher, I don't think he earns the big bucks and based on the number of girls he's bedded, it would be quite a drain on his financial resources. He's the reason why I started this thread. I wanted to see if a non caucasian can duplicate what he has done.

[Mekatulia]

this guy did seduce girls without money.
Chinabounder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinabounder)
..... or maybe he's not telling it. :)
Anyway, as an English teacher, I don't think he earns the big bucks and based on the number of girls he's bedded, it would be quite a drain on his financial resources. He's the reason why I started this thread. I wanted to see if a non caucasian can duplicate what he has done.

Hi,

Judging from the posts in this thread, there is no lack of great writers in the forum. This English bloke now even has a published title under his name! wow!

Hmm... and I am not sure if I can find his book under fiction or non-fiction? :D

[69kmph]

IMO, .....

Ang Mo get girls because majority of china chinese still have the inferior complex and place Ang Mo above themselves. So if ang mo guy fancies them, these girls feels very privileged. Moreover, these PRC girls are also CURIOUS AND WANT TO FIND OUT HOW AN ANG MO COCK FEELS;)

Well said!

I was at a pub during Halloween weekend. There was this pretty girl with a group of friends. When she discovered I am Chinese Singaporean, she immediately said she was waiting for a friend to join them, so I exited her vicinity.

Fast forward an hour or so later, this ang mo came in with a plain-looking PRC Chinese girl, hand-in-hand. Immediately, the pretty girl was all over the ang mo. Her body language signalled that she was ready for a good fcuk that night.

When I left the pub that night, I couldn't help noticing the plain Jane girl being alone by herself ..... I wish I could tell her not to worship an ang mo cock for it's really no big deal but it'd be more effective if she realized that on her own.

Even in language schools all over China, an ang mo teacher is seen as the de facto standard even though many of them cannot speak or write proper English as we Singaporeans can. Sad but true: parents pay a bomb for such sub-standard ang mo teachers in China. Hence, image and perception counts alot

[qsnake]

Well said!

I was at a pub during Halloween weekend. There was this pretty girl with a group of friends. When she discovered I am Chinese Singaporean, she immediately said she was waiting for a friend to join them, so I exited her vicinity.

Fast forward an hour or so later, this ang mo came in with a plain-looking PRC Chinese girl, hand-in-hand. Immediately, the pretty girl was all over the ang mo. Her body language signalled that she was ready for a good fcuk that night.

When I left the pub that night, I couldn't help noticing the plain Jane girl being alone by herself ..... I wish I could tell her not to worship an ang mo cock for it's really no big deal but it'd be more effective if she realized that on her own.

Even in language schools all over China, an ang mo teacher is seen as the de facto standard even though many of them cannot speak or write proper English as we Singaporeans can. Sad but true: parents pay a bomb for such sub-standard ang mo teachers in China. Hence, image and perception counts alot

so the China girls are still impressed with ang moh's in today's age and technology. I find that very difficult to understand. Most of the China girl's English is only passable at best (I know there are exceptions). How do they communicate at a deeper level with the caucasians ?

[qsnake]

Hi,

Judging from the posts in this thread, there is no lack of great writers in the forum. This English bloke now even has a published title under his name! wow!

Hmm... and I am not sure if I can find his book under fiction or non-fiction? :D

whether it's fiction or non fiction, the Chinese govt flexed it's muscles to close the site down. The bloke has since left China for fear of his safety. Pretty serious consequences for a work of fiction. From personal experiences, I would say the China girls are still partial to dating an ang moh vs a Chinese. The ang mohs are still seen as the upper class and having them on their arms brings the girls prestige. Having said that, there are other girls who don't date ang mohs because of the communication barrier. You can't really have a serious relationship if there's a duck and chicken talking. :)

[ansonsohna]

Once I buy them a bouquet of flower, then kanna fuck ! Because outside their kampung house got a lot wild flower/grass/plants. Say why not give gold chain ??? :eek:

bro semens .... i kena exactly the same! heng ah, lucky i buyer flower at market and not some flower boutique! :D
...KNS, if i know reaction like tat better use old newspaper and wrap instead of me spending moeny and time buying good wrapper and ribbon and taking so long to decorate the bouquet.

aso got one incident: i thot very the lo-man-tic, i folded 88 pieces of paper 'mini' crane for prc mei as 'gift'. thot she will be 感动.... kena mock some more .... say shud use dollar notes/paper! :rolleyes:

[qsnake]

bro semens .... i kena exactly the same! heng ah, lucky i buyer flower at market and not some flower boutique! :D
...KNS, if i know reaction like tat better use old newspaper and wrap instead of me spending moeny and time buying good wrapper and ribbon and taking so long to decorate the bouquet.

aso got one incident: i thot very the lo-man-tic, i folded 88 pieces of paper 'mini' crane for prc mei as 'gift'. thot she will be 感动.... kena mock some more .... say shud use dollar notes/paper! :rolleyes:

these days, money is the most romantic gift. Just sign a cheque for 10,000 yuan and fold it into a crane. She'll cherish that crane for a long time, at least, all the way to the bank. :)

I feel the most romantic period is when one is still schooling. At that age, the girls are still such sweethearts. Once they join the work force, their materialistic gene gets turned on, and paper flowers made of $100 bills are the most romantic gift.