Prc wl

[sarmcy]

Hello,

Need some experienced bros to comment/advise.

My brother (younger than 30 YO) went to geylang and met this legal PRC WL some 1 year back. Same old story, they like each other very much, always meet up after her work at night 3 times a week etc.

She also nv demand many things from him, iphone and etc here and there occasionally, of cos go out is he spend money la, but every month he spend roughly average $1k on her la which i think is not alot? considering other pple probably can/will pay more.

Then now she going back already. She say if he go china and marry her or some shit within 6 months she will wait for him then they live together happily ever after.

The thing is this pcb come and confide in me. So I dunno what to do cos our parents how? firstly of cos i try to change his mind already, but he quite set on this. so i told him to keep a clear mind first and think before any rash act. He also agree.

Any brothers know of anyone else's experience like this also?

I mean assuming, really assuming she truely likes him la, i mean PRC no true love one la max love is 50-80% not 100%. Cos i see the way they behave after he tell me i also think ok la seem like not bad la the way she treat him.
So put away her ulterior motives first, is there any possbile way for this to work? cos she cant come back singapore after she go china right?

Thanks bros, haha any chit chat is welcome la but dun flame me if possible la cos even if u think i made this up just take it as interesting story lor haha.

[sammyboyfor]

Hello,

Need some experienced bros to comment/advise.



Here's my comment : YOUR BROTHER IS A MORON. :rolleyes:

[xxx86]

Here's my comment : YOUR BROTHER IS A MORON. :rolleyes:

more than that

[Maxdom]

Concluded. His life will not have any meaning in Singapore. She is very special and he will not find another one like her.......ever.

There is no need to discuss or comment really. The outcome will be the same.

Another one bites the dust.

[RealEstateGuy]

Concluded. His life will not have any meaning in Singapore. She is very special and he will not find another one like her.......ever.

There is no need to discuss or comment really. The outcome will be the same.

Another one bites the dust.
? Confused by your post braddah. Can you be more succint?
I think the braddah should not rush things.

[joew2005]

hello 6378511,die-die must wake up yr bro.
he knws tat she cannot cum back sg 2 live 1s she goes back prc.
so wat k yr bro do in prc 2 support his family ?

[Greatking]

i felt that as an outsider and we do not know his gf's character and background, its really very difficult to judge. Anyway, its always good to convert a whore to a wife... rather than turning your wife into a whore..

So, personally, i felt that, as long as you did a thorough background check and he knows her friends, i think its pretty fine to give it a try :D

[goodpartner]

Hello,

Need some experienced bros to comment/advise.

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So put away her ulterior motives first, is there any possbile way for this to work? cos she cant come back singapore after she go china right?

Thanks bros, haha any chit chat is welcome la but dun flame me if possible la cos even if u think i made this up just take it as interesting story lor haha.

As his brother (elder?), after hearing him out, what do you think?

- Given the questions asked above, you sound like you're somewhat supportive of his plan to go ahead with the r/s but only concern that he may be cheated right?

- Or you hope to get advis here how to stop him from plunging in this "moron" act?

Since this pcb bro of yours confided in you, you now have some responsibility over his future... like it or not, whatever will becum of him because of this, how you influence him as the brother will be crucial. The worst is that he'll messed up his life if the wrong decision is made AND you, mr. brother, contributed to that decision... :rolleyes:

[sammyboyfor]

worst is that he'll messed up his life if the wrong decision is made AND you, mr. brother, contributed to that decision... :rolleyes:

Morons should be left to stew in their own juices.:rolleyes:

[goodpartner]

Morons should be left to stew in their own juices.:rolleyes:

While not really a crime, by leaving the moron bro to stew in his own juices is similar to getting the blame of being an accessory; if he take the path of non-action. That's the dilemma of all accessory to-be.... Besides, as a brother, he has more than social responsibility not to not-do anything.

[sarmcy]

wow, thank you everyone for your responses really appreciate the comments after only 1 day.

@big boss sammyboy: ya la he fucking moron i also think so.

but like bro goodpartner say, i am his elder brother. now i already involved, i cannot possibly not give some comments already. and ya bro goodpartner you are right, whatever i say might be quite life changing for him, so i will think carefully also before speaking to him.

my concern here is that:

1. he want to be happy with the girl, i dun give a fuck. but my parents will ask why the fuck he go china, if he marry the girl, why the girl cannot come sg and live? how to answer that? so is there anyway to bypass her past record and allow her to come sg and marry my brother? i mean surely the whole of geylang so many girls so many years got some pple get married with PRC WL before? i dunno.

2. I am also not some innocent goodytwoshoe brother, i also got chiong geylang/massage parlours and watever, so if he like the girl, personally not for me to criticize, he can accept her past then good for him. i wun try to convince him not to go with her cos firstly, no way he will see my side of story. secondly if i do that -> we start quarreling -> he do something stupid like run away to china -> become my fault.

so ya lor is there anyway for her to come live in singapore? wat do CWO/pay money/i dunno wat la. isit even legal for them to marry singaporean?

on a sidenote @bro greatking: ya he really got meet her friends, not those other PRC WLs but real life friends dun ask me how i dunno but he say got. i also got see her before (we pretend i dunno what she does) she seems sincere enough. thats why i mentioned give her benefit of doubt first, cos if she cheat him, yes he heartbroken, but at least he wake up himself, lesson learnt. If i try to force them apart, he hate me + sure gg do something rash and wun even listen to me anymore. So okay, lets play the good guy here, I help exhaust all possible options, help to give you the best possible plan to try, if fail he will give up himself.

Thanks bros.

[prccuntlover]

Anyone above 18 is an adult
Just do it lor if your braddar feel strong
But must be realistic of potential consequence
1) kc-ed
2) feed the girl family
3) girl get pr and divorce

The best is to visit family and see for himself:cool:

[Greatking]

Anyone above 18 is an adult
Just do it lor if your braddar feel strong
But must be realistic of potential consequence
1) kc-ed
2) feed the girl family
3) girl get pr and divorce

The best is to visit family and see for himself:cool:

correction. 21yrs old is adult.

[justl00king]

Your bro is thinking with his dickhead!

You better talk some sense into him before it's too late!!!

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah, foreigners cannot own property there easily. Maybe gal said buy me an apartment. After some time she boot him back to SG. I have heard such stories before. In SG, gal and guy get half. Over there is all hers. Braddah, your braddah needs to wake up. What SG man will do over there that he cannot do here since he is main man of the household. He will be feeding everyone so common sense says he should stay in SG. If you marry a Russian gal (not advised) you go work in Moscow? Ha ha. I bet you a bowl of chicken rice you wrong braddah.

[alan0338]

simi is pcb? :confused: :rolleyes:

[goodpartner]

simi is pcb? :confused: :rolleyes:

I re-used this acroymn in my first post here... and I never give 2nd thought that it means PHUA CHEE-BYE.... No?? :rolleyes:

Okie...maybe it's just my filthy, corrupted hokkien mind... :D

[alan0338]

I re-used this acroymn in my first post here... and I never give 2nd thought that it means PHUA CHEE-BYE.... No?? :rolleyes:

Okie...maybe it's just my filthy, corrupted hokkien mind... :D

if i am the bro of TS, i hope not ... :p y would a elder brother call his younger brother phua chee bye :eek:

[goodpartner]

if i am the bro of TS, i hope not ... :p y would a elder brother call his younger brother phua chee bye :eek:

U see the way he talk about his bro, machiam like wanna care but dun really wanna fuck care lidat; also ack that his bro is a moron, so when this acroymn popped up somewhere in the end of his post, that 3 words also popped up in my mind lor :D

TS, so what is PCB?

[sarmcy]

hahaha oops i did mean phua chee bye...

no la, i abit liberal with my vulgarities but of course i care for him la if not i also wun post his story here to share with everyone trying to get all the senior's advice and experience.

bro goodbrother i think he moron mah... cos so many girls out there he really like this complicated one so much haha.

thanks bro realestateguy ya i think the girl got say smthing about buying house/car. its abit scary leh the thing is im quite sure she likes my brother, but also theres always this skepticism that is hard to remove.. like all the bros here say, maybe after my bro buys things for her she will ignore him. i guess only time will tell. i do also agree that getting her to come sg will be good so that she cant play any tricks whatsoever.

but isit possible for the girl to come live in singapore? cos from what she say to my brother, he must go over to china to be with her cos she cannot return to singapore at all. (sorry i not lawyer not sure about the law of this haha).

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah despite assumed stronger Chinese culture implying wife obedient to husband, you will find most gals or should say more gals divorced. This is specific to gals with SG exposure. Should think of motive. Having said that our PRC braddahs must buy house and car before marriage is even considered. Your braddah have a lot to think about.

[teebs_darklord]

hahaha oops i did mean phua chee bye...

no la, i abit liberal with my vulgarities but of course i care for him la if not i also wun post his story here to share with everyone trying to get all the senior's advice and experience.

bro goodbrother i think he moron mah... cos so many girls out there he really like this complicated one so much haha.

thanks bro realestateguy ya i think the girl got say smthing about buying house/car. its abit scary leh the thing is im quite sure she likes my brother, but also theres always this skepticism that is hard to remove.. like all the bros here say, maybe after my bro buys things for her she will ignore him. i guess only time will tell. i do also agree that getting her to come sg will be good so that she cant play any tricks whatsoever.

but isit possible for the girl to come live in singapore? cos from what she say to my brother, he must go over to china to be with her cos she cannot return to singapore at all. (sorry i not lawyer not sure about the law of this haha).

She is a legal WL right? In this case, sorry, no way for her to live in Singapore. If I'm not mistaken she will be barred from entering Singapore for 2 years after she returns her WL pass...and after that, depends on the immigration officers if they allow her in....but as far as I know, extremely difficult unless she is very lucky... :D

[wells]

Your brother really gonna be mess up. Marrying a WL is waiting for a tsunami to hit him. You have to use all methods to stop him. Ask his close friends to talk to him. Or standby $$$$ for her to suck. This is just the beginning.

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah I heard one story of love stuck braddah buy apartment for gal. Short time later gal break relationship, sell apartment and buy another in different place. Braddah thus lost all. Your braddah need counseling from you, and your family, friends and professional psychologist.

[sarmcy]

thanks bros for all the advice.

yes of cos i will speak to him more. the thing is the 2 of them really macham like real couple.. go out all the time like a few times a week, then alot of time also dun really spend money just go walk walk and eat at hawker centre. then he also meet her friends. isit like this also part of KC game? its really damn high level these PRC girls are damn deep. 1 year + already i mean she has not explicitly demanded for any car/house. (cos she know my brother also young normal working class below 30years old where got money to buy).

i mean i will try my best to help him if possible to achieve his "dream" of being with her, cos if the girl can come back to singapore then i think its okay for my family to accept, especially since it shows she is willing to come over and stay here means she not trying to con my brother?? is my thinking correct?

is there any way i can find out more about the immigration laws on how to allow the legal PRC FL to come back?

any bros keen to share some experience about themselves or friends being conned by PRC love story before? if have then i can tell my brother about it and see whether can scare him off haha.

[RealEstateGuy]

thanks bros for all the advice.

yes of cos i will speak to him more. the thing is the 2 of them really macham like real couple.. go out all the time like a few times a week, then alot of time also dun really spend money just go walk walk and eat at hawker centre. then he also meet her friends. isit like this also part of KC game? its really damn high level these PRC girls are damn deep. 1 year + already i mean she has not explicitly demanded for any car/house. (cos she know my brother also young normal working class below 30years old where got money to buy).

i mean i will try my best to help him if possible to achieve his "dream" of being with her, cos if the girl can come back to singapore then i think its okay for my family to accept, especially since it shows she is willing to come over and stay here means she not trying to con my brother?? is my thinking correct?

is there any way i can find out more about the immigration laws on how to allow the legal PRC FL to come back?

any bros keen to share some experience about themselves or friends being conned by PRC love story before? if have then i can tell my brother about it and see whether can scare him off haha.

Braddah, how do you know your brother is the only one seeing her?

[owl888]

........
2. I am also not some innocent goodytwoshoe brother, i also got chiong geylang/massage parlours and watever, so if he like the girl, personally not for me to criticize, .........

Thanks bros.

Bro, i hope u never accidentally go geylang called your bro's gf:confused: :D

Anyway, in China anything is possible. U ask China agents how to come back Sg to marry they sure can find a way, juz pay $$$ 所谓有钱能使鬼推磨!

[AHH2222MK6]

thanks bros for all the advice.

yes of cos i will speak to him more. the thing is the 2 of them really macham like real couple.. go out all the time like a few times a week, then alot of time also dun really spend money just go walk walk and eat at hawker centre. then he also meet her friends. isit like this also part of KC game? its really damn high level these PRC girls are damn deep. 1 year + already i mean she has not explicitly demanded for any car/house. (cos she know my brother also young normal working class below 30years old where got money to buy).

i mean i will try my best to help him if possible to achieve his "dream" of being with her, cos if the girl can come back to singapore then i think its okay for my family to accept, especially since it shows she is willing to come over and stay here means she not trying to con my brother?? is my thinking correct?

is there any way i can find out more about the immigration laws on how to allow the legal PRC FL to come back?

any bros keen to share some experience about themselves or friends being conned by PRC love story before? if have then i can tell my brother about it and see whether can scare him off haha.

Oppsss... the same old PLM (pathetic loser monger). Not specifically apply to all mongers but some are really really out of their senses, especially to the TS's bro respectively. Frankly, what you mentioned here saying your so called brother is under the spell of a WL PRC. Let me guess, SYT with hourglass figure type, 1 dragon service typical kind of PRC in sillypore. That means, she's out to eat your brother alive:rolleyes: if the PRC really to the extent 10/10 in terms of appearance:)

By the way, TS really need not do anything to prevent or stop your brother. Let him buy a lesson for once. And hopefully, judging from what you written here, I assume you might and could be the individual concern instead your brother, which is a merely a front to cover TS himself. I hope you do have right mind and positive thinking in dealing with PRC. I can't foresee or tell whether or not you are an experienced veteran in dealing with the PRC issue but make sure you can afford to lose and let go whenever you feel that timing is up and reaching dead end. Am sure the PRC can find another mate just a blink of an eye.

You can PM me fore more discreet conversation of handling and dealing with PRC issue such as gf, wl, fl thingy. But should you ask me how to deal with a non commercial PRC gf, I have no qualms because once a PRC loves you, she will devote herself including all her possession and assets;)

[Reoxy]

You can PM me fore more discreet conversation of handling and dealing with PRC issue such as gf, wl, fl thingy. But should you ask me how to deal with a non commercial PRC gf, I have no qualms because once a PRC loves you, she will devote herself including all her possession and assets;)


Your signature looks awfully familiar like the one I used many moons ago.

[goodpartner]

If we discount all the BS and sense where the drift is flowing, this thread is merely about seeking advice on "How to marry a PRC WL and import her to Singapore?"

[alan0338]

If we discount all the BS and sense where the drift is flowing, this thread is merely about seeking advice on "How to marry a PRC WL and import her to Singapore?"

and wonder the pcb bro is there or not too :D