is money necessary to seduce PRC girls

[qsnake]

there has been a number of threads on the seduction of PRC girls. Most of the techniques involve money. Is it necessary to use money to seduce these girls ? I've also read seduction techniques on the internet that did not use money as bait, but rather force of personality. I've met girls in China, who were attracted to me, just based on who I am, not how much I have in the bank, but these are few and far between. I'm trying to improve on the hit success ratio. From first hand experience, I know that money is a big magnet for these girls. Once I got to know them, and hinted that I might "bao" them, almost all rose to the bait. Would like to know the experiences of bros here who has tried non monetary techniques, especially on PRC girls, which I find to be more materialistic compared to Singapore girls. The good thing about Singapore girls are that they are financially independent. The not so good thing about Singapore girls is that they don't hold a candle to the PRC girls in terms of looks.
The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

[machinehead1234]

The part about "in high esteem" and "ticket out of the country" seems outdated. I know of many successful PRC ladies who prefer to date their local men, just because of cultural familiarities. No offence, but perhaps you should shed light on the specific locality of these PRC girls...perhaps in second-tier cities?

Originally Posted by qsnake

there has been a number of threads on the seduction of PRC girls. Most of the techniques involve money. Is it necessary to use money to seduce these girls ? I've also read seduction techniques on the internet that did not use money as bait, but rather force of personality. I've met girls in China, who were attracted to me, just based on who I am, not how much I have in the bank, but these are few and far between. I'm trying to improve on the hit success ratio. From first hand experience, I know that money is a big magnet for these girls. Once I got to know them, and hinted that I might "bao" them, almost all rose to the bait. Would like to know the experiences of bros here who has tried non monetary techniques, especially on PRC girls, which I find to be more materialistic compared to Singapore girls. The good thing about Singapore girls are that they are financially independent. The not so good thing about Singapore girls is that they don't hold a candle to the PRC girls in terms of looks.
The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

[Erasure]

Dear TS,

I'm one of the genius who didn't use money to attract them to me...I simply gave them Gucci bags, LV, bring them eat fancy restaurants....and they can't get enuf of me....

[Mankok]

Originally Posted by qsnake

...The thing going for us Singaporeans in China, is that they hold us in high esteem and we're a ticket for them to get out of their country. We're like psuedo angmo who speaks Chinese and gets them to a foreign land. The only other foreign land that speaks Chinese is Taiwan, but they prefer Singapore.

Within 20 years things will change as China is rapidly becoming a super-power. Within 20 years Angmoh can go and lick their own asses.

[Mahalapa]

i believe in mind set,if we approach gals going for easy $$$ sure they stick ard s11. those whose mindset believe in fate then u r in luck

[Stud00]

Hi Bro T.S and fellow Bros,

I personally think that it's bullshit to use money, cars, gifts to attract Gals of any sort. In the first place, if i have to use money to get this gals to hook on me, then i am pretty sure that they are pure suckers. I rather use the money on my loved ones or even invest it on something productive.

Maybe, i am speaking from a point because i am not well to do like some of the bros in here. But, yeah.. it's bullshit to spending money on them, unless of course for some wierd reasons, you meet a rare gal and shes really wifey type.

Just my personal opinion, no intention to offend anyone!

[Private88]

I think this question is too general... in most cases, 99% I supposed, the working girls (from KTVs or sauna) in CN will stick to you like glue when they know you are from other countries and hinted to them you want to BAO them. Hence, money is very important especially to open door for them to take notice of you...

However, if you are talking about decent PRC ladies on the street, then courting them will be like going after any girls regardless where they are from. I found it easier to approach Shanghai girls as they normally are very open and warm with foreigners. With a bit of personality and luck, it is possible to get a high quality SHA GF but prepare to spend big on gifts, as well as be prepared to marry them...

Also, the quality of these PRC girls also play a big factor, if you are talking about 5/10 or 6/10 look kind of girls, chances that they are easier and cheaper to "attack" as compared to other higher grade girls. Many years ago, I tried to go after a sweet innocent 22 yrs old university grad lady (from Sichuan) working in SHA with look of 8.5/10, however, she is a very serious person only looking for marriage, I have no choice but to brake halfway...

In short, using money will open lots of opportunities for you to meet the PRC girls especially those working in clubs/sauna. However, if you are looking to check out innocent PRC mei mei, then you would probably need more than $$$ to turn on the magic

[qsnake]

Originally Posted by machinehead1234

The part about "in high esteem" and "ticket out of the country" seems outdated. I know of many successful PRC ladies who prefer to date their local men, just because of cultural familiarities. No offence, but perhaps you should shed light on the specific locality of these PRC girls...perhaps in second-tier cities?

you're right with the successful PRC ladies. However, most working class PRC girls who's on 3000 to 5000 yuan a month will find it difficult to get out of the country for vacation. To get to Singapore, they have to pay a deposit of 5000 yuan (I think), to get to say Europe or the US, that goes up to 30,000 yuan for the deposit. The deposit stays with the govt till they're back. I think the govt is afraid the people will defect when overseas. Probably not such a problem now. Anyway, that's what I understand from this girl I know, or maybe she's pulling a fast one and wants me to give her the deposit money. Bros here can verify with their China COs.

On another note, most white collar workers in Shanghai are getting 3000 to 5000 yuan a month (less than 5 years experience), comparable to Singapore (if currency is 1 to 1). However, the cost of living is way up. Taxi rides starts from 12 yuan, bowl of noodle starts from 10 yuan. If you convert that on a 1 to 1 basis (currency exchange), you'll know that they don't have much savings.

Of course there are exceptional ones who are very rich. The rich are much richer than the rich Singaporeans cos' the market is so much bigger than Singapore and the rich normally has connections.

[jasen]

Well, my humble view on this is real simple. In every country, there are all kinds of people. In Singapore also we have those materialistic girl whom choose man base on their $. The fact that China is growing and Singapore is so call :established" country makes those girls wanna come/marry here. The fact that S$1 = RMB$5 only enhance it. Most general workers in China earns about the same as Singapore but the currency exchange makes Singapore more attractive.

[tryying]

As long u got $ for helping them to rent a room, u got a big car to drive them ard, they sure yours in the end. That's what I know lor.

[billgates]

Truth be told, money is necessary to seduce ANY girls, even your wife and loved ones.

For married men, try NOT giving any money to your wife for household maintenance and she will kick you out of the house.

I had a local gf once who knows her stuff, branded limited edition handbags, fancy restaurants etc. Guess who ends up paying?

For gals in China, they want stuff, too. But they are more easily contented. For eg: a China gf has no objections at all if you bring her to a roadside stall for dinner (maybe exceptions for city gals from SHA, BJ or HK).

IMHO it's much cheaper to maintain a PRC gal than a local one in the long run. The other factors are, PRC gals are much more prettier, cuter, sexier etc. Sometimes I look at my friends' local wives/gfs and I can't help feeling sorry for them. Most of them looks older than their age.

[stephan]

钱不是万能的，但没钱确实万万不能。。。

[AAdam]

As the saying goes:

Money is not everything

BUT everything needs money.

My humble view is not whether : Is Money necessary to seduce PRC girls?

But rather the appropriate question should be: " How much money is needed to seduce girls?

First, everone & everything has a price tag. The only difference is which market are we buying it from. For example a can of Coke has different prices too. Compare the price of coke among kopitiam, foodcourt, & hotels.

Second, then it will be how much are you willing to pay for the can of coke.Base on the price you are willing to pay & you then have no choice but to buy it from the right place.

In summary, everything needs money......Question is HOW MUCH are you willing to pay.

Buy gifts need money cos it depends on the gift.

Thank You.......

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by AAdam

In summary, everything needs money......Question is HOW MUCH are you willing to pay.

yes i do agree. question is how much can i AFFORD to pay rather than willing?
DO NOT pay more than u can afford.

[qsnake]

Originally Posted by billgates

For gals in China, they want stuff, too. But they are more easily contented. For eg: a China gf has no objections at all if you bring her to a roadside stall for dinner (maybe exceptions for city gals from SHA, BJ or HK).

girls from SHA have higher expectations now. This girl I know wanted to bring me to a 4000yuan restaurant for a Japanese dinner for 2. I guess her ex Hong Kong boyfriend must have splurged on her. Especially in Shanghai where the rich congregates, the pretty girls there are pampered with the lifestyle of the rich and famous. Roadside stalls are no longer acceptable.