Looking for the other one

[Seiyajohn]

Hi to all senior bro's & sis' s of this forum.

A brief introduction:
Im male 39, married with a son.
Working at Tuas and living in the North.

My purpose of writing to share my story and hopefully something good can come out from here.

My present situation:
Being married for 7 years and my sex life had been going rock bottom.
Even I paid for sex also didnt manage to satisfy my needs.
My on the bed perform seen to be on the downturn too.

Im looking forward for the happy sex on the bed.
Any suggestions from senior bro and sis.

Thanks all in advance.

[WOOHOO]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m8b1ILcffpw :p

[curiouslala]

wheres the story? o.O

[WOOHOO]

wheres the story? o.O

TS doing the performance excercise now lol

[MadameMoiselle]

now now ladies..hes been polite here..hes asking for opinions from the pros and thats you gals la...hehe. dun stress him hor...lets be polite back and be the pros we shld be...:D

[stella69]

wa...work in tuas stay in north? got company transport ah?

[georgemagnum]

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall ..... :D

gm

[sane]

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall ..... :D

gm

ma, u teach him ...

[huhu123]

sis huhu is here to help.....u are getting bored with women so try another sex. Go look for kurt tay and u will naturally appreciate yr lovely wife. Go and do some crazy things with yr wife.

[MadameMoiselle]

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall ..... :D

gm

okok....i break this thread's virginity by answering kay...:cool:


First of all, it has got to start with you. How you present yourself, how you feel about yourself, your outlook on the bed matters, what is your strongest points in bed and your mentality and creativity in the bedroom. Only when all these are settled, you can focused on your partner(s).

When I said focused on yourself first, that does not mean you should be too self-indulged and being egoistic. Firstly, the mind should understand that sex is supposed to be fun, spontaneous, free-willed, open-minded (experimental in my dictionary, we cover this part later after you are settled with how you feel about sex) and about communication as well.

As you said, your sex life in your marriage has gone sour and the paid sex sessions do not fulfilled your needs. In this issue, your mentality needs to understand that forced sexual activities onto anyone is no fun even if it is to you. It should be mutual. Communicate. Communicate the sexual desires you need to the other party. Then hear them communicate back theirs. Ask them what turns them on, what they like to do in bed, is there any particular special skill in bed that they have that might turn you on, etc. From that on, you should think positive even if the things they shared might not tickle your fancy. Instead, make suggestions, point out the interesting ones you might want to do and minus the parts you don't prefer as gently as possible. And same thing, ask what she thinks about your fetishes. Give and take. Take some of her ideas and fused with yours.

So the next pointer I would lay out is know the kind of people you want to get in bed with. Would you want them to be adventurous, vanillas, vixens, having it rough or being slow and sensual? If with your wifey, know what she seems like every time you have it with her. Observe her body language, ask her her needs, go fast or slow, rough or gentle, where does she wants it (eg; different parts of the house or somewhere else that wont get you caught in the act lol)?..etc

Point is never be too lazy to talk during sex to stimulate her and know more about your partner's needs. Don't just wham wham wham and not a care for her feelings? I'm sure you know how emo-tion-al women are so if you skipped that part of her, it won't changed a thing about your sex life. Talk, listen, talk listen and the cycle goes round. Communicate. I cannot ever stressed this word any lesser. Very important pointer.

And always be in a can-do state. Always stay positive, encouraging and be suggestive all the time. Make the conversation before sex as light and open as possible. During the sex itself, ask her where is good to be pleasured, ask question like" is this ok for you, do u like that", and when she moans lightly, tease her if she could moan louder for you (works for me everytime haha), when she pleasures you, guide (not commanding unless she prefers being submissive) her gently the way you would want her to please and call her sweet names (eg; baby, darling etc, again if shes the submissive kind otherwise ask her what she wants to be called before the sex act starts) while you guides her and when she pleases you (even if it is not to your satisfaction, a little encouragement will up her confidence and performance). The communication must stay solid till it ends. And, as much as guys like visuals, so do (some) women. Again, give and take. No one is supposed to be selfish in this act.

Hope that help dude.
;)

[hcg_explorer]

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

[huhu123]

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

power...like nuclear explosion.

[Benong1975]

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

Suddenly ah lau poke come out...:eek:

[huhu123]

Suddenly ah lau poke come out...:eek:

u also suddenly poke out.

[Benong1975]

u also suddenly poke out.

I everytime Suddenly poke out wan mah

[hcg_explorer]

okok....i break this thread's virginity by answering kay...:cool:


First of all, it has got to start with you. How you present yourself, how you feel about yourself, your outlook on the bed matters, what is your strongest points in bed and your mentality and creativity in the bedroom. Only when all these are settled, you can focused on your partner(s).

When I said focused on yourself first, that does not mean you should be too self-indulged and being egoistic. Firstly, the mind should understand that sex is supposed to be fun, spontaneous, free-willed, open-minded (experimental in my dictionary, we cover this part later after you are settled with how you feel about sex) and about communication as well.

As you said, your sex life in your marriage has gone sour and the paid sex sessions do not fulfilled your needs. In this issue, your mentality needs to understand that forced sexual activities onto anyone is no fun even if it is to you. It should be mutual. Communicate. Communicate the sexual desires you need to the other party. Then hear them communicate back theirs. Ask them what turns them on, what they like to do in bed, is there any particular special skill in bed that they have that might turn you on, etc. From that on, you should think positive even if the things they shared might not tickle your fancy. Instead, make suggestions, point out the interesting ones you might want to do and minus the parts you don't prefer as gently as possible. And same thing, ask what she thinks about your fetishes. Give and take. Take some of her ideas and fused with yours.

So the next pointer I would lay out is know the kind of people you want to get in bed with. Would you want them to be adventurous, vanillas, vixens, having it rough or being slow and sensual? If with your wifey, know what she seems like every time you have it with her. Observe her body language, ask her her needs, go fast or slow, rough or gentle, where does she wants it (eg; different parts of the house or somewhere else that wont get you caught in the act lol)?..etc

Point is never be too lazy to talk during sex to stimulate her and know more about your partner's needs. Don't just wham wham wham and not a care for her feelings? I'm sure you know how emo-tion-al women are so if you skipped that part of her, it won't changed a thing about your sex life. Talk, listen, talk listen and the cycle goes round. Communicate. I cannot ever stressed this word any lesser. Very important pointer.

And always be in a can-do state. Always stay positive, encouraging and be suggestive all the time. Make the conversation before sex as light and open as possible. During the sex itself, ask her where is good to be pleasured, ask question like" is this ok for you, do u like that", and when she moans lightly, tease her if she could moan louder for you (works for me everytime haha), when she pleasures you, guide (not commanding unless she prefers being submissive) her gently the way you would want her to please and call her sweet names (eg; baby, darling etc, again if shes the submissive kind otherwise ask her what she wants to be called before the sex act starts) while you guides her and when she pleases you (even if it is not to your satisfaction, a little encouragement will up her confidence and performance). The communication must stay solid till it ends. And, as much as guys like visuals, so do (some) women. Again, give and take. No one is supposed to be selfish in this act.

Hope that help dude.
;)

hey bro... u know u r wasting ur time to post such GRANDFATHER story to someone like TS with no sense ???

[hcg_explorer]

Suddenly ah lau poke come out...:eek:

ha bro.. cannot sleep juz suddenly poke out lol... den see this lanjiao post.. KNN... pui chow nwa

[Seiyajohn]

Apologies to all.
First of all need to clarify I shld phase it as my problem not my story.

I thanks all those comments be it good or bad,
I accept it totally.

My problem continue:
My wife and I was having lesser and lesser sex.
Due to fact that our kid is sleeping with us and she feel uncomfortable having sex with him around.
I really dont know where is the problem?
Im still very turn on during the last round with her but she doesn't like foreplay.
I can last quite long when we have sex.

Who dont like a free sex with another lady who is also willing to have a good sex.
Yes im hoping that there are some sis will willing to offer to do that in this forum.
Maybe in the mist of doing, she can point out whats wrong with myself.

Before I end I will like to say im a normal man looking for a Normal with a normal desire for sex.

[MadameMoiselle]

hey bro... u know u r wasting ur time to post such GRANDFATHER story to someone like TS with no sense ???
Thanks for calling me a bro first of all. :cool:

Well, lets just say, I like sharing knowledge. Grandfather story to us but may serve lessons to others.Wouldnt it be great if someone use ur advises, applied them to their current situation and gain the knowledge they have missed before? This is afterall a discussion forum rite? Just hope TS got what he needed from my point of view.

;)

[georgemagnum]

ma, u teach him ...

Erm sane sis, I myself can't stand how to teach him? :D
U r very kind ..... Din chak him .... :D

gm

[sane]

Erm sane sis, I myself can't stand how to teach him? :D
U r very kind ..... Din chak him .... :D

gm

i duno how to chak him but i noe he need a wife who is a tigress on bed, tear off his clothes n bite him all over ;)

[georgemagnum]

MM,

Sorry for late revert.
U tok like aunty agony!!!!
All I can say is "dicks can't think, Educated people think."
If I'm TS, I'll thank u doubly for taking the trouble to pen ur thots .... Applause! :)

gm


okok....i break this thread's virginity by answering kay...:cool:


First of all, it has got to start with you. How you present yourself, how you feel about yourself, your outlook on the bed matters, what is your strongest points in bed and your mentality and creativity in the bedroom. Only when all these are settled, you can focused on your partner(s).

When I said focused on yourself first, that does not mean you should be too self-indulged and being egoistic. Firstly, the mind should understand that sex is supposed to be fun, spontaneous, free-willed, open-minded (experimental in my dictionary, we cover this part later after you are settled with how you feel about sex) and about communication as well.

As you said, your sex life in your marriage has gone sour and the paid sex sessions do not fulfilled your needs. In this issue, your mentality needs to understand that forced sexual activities onto anyone is no fun even if it is to you. It should be mutual. Communicate. Communicate the sexual desires you need to the other party. Then hear them communicate back theirs. Ask them what turns them on, what they like to do in bed, is there any particular special skill in bed that they have that might turn you on, etc. From that on, you should think positive even if the things they shared might not tickle your fancy. Instead, make suggestions, point out the interesting ones you might want to do and minus the parts you don't prefer as gently as possible. And same thing, ask what she thinks about your fetishes. Give and take. Take some of her ideas and fused with yours.

So the next pointer I would lay out is know the kind of people you want to get in bed with. Would you want them to be adventurous, vanillas, vixens, having it rough or being slow and sensual? If with your wifey, know what she seems like every time you have it with her. Observe her body language, ask her her needs, go fast or slow, rough or gentle, where does she wants it (eg; different parts of the house or somewhere else that wont get you caught in the act lol)?..etc

Point is never be too lazy to talk during sex to stimulate her and know more about your partner's needs. Don't just wham wham wham and not a care for her feelings? I'm sure you know how emo-tion-al women are so if you skipped that part of her, it won't changed a thing about your sex life. Talk, listen, talk listen and the cycle goes round. Communicate. I cannot ever stressed this word any lesser. Very important pointer.

And always be in a can-do state. Always stay positive, encouraging and be suggestive all the time. Make the conversation before sex as light and open as possible. During the sex itself, ask her where is good to be pleasured, ask question like" is this ok for you, do u like that", and when she moans lightly, tease her if she could moan louder for you (works for me everytime haha), when she pleasures you, guide (not commanding unless she prefers being submissive) her gently the way you would want her to please and call her sweet names (eg; baby, darling etc, again if shes the submissive kind otherwise ask her what she wants to be called before the sex act starts) while you guides her and when she pleases you (even if it is not to your satisfaction, a little encouragement will up her confidence and performance). The communication must stay solid till it ends. And, as much as guys like visuals, so do (some) women. Again, give and take. No one is supposed to be selfish in this act.

Hope that help dude.
;)

[georgemagnum]

i duno how to chak him but i noe he need a wife who is a tigress on bed, tear off his clothes n bite him all over ;)

Wah .... SM!!!!!!! BDSM!!!!! I like!!!!!! :D

gm

[georgemagnum]

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

WAH zan .... If I'm TS .... I would say sorry to u for posting nonsense :D

gm

[sane]

Wah .... SM!!!!!!! BDSM!!!!! I like!!!!!! :D

gm

i dun understand long winded theory but if I m his wife, I will just jump on the bed, sit on him, tear off his AMTK and bite his ass really really hard :eek: !!!

[georgemagnum]

i dun understand long winded theory but if I m his wife, I will just jump on the bed, sit on him, tear off his AMTK and bite his ass really really hard :eek: !!!

Lols .... And u will appear on front page on straits times .... Headline in bold "wife devours hubby's rear with a bite..." ..... :D

No yoga today?

gm

[sane]

Lols .... And u will appear on front page on straits times .... Headline in bold "wife devours hubby's rear with a bite..." ..... :D

No yoga today?

gm

Bo bian coz he married a wild wife like me ....
Juz went for spin+swim .....tiring :D

[aceaceguy]

Juz went for spin+swim .....tiring :D

how come u like no need to work like that huh? sugar babe ar? :eek:

[georgemagnum]

Bo bian coz he married a wild wife like me ....
Juz went for spin+swim .....tiring :D

Just went for spin n swim? Active !!!!!!!
Dounch u need to work? Envious !!!!! Tai tai life .... :)

gm

[huhu123]

i read until i blur blur. my suggestion still the best, TS u jus need to contact Kurt tay and all yr problems will be solved.

[georgemagnum]

i read until i blur blur. my suggestion still the best, TS u jus need to contact Kurt tay and all yr problems will be solved.

Lols..... Huhu ..... Contact Kurt Tay is to help stand down lei .... :D

gm

[Seiyajohn]

Er who is Kurt Tay?
Why need to ask Kurt Tay?

[MadameMoiselle]

MM,

Sorry for late revert.
U tok like aunty agony!!!!
All I can say is "dicks can't think, Educated people think."
If I'm TS, I'll thank u doubly for taking the trouble to pen ur thots .... Applause! :)

gm

haha..well dicks dun ask for opininons, they think they know it all...

well when ur work requires you to take in knowledge, teach that knowledge, share opininons, teach lessons, observe behaviour, learn from mistakes, give advises, study theories, apply that theories, make your own theories and test them and lastly listen to others, I have became more than just an Aunt Agony la :p

[huhu123]

Lols..... Huhu ..... Contact Kurt Tay is to help stand down lei .... :D

gm

no after trying kurt tay he will not be too demanding on his wife.

[WOOHOO]

Er who is Kurt Tay?
Why need to ask Kurt Tay?

Google you will know

[acidicavex]

Ts regardless of what it is you short of the right ingredients. U no need another ladies to tell u what n where u did wrong in bed...... u need your wife to do that after all what u want?? Sis teach u to pleasure your wife? Ya if got free who don't want especially in a sex forum but cooking up with a lame excuse to hit the free sex zone is plain despicable. :rolleyes:

[Seiyajohn]

Not trying to cook up an excuse to find free fuck in the forum.
Sex is a two side blade, it serve you well and can kill you.

Im just a normal man with a normal desire.

[hcg_explorer]

Ts regardless of what it is you short of the right ingredients. U no need another ladies to tell u what n where u did wrong in bed...... u need your wife to do that after all what u want?? Sis teach u to pleasure your wife? Ya if got free who don't want especially in a sex forum but cooking up with a lame excuse to hit the free sex zone is plain despicable. :rolleyes:

阿佬 like the words in BLUE

GONG LIAO SWEE

[hcg_explorer]

Not trying to cook up an excuse to find free fuck in the forum.
Sex is a two side blade, it serve you well and can kill you.

Im just a normal man with a normal desire.

another excuse.....

[Seiyajohn]

Each to his own opinion.
What ever.
My thinking and your thinking diff but that doesn't mean im wrong and not meaning you are right.

[hcg_explorer]

Each to his own opinion.
What ever.
My thinking and your thinking diff but that doesn't mean im wrong and not meaning you are right.

yah.. u r not wrong, u juz want FREE FUCK using WIFE as an excuse.

Really very "SWAY" to be ur wife.

[acidicavex]

Not trying to cook up an excuse to find free fuck in the forum.
Sex is a two side blade, it serve you well and can kill you.

Im just a normal man with a normal desire.

Ain't the bros here if not all, many I would say have desire that why we are all here?

[MadameMoiselle]

Awesome lah.... It's called a forum and zapped for "Auntie Talk" ehh?? Too much power in hand to waste arr?? People who zaps for such lame excuses are the forum's sissies. Big time. Some immaturity lah people..Thank you very much hor... So what qualifies for not Auntie talks? Can define abit what is NOT an "Auntie Talk" especially from the mysterious zapper? Possibly I'm not aware of such protocol....

[Benong1975]

Wan up or zap tell me leh...:D

[MadameMoiselle]

Wan up or zap tell me leh...:D

Thanks dude. You're being too nice lah. It's ok. I'm taking it like a real Minah. Losing points small matter. This is just insulting me as an individual. Never insult anyone or being overly self-complimenting is also an issue?? This is just bullcrap lah. The zapper is messing with the wrong Minah lah.

Anyhow bro, thanks for offering help. I will let you know if I need "help" in the future.;)

[Seiyajohn]

yah.. u r not wrong, u juz want FREE FUCK using WIFE as an excuse.

Really very "SWAY" to be ur wife.

Dont try to be holy here lah.
Which cat dont like to eat fish.
I'm not using my wife as a excuse and I didn't said the problem is on my wife so
You go and get a life.

[huhu123]

Dont try to be holy here lah.
Which cat dont like to eat fish.
I'm not using my wife as a excuse and I didn't said the problem is on my wife so
You go and get a life.

relax lah there are 7 billion ppl in this world each with his or her own opinion. No worries.:)

[Seiyajohn]

Understand that but just that men are men.
Who dont like to have a free and good time with a lady.
No need to say that I use my wife as an excuse,
Act like very noble like that.
If so noble then dont come to this forum,
just go stay home lar.

[hcg_explorer]

Dont try to be holy here lah.
Which cat dont like to eat fish.
I'm not using my wife as a excuse and I didn't said the problem is on my wife so
You go and get a life.

ha.. thanks for using the word HOLY...

u r juz defensive. dun cum and tok to 阿佬 wat cat dun like to eat fish story.

married for 7 years and my sex life had been going rock bottom... hv u ask urself y ???

Even I paid for sex also didnt manage to satisfy my needs.
wtf u toking, didn't manage to satisfy ur needs, wat is ur need huh???

bed perform seen to be on the downturn too..
dun u know there is such thing known as " AGING "

Due to fact that our kid is sleeping with us and she feel uncomfortable having sex with him around.
excuses... ur kids sleep 24hrs with u and ur wife izit. nonsense...

I really dont know where is the problem?
u thou u really dat innocent meh... don't know where is the probem...

Im still very turn on during the last round with her but she doesn't like foreplay. I can last quite long when we have sex.
u turn on... den ??? ur wife ??? she doesn't like foreplay ??? why ??? all the while or only recently ??? u can last quite long so ??? ur wife can tahan u so long ???
Basically tis shows dat u r juz a selfish guy. Juz to achieve ur sex desire and ur own satisfaction. Hv sex to ur wife juz for the sake of ur desire & satisfaction.

Who dont like a free sex with another lady who is also willing to have a good sex.
Just this sentence, " VELI SWAY TO BE UR WIFE "

Before I end I will like to say im a normal man looking for a Normal with a normal desire for sex.
u call this NORMAL ???

c'mon TS, u r juz trying to play with 心理戰, using human psychology..
why, simple, can can free sex, no need to pay.. y not give it a try... rite ?

[hcg_explorer]

Understand that but just that men are men.
Who dont like to have a free and good time with a lady.
No need to say that I use my wife as an excuse,
Act like very noble like that.
If so noble then dont come to this forum,
just go stay home lar.

so u r trying to challenge 阿佬 izit... ?

if u wan to play, juz state to the fact u wan, be a man. No need give fucking excuses.

[Benong1975]

Waa..ah lau ur ang mo si bei good leh...:D

[Seiyajohn]

I write what I like.
If you dont like what I write then dont read.
I didnt force you to read what I write.
Talk like you are some holy man in this area.
This is a free forum, take your holy shit elsewhere.
I didnt ask for your opinion.
Im like so what, you think your are big time is it?
If you are so what....
坏要坏的有道理,
坏到没道理,没人会服你。
If you tink what I write is so 假,
Then too bad lor but I dont need you to teach me what to write

[hcg_explorer]

I write what I like.
If you dont like what I write then dont read.
I didnt force you to read what I write.
Talk like you are some holy man in this area.
This is a free forum, take your holy shit elsewhere.
I didnt ask for your opinion.
Im like so what, you think your are big time is it?
If you are so what....
坏要坏的有道理,
坏到没道理,没人会服你。
If you tink what I write is so 假,
Then too bad lor but I dont need you to teach me what to write

see... sure know got such kind of replies... kiddy thoughts.
as u say, a free forum...


den ???