Wats wrong with me?

[supreme]

Since my last gf 5yrs back, i only pcc to satisfy myself. Recently, i got a new gf and i got problems having sex with her!! :eek:
I have no problems standing up but i get down very fast! I mean i go soft extremely fast. She has problems keeping me hard. I think i have pcc too much? I have stopped pcc for a week and its still happening! Any bro got solution? :(

[songsong1213]

Go and see a doctor :)

[bully]

Relax bro, maybe u too long nvr bonk liao... It happen. Now dat she is ya gfren, so take ya time. Maybe u can talk to her abt it. Sure she is understanding. Further more she is most happy dat u nvr bonk in 5yrs! If all else fail, like bro songsong1213 say, see a doc. All the best mann..

[MoonBlaze]

is that the prospect of making up with someone for the fisrt giving you additional pressure? Or is it pressure from work or fatigue? Some times it is the phsycological thingy. If Try more foreplay... If you are still in your prime and things dun get better, suggest you go consult a doctor. Cheer Up!!! :)

[Ella]

Don't worry bro, your mind needs time to adjust from pcc to actual bonking.

Just enjoy the session n don't try too hard to please her, viagra also help for the first few bonks to get you mentally ready....

After that you'll have no problem, just remember not to pcc more than once a day or none at all during this period

[Happosai]

Hmmm... Could be performance anxiety. Trying too hard and getting worried about sextisfying and impressing your gf. Just relax, have more foreplay and enjoy the shag.

[sexlover]

Dont bonk first,,,,, ask her to PCC first then slowly as time pass,,,move to the actual bonking... :D

[Castrol]

I mean i go soft extremely fast. She has problems keeping me hard.

are you ang mo? :D

[supreme]

Yes.. i'm very stressed that i couldn't perform. Oh man.. after 5yrs then find a willing party to bonk but now can't perform at all! :( She's very understanding. She even consoled me and ask me to take it easy. Sigh.. this is the hardest thing for a guy to swallow..

[sexlover]

are you ang mo?
Hahahaha that's a good one,,,, :D ,,,,, in porn normally ang mo always soft soft....... :D

[nakamara]

I guess you're still thinking and fantasising bout your ex-gf's body which you're so comfortable with. Let me guess...you feel uncomfortable stripping in front of a girl or even pros/fl/wl?

You need to get comfortable with your current girl's body and getting naked with her b4 you can start enjoying sex.

Hope this helps :)

[GoForIt]

Dont bonk first,,,,, ask her to PCC first then slowly as time pass,,,move to the actual bonking... :D


lidat aso can meh later he cannot even stand don't say stay hard.

u make him cannot stand than u've the chance taking over his gal tio bo,kekeke :p

[sexlover]

u make him cannot stand than u've the chance taking over his gal tio bo,kekeke
It's my pleasure to render assistance if he request but I will never insist,,, :cool:

[fun4evergood]

Maybe u can try our famous CAT80 or CAT150 in Geylang....if those still can't make u stand....then u mus to see doctor. :)

[supreme]

Normally i can stand. When i PCC at home, no such problems. When she do for me.. i just cannot maintain. I do feel not very comfortable naked in front of her. Very confused now.. I thought after i stopped pcc for a week, i should be extremely needy but i was wrong. I totally have no urge!! She even told me that if i need to release, i should release and not hold back! Could it be i PCC too much till my didi can only react to my own style?

[Horsepower]

Normally i can stand. When i PCC at home, no such problems. When she do for me.. i just cannot maintain. I do feel not very comfortable naked in front of her. Very confused now.. I thought after i stopped pcc for a week, i should be extremely needy but i was wrong. I totally have no urge!! She even told me that if i need to release, i should release and not hold back! Could it be i PCC too much till my didi can only react to my own style?
I can tell you that over-pcc can cause pre-ejaculation or no ejaculation during sex. The reason is your didi only react to your hand or when you see pics of porn. So when you face a real person, psychologically you are not used to the new environment.

Go to GL cat150, ask the ger blow until you cum. If 1 session not enough, pay for another session. :D This may help to overcum the problem. Will your gf blow for you ?

[supreme]

Yes. She's willing to blow for me. But when she blow. I dun feel much pleasure. At most feel a bit high but i won't feel like cumming at all. I also paiseh to make her blow me so long. Now the question is should i stop all PCC activities till i become "normal" again? I scared i become absolutely no urge again.

[bullit69]

for me my gf got problem making me soft... haha...

[MoonBlaze]

Yes. She's willing to blow for me. But when she blow. I dun feel much pleasure. At most feel a bit high but i won't feel like cumming at all. I also paiseh to make her blow me so long. Now the question is should i stop all PCC activities till i become "normal" again? I scared i become absolutely no urge again.I think it is all in your brain....relax and avoid PCCC for a few days and dun pressurize yourself too much. Try for making up at adhoc basis, if you pre-arranged it to be done at certain time and venue, maybe you will also be too pressurized to perform. Consulate a Doc if you need too. Cherr Up!!! :)

[kaizer]

den stop pccing and adapt to the newer and better style lor. brother, can change de, juz nid sumtime. trust me. :cool:

bro, u mean u go soft easily is after cumming or nvr cum den so soft? if u nvr cum den soft liao, u shld try other ways to get urself more excited, examples are playing SM (if ur sadist but quite dangerous), do more foreplay, use sex toys, ask ur gal wear those sexy latex costumes, do a strip dance or smth.. mayb it will help lor.

[supreme]

Never cum but go soft. Is like she made me hard already then she put on condom for me and then try to put my didi into her and realised tat she took too long and i'm soft again! :(

I will try out the suggestions mentioned by all the bros. Hopefully i can overcome this. Lucky my current partner is very forgiving and spontaneous. Thanks bros.. :)

[kaizer]

like dat is she cannot make u excited loh. dats why will go soft mah.. right? if shes really hot and u still cant go hard, like dat mayb relli got prob le, go see a doc bah.

[euphoria777]

sexual anxiety will cause this problem....
i met this young and hot gal and got her to bed on the second date.
after some foreplay, both of us very in the mood liao.
but she has a damn tight pussy with small entrance.
even when she is wet also difficult to go inside.
after fumbling a while, got too anxious, didi went soft.....

maybe u having the same problem

[walkingdick]

From your text I think anxiety is the issue, you mustrealise to give yourself more time for your body to regulate sexual responses.

I too thought I have the same problem, going soft damn fast, It's like looking at a deflating balloon (correct?). But then I realise I need to take care of my body as a whole, as well as shed my sexual inhibitions.

Wait!!! Are you on Propecia???? :eek: