Wats wrong with me?

supreme · #1 07-06-2005, 03:55 PM

Since my last gf 5yrs back, i only pcc to satisfy myself. Recently, i got a new gf and i got problems having sex with her!!

I have no problems standing up but i get down very fast! I mean i go soft extremely fast. She has problems keeping me hard. I think i have pcc too much? I have stopped pcc for a week and its still happening! Any bro got solution?

songsong1213 · #2 07-06-2005, 04:01 PM

Go and see a doctor

bully · #3 07-06-2005, 04:08 PM

Relax bro, maybe u too long nvr bonk liao... It happen. Now dat she is ya gfren, so take ya time. Maybe u can talk to her abt it. Sure she is understanding. Further more she is most happy dat u nvr bonk in 5yrs! If all else fail, like bro songsong1213 say, see a doc. All the best mann..

MoonBlaze · #4 07-06-2005, 04:10 PM

is that the prospect of making up with someone for the fisrt giving you additional pressure? Or is it pressure from work or fatigue? Some times it is the phsycological thingy. If Try more foreplay... If you are still in your prime and things dun get better, suggest you go consult a doctor. Cheer Up!!!

Ella · #5 07-06-2005, 04:12 PM

Don't worry bro, your mind needs time to adjust from pcc to actual bonking.

Just enjoy the session n don't try too hard to please her, viagra also help for the first few bonks to get you mentally ready....

After that you'll have no problem, just remember not to pcc more than once a day or none at all during this period

#6 07-06-2005, 04:15 PM

Hmmm... Could be performance anxiety. Trying too hard and getting worried about sextisfying and impressing your gf. Just relax, have more foreplay and enjoy the shag.

sexlover · #7 07-06-2005, 04:18 PM

Dont bonk first,,,,, ask her to PCC first then slowly as time pass,,,move to the actual bonking...

Castrol · #8 07-06-2005, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by supreme

I mean i go soft extremely fast. She has problems keeping me hard.

are you ang mo?

supreme · #9 07-06-2005, 04:37 PM

Yes.. i'm very stressed that i couldn't perform. Oh man.. after 5yrs then find a willing party to bonk but now can't perform at all!

She's very understanding. She even consoled me and ask me to take it easy. Sigh.. this is the hardest thing for a guy to swallow..

sexlover · #10 07-06-2005, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Castrol

are you ang mo?

Hahahaha that's a good one,,,,

,,,,, in porn normally ang mo always soft soft.......

nakamara · #11 07-06-2005, 04:38 PM

I guess you're still thinking and fantasising bout your ex-gf's body which you're so comfortable with. Let me guess...you feel uncomfortable stripping in front of a girl or even pros/fl/wl?

You need to get comfortable with your current girl's body and getting naked with her b4 you can start enjoying sex.

Hope this helps

GoForIt · #12 07-06-2005, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by sexlover

Dont bonk first,,,,, ask her to PCC first then slowly as time pass,,,move to the actual bonking...

lidat aso can meh later he cannot even stand don't say stay hard.

u make him cannot stand than u've the chance taking over his gal tio bo,kekeke

sexlover · #13 07-06-2005, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by GoForIt

u make him cannot stand than u've the chance taking over his gal tio bo,kekeke

It's my pleasure to render assistance if he request but I will never insist,,,

fun4evergood · #14 07-06-2005, 05:00 PM

Maybe u can try our famous CAT80 or CAT150 in Geylang....if those still can't make u stand....then u mus to see doctor.

supreme · #15 07-06-2005, 05:24 PM

Normally i can stand. When i PCC at home, no such problems. When she do for me.. i just cannot maintain. I do feel not very comfortable naked in front of her. Very confused now.. I thought after i stopped pcc for a week, i should be extremely needy but i was wrong. I totally have no urge!! She even told me that if i need to release, i should release and not hold back! Could it be i PCC too much till my didi can only react to my own style?