Looking for the other one

[Seiyajohn]

Hi to all senior bro's & sis' s of this forum.

A brief introduction:
Im male 39, married with a son.
Working at Tuas and living in the North.

My purpose of writing to share my story and hopefully something good can come out from here.

My present situation:
Being married for 7 years and my sex life had been going rock bottom.
Even I paid for sex also didnt manage to satisfy my needs.
My on the bed perform seen to be on the downturn too.

Im looking forward for the happy sex on the bed.
Any suggestions from senior bro and sis.

Thanks all in advance.

[WOOHOO]

[curiouslala]

wheres the story? o.O

[WOOHOO]

Originally Posted by curiouslala

wheres the story? o.O

TS doing the performance excercise now lol

[MadameMoiselle]

now now ladies..hes been polite here..hes asking for opinions from the pros and thats you gals la...hehe. dun stress him hor...lets be polite back and be the pros we shld be...

[stella69]

wa...work in tuas stay in north? got company transport ah?

[georgemagnum]

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall .....

gm

[sane]

Originally Posted by georgemagnum

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall .....

gm

ma, u teach him ...

[huhu123]

sis huhu is here to help.....u are getting bored with women so try another sex. Go look for kurt tay and u will naturally appreciate yr lovely wife. Go and do some crazy things with yr wife.

[MadameMoiselle]

Originally Posted by georgemagnum

5 consecutive posts after TS asked for help .... But Not a single post addressing any form of help ..... If I'm TS .... I'll bang my head against the wall .....

gm

okok....i break this thread's virginity by answering kay...


First of all, it has got to start with you. How you present yourself, how you feel about yourself, your outlook on the bed matters, what is your strongest points in bed and your mentality and creativity in the bedroom. Only when all these are settled, you can focused on your partner(s).

When I said focused on yourself first, that does not mean you should be too self-indulged and being egoistic. Firstly, the mind should understand that sex is supposed to be fun, spontaneous, free-willed, open-minded (experimental in my dictionary, we cover this part later after you are settled with how you feel about sex) and about communication as well.

As you said, your sex life in your marriage has gone sour and the paid sex sessions do not fulfilled your needs. In this issue, your mentality needs to understand that forced sexual activities onto anyone is no fun even if it is to you. It should be mutual. Communicate. Communicate the sexual desires you need to the other party. Then hear them communicate back theirs. Ask them what turns them on, what they like to do in bed, is there any particular special skill in bed that they have that might turn you on, etc. From that on, you should think positive even if the things they shared might not tickle your fancy. Instead, make suggestions, point out the interesting ones you might want to do and minus the parts you don't prefer as gently as possible. And same thing, ask what she thinks about your fetishes. Give and take. Take some of her ideas and fused with yours.

So the next pointer I would lay out is know the kind of people you want to get in bed with. Would you want them to be adventurous, vanillas, vixens, having it rough or being slow and sensual? If with your wifey, know what she seems like every time you have it with her. Observe her body language, ask her her needs, go fast or slow, rough or gentle, where does she wants it (eg; different parts of the house or somewhere else that wont get you caught in the act lol)?..etc

Point is never be too lazy to talk during sex to stimulate her and know more about your partner's needs. Don't just wham wham wham and not a care for her feelings? I'm sure you know how emo-tion-al women are so if you skipped that part of her, it won't changed a thing about your sex life. Talk, listen, talk listen and the cycle goes round. Communicate. I cannot ever stressed this word any lesser. Very important pointer.

And always be in a can-do state. Always stay positive, encouraging and be suggestive all the time. Make the conversation before sex as light and open as possible. During the sex itself, ask her where is good to be pleasured, ask question like" is this ok for you, do u like that", and when she moans lightly, tease her if she could moan louder for you (works for me everytime haha), when she pleasures you, guide (not commanding unless she prefers being submissive) her gently the way you would want her to please and call her sweet names (eg; baby, darling etc, again if shes the submissive kind otherwise ask her what she wants to be called before the sex act starts) while you guides her and when she pleases you (even if it is not to your satisfaction, a little encouragement will up her confidence and performance). The communication must stay solid till it ends. And, as much as guys like visuals, so do (some) women. Again, give and take. No one is supposed to be selfish in this act.

Hope that help dude.

[hcg_explorer]

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

[huhu123]

Originally Posted by hcg_explorer

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

power...like nuclear explosion.

[Benong1975]

Originally Posted by hcg_explorer

U tok simi lanjiao wei...

Wan free sex say so lah.. KNN

Simi lanjiao excuse. If ur wife oso think like u den? Go out let other guyz fuck lah u wan... KNN.. selfish thou

Suddenly ah lau poke come out...

[huhu123]

Originally Posted by Benong1975

Suddenly ah lau poke come out...

u also suddenly poke out.

[Benong1975]

Originally Posted by huhu123

u also suddenly poke out.

I everytime Suddenly poke out wan mah