Sunday Times - 07/11/04

[jaxz]

hi guys...just curious whether anybody ever got massaged by Xiao Qing, 35 years old (she was featured in the Sunday Times 07/11/04).

the article wrote that she used to run a massage shop (2 in bedok & 1 in International Plaza) before she closed shop.

[mamamia]

Bro, as you mentioned her shop is already closed... why do you still want to know if anyone of us has been massaged by her??? You can still get her if we comment that her massage is good??? :confused: hi guys...just curious whether anybody ever got massaged by Xiao Qing, 35 years old the article wrote that she used to run a massage shop (2 in bedok & 1 in International Plaza) before she closed shop.

[Innoncent$]

Bro, as you mentioned her shop is already closed... why do you still want to know if anyone of us has been massaged by her??? You can still get her if we comment that her massage is good??? :confused:

Precisely! Why still look at the past??? :confused:

[maituleow]

Precisely! Why still look at the past??? :confused:

Ya Lor..if u so Kay poh go n buy the book ..she might have written her services n if u are lucky she might just name one of the samsters here by name..then u go n ask him... KIAM KAN!!!!

[Uncle911]

hi guys...just curious whether anybody ever got massaged by Xiao Qing, 35 years old (she was featured in the Sunday Times 07/11/04).

the article wrote that she used to run a massage shop (2 in bedok & 1 in International Plaza) before she closed shop.

Brother,...

What come to your mind? just speak la.

[dom01]

Halloo... Think u trying to tell us she offered specials to u? Shag her before?

I mean pls, mai lai.... PPL Happily Married liao... SO pls dun dig up her past. Tsk tsk... I believe in the Kharma, what comes around, goes around.

[jaxz]

wa liao...just asking a question & people start jumping for conclusion. :eek:

I mean pls, mai lai.... PPL Happily Married liao... SO pls dun dig up her past. Tsk tsk... I believe in the Kharma, what comes around, goes around.
Definitely you didn't read the article, but yet anyhow barking your comment here. If you read (or can read it), you won't anyhow say that she's married.

What come to your mind? just speak la.
As I mentioned, I just curious & tried to search in the old threads, but found nothing.

[jaxz]

Halloo... Think u trying to tell us she offered specials to u? Shag her before?
What a laugh...you surely have trouble in reading, don't you? Tell me which part of my posting in this thread that cause you saying the above? :cool:

[dom01]

I quote from STI
http://straitstimes.asia1.com.sg/sub/lifestyle/story/0,5562,283584-1099864740,00.html?

I've no sugar daddy

MS XIAO QING, 35, left the city of Qingdao in March 2001 with her daughter, then six.

The divorcee, who is pictured on the cover of LifeStyle, was in the silk export business in China.

She ran three massage parlours in Bedok and International Plaza with a Singaporean partner, but sold off her business after the Government prohibited study mothers from being masseuses.

She now writes for a hobby. In September last year, she published a Chinese book titled Where Will The Road Lead? It is based on the true stories of study mothers here. She has a Singaporean boyfriend, a 44-year-old businessman who is a divorcee.'My boyfriend is remarkable. He doesn't mind my past. It's a miracle that he can accept me, a woman from China. Chinese women are rather complicated. Some are only after the man's money. His perceptions of Chinese women have now changed because of me.

I know some people will say he's my sugar daddy. The point is, I don't live off him. I don't need to. I have my own properties in China. A lot of people from China are very rich, you know.

My past relationships were not too stable. I made mistakes. Now, I've grown up and I'm not wilful anymore.

When my daughter and I came here, we had to share a room in Balestier with another mother and daughter from China. There were altogether 10 of us living in the flat. The agent charged us $380 a month. We moved after 25 days.

We now live in a rented condominium apartment in Marine Parade. It costs $1,300 a month but we have the whole house to ourselves.

My first job here was as a beautician. The basic salary was $1,200 a month. I'd get $1 for every facial but I quit after two or three days. The pay was too low.

I decided to become a masseuse. My boss and I split the earnings and I could work flexible hours. I took home about $3,000 a month. That's where I met my boyfriend. He was my customer. He was amazed that I could talk to him about literature and stuff like that.

I started my own massage business after a year. I stopped serving customers, but my boyfriend would always joke and say: 'In that one year, you must have touched the bodies of at least a few thousand men.'

It's true that it's very easy to go astray in this business. You've got to have a very strong sense of self control and be able to discern right from wrong.

There are study mothers in this line who stay above-board, but there are also some black sheep. I've seen them steal, cheat and back-stab each other. You can't afford to offend some study mothers.

There are also study mothers who get involved with married men for their money. I could not tolerate that. Whatever you do, you shouldn't destroy other people's marriages.

That's why I understand why some Singaporeans are angry with study mothers.

I wrote the book to serve as a warning to my compatriots. My intention was not to wash dirty linen in public. But all my study mother friends were upset with me. They boycotted me and my book.

As for the Huang Na tragedy, I know of some study mothers who let their children run wild too. They're like yehaizi (wild children). What's the point of taking extra precautions only after something unfortunate has happened?

I don't regret coming to Singapore. It was here that I found the life I truly wanted to have. If I were still in China, I don't think I could become a writer.

My boyfriend is very supportive. To encourage me, he gives me $50 for every article I write for magazines and the Chinese papers. The monetary reward is just a token gesture. It's the thought behind it that touches me.

I don't know if we'll get married. I don't want him to think I'm marrying him just for the PR or citizenship status.

I don't know if I'll stay in Singapore in future. It depends on many factors. But right now, I'm happy to be leading a quiet and simple life.'

[dom01]

So i was wrong, She is attached. So what upZ? Look at all the replies, nobody understands why did u start a thread for.

Whatever it is, I dun wanna to start a war of words here with u. We r adults, if u think i hv offended u in anyway. Sorry, dude.

But indeed ur thread is very misleading. End of story, full stop.

[myelor]

Jaxz, just keep quiet. Otherwise your rep point will drop to zero! :cool:

[123456abcdef]

Jaxz, I am truly impressed by yr quick thinking to post this article to find out more on this study mama. Like u, I find it disgusting that someone like her whom, has opened a few TNs dares to act innocent and talks like she is different from the rest.

Bull shit?! Pardon me, how can anyone be so naive to believe what she says? Full of crabs! Who knows the next moment someone from GL might appear and claim she is clean and wants to become a writer as well just because she is in GL before and have seen many things!

We should expose theirs lies to the best we can, in my opinion.

Don't let them think that the locals are naive cos we can think logically and analyse well.

Well Done my friend!


wa liao...just asking a question & people start jumping for conclusion. :eek:


Definitely you didn't read the article, but yet anyhow barking your comment here. If you read (or can read it), you won't anyhow say that she's married.


As I mentioned, I just curious & tried to search in the old threads, but found nothing.

[ang076]

IMO, Bro Jaxz's purpose in post this thread is to find out whether Xiao Qing offer special services to many samsters here, since this forum is about masseues offering services .

Well, there are many of us visiting International Plaza.. we would surely write FR on those shops in IP if they offer specials . If there arent , that means dont have, lah..

To 123456abcdef, not all TN shops offer specials. Some set up TN shops just to provide decent massaging services.

[fhfhfh]

IMO, Bro Jaxz's purpose in post this thread is to find out whether Xiao Qing offer special services to many samsters here, since this forum is about masseues offering services .

Well, there are many of us visiting International Plaza.. we would surely write FR on those shops in IP if they offer specials . If there arent , that means dont have, lah..

To 123456abcdef, not all TN shops offer specials. Some set up TN shops just to provide decent massaging services.

Agree....dun always put on the 'color glasses' to see prc.

[Randi_Candi]

IMO, Bro Jaxz's purpose in post this thread is to find out whether Xiao Qing offer special services to many samsters here, since this forum is about masseues offering services .

Well, there are many of us visiting International Plaza.. we would surely write FR on those shops in IP if they offer specials . If there arent , that means dont have, lah..

To 123456abcdef, not all TN shops offer specials. Some set up TN shops just to provide decent massaging services.
To see that all in a specific category are rotten apples is jumping the guns.
There are arseholes in the Singaporean too

[bhoven]

Aiyah why is everyone so uptight...no wonder we r all so stressed. At work, at home n even in dis forum. we should learn to relax more what.

I think thread starter was sceptical that the PRC was as innocent as she portrayed herself in the interview. Quite normal for him to post here his doubts n ask if brudders who have tried her can cfm if otherwise. No need to eat him out for dis...

[mamamia]

One Kind of rice Feed Many Kind of PEOPLE!!! STILL I DUN UNDERSTAND what the Thread starter is driving at???? Please enlighten me....me not STUPID but abit SLOW okay!!!! :D

To see that all in a specific category are rotten apples is jumping the guns.
There are arseholes in the Singaporean too

[Randi_Candi]

One Kind of rice Feed Many Kind of PEOPLE!!! STILL I DUN UNDERSTAND what the Thread starter is driving at???? Please enlighten me....me not STUPID but abit SLOW okay!!!! :D
Beats me?!
I wasn't replying to the thread starter cos I find no meaning to his post nor any comments warranted
Just that I think Brudda Ang had a point to support

[Microsoft]

Beats me?!
I

Oi Halo 2 PC version choot leow lah. U nv go q up 2 buy ar?? :D

[Randi_Candi]

Oi Halo 2 PC version choot leow lah. U nv go q up 2 buy ar?? :D
Izit?!
Nvzz.....tot boh choot
Still happy playing 1.......sure kena laughed at behind my back for being so turtle :p

[Microsoft]

Izit?!
Nvzz.....tot boh choot
Still happy playing 1.......sure kena laughed at behind my back for being so turtle

Lastnite news got show. Alot of ppl q up 2 buy. All waited long long for 3 yrs leow. Mus go n c got cheong 1 come out oredit onot. :D

[altw78]

aeroplane king !
:p
One Kind of rice Feed Many Kind of PEOPLE!!! STILL I DUN UNDERSTAND what the Thread starter is driving at???? Please enlighten me....me not STUPID but abit SLOW okay!!!! :D

[jaxz]

Whatever it is, I dun wanna to start a war of words here with u. We r adults, if u think i hv offended u in anyway. Sorry, dude.
But indeed ur thread is very misleading. End of story, full stop.
ok...my apology as well if me being curious has only raised unnecessary heated argument / confusion.

Jaxz, just keep quiet. Otherwise your rep point will drop to zero!
:D didn't really think much of rep point. For those who like to exercise power to deduct points...go ahead. But I've to say thanks to a bro who upped my point yesterday (?).

STILL I DUN UNDERSTAND what the Thread starter is driving at???? Please enlighten me....me not STUPID but abit SLOW okay!!!!
Curiousity, bro, curiousity. That's all.

[123456abcdef]

Thanks an076, while I do agree with you that not all TNs provide specials; however, most of them do...

In the early days when I was a trainee GP attached with one of the hospital, I have seen many suspected STDs/AIDs cases, some of these patients told me in tears that due to their careless expreiences in TNs that they are here now for med checkup n treatment.

Some of these seekers are even Chinese PRCs mamas n students on short visa n even though when they knew they "kanan", they still drag till the last moment before they seek treatment, ignoring the fact that many bros out there could be infected due to their "dont care" attitude.

As such, I'm really appalled by these study mamas who claim they are clean.
So why should we not dig out n expose their true lies?!



IMO, Bro Jaxz's purpose in post this thread is to find out whether Xiao Qing offer special services to many samsters here, since this forum is about masseues offering services .

Well, there are many of us visiting International Plaza.. we would surely write FR on those shops in IP if they offer specials . If there arent , that means dont have, lah..

To 123456abcdef, not all TN shops offer specials. Some set up TN shops just to provide decent massaging services.

[mamamia]

Bro, Curiousity KILLS the CAT!!!! :D Curiousity, bro, curiousity. That's all.

[pig40]

She was known as YiLian at PPC WanNian in 2001, a shrewd & ambitious pdmm. She had a step-brother who act as her guarantor while staying here. Later in early 2002, she opened BaiHua TN at Blk 158, Bedok South Ave 3. Not long after, she opened another at Blk 122 Bedok North St 2 (famous for one provision shop still sticking to its original form). At first, she thought that the CBD was oversaturated with TNs, so she made her foray in HDB flats bringing convenience to customers. But Bedok is too far for some of her customers and business was slow. Her stepbrother also did not keep proper accounts at Blk 158. Money was missing all the time because he loves horse-racing. Finally, she sold off her 2 units in Bedok and moved to International Plaza thinking that office workers would be the ideal customers. Her masseuse pdmms were u-grads but cmi. Because of her no hanky-panky stance, she only gets one-time customers. Not sure whether the outlet at IP is still there. She has got herself featured prominently in Streats, Channel U Chinese New Year special report on pdmm, and the latest Sunday Times. I liked one of her pdmm gals, XiaoYing, who gave strong & hard massage, who leapfrog from Bedok to AMK. I have lost her contact because she had given up her hp line. XiaoQing got the mo-shui (ink) but would not respond to stimuli from all men except from her present bf. Since she is featured so prominently, ICA will review her applications on a case-by-case basis.

[ang076]

123456abcdef,

So you are a doctor ? Do drop by in this forum and give advice at Sexual Health section of this forum when you are free.

Yes, some PRC TN gals want to maximise their tips by doing unprotected sex for $100 or so. They are not willing to buy condoms , as they are shy to go to convenient stores to buy condoms.

I agree with you that lies should be exposed in this forum.

[123456abcdef]

Hi ang076,

The scaring part is "traditional non-deadly" STD like the bacteria caused Gonorrea is so commonly found in the saliva of TN-working study mamas that most of the cases are transmitted merely through a simple unprotected BJ act. During this 1/2 wk of window period whereby the source is contagious, she would normally display little or no visual sign of uncomfort, except for sore throat n a little burning feeling while pissing. That's all! Not to mention the deadly HIV virus stuff...

So bros out there who have fun, while you may enjoy the sensational feeling of the unprotected sexual act of BJ or more, remember, the real danger lurks behind the curtain she draws...

Thanks ang076, as I'm only a small fry n just learning-to-walk medical boy n not yet a Consultant/Specialist in this field, worried or responsible bros are encouraged to seek early medical attenion or have regular check.

PS/If u need to, play safe like the Japs...


123456abcdef,

So you are a doctor ? Do drop by in this forum and give advice at Sexual Health section of this forum when you are free.

Yes, some PRC TN gals want to maximise their tips by doing unprotected sex for $100 or so. They are not willing to buy condoms , as they are shy to go to convenient stores to buy condoms.

I agree with you that lies should be exposed in this forum.

[jaxz]

Bro, Curiousity KILLS the CAT!!!! :D
ouch...you're right. ;)
Anyway, thx for bro pig40 who shares his opinion/info.

[SDU5492]

I agree that we should be very safe when paying for services that we sadly cannot get in a relationship. :)

One suai move and that means kenna something and life will change 4ever. Ever seen red spots of your weapon before? I kenna after a BBBJ from a PDMM at Bedok. I thought shot into mouth dam good feeling. Next few days, Itchy and dare not scratch. Do not want to go see doctor and it dasappeared.

After my experience, I say no more for a while but now and then itchy again. :D

[123456abcdef]

Hi SDU54921,

Regardless of protected or unprotected BJ, red spots are commonly found on yr weapon if the sexual act is rogue n unskillfully done, especially so when no lubricants were used during the act.

I'm more worried if you had ever developed any blisters around the groin area or experienced any pain while pissing; apparent symptoms of STD.

Perhaps the subject of this thread (Xiao Qing) can shed some light if she's reading in :)

[QUOTE=SDU5492]I agree that we should be very safe when paying for services that we sadly cannot get in a relationship. :)