Another guy that got cheated

[Johnsmith88316]

I never thought that I will ever be posting here, but I just feel really unhappy and thought that sharing might make me feel better.

I got to know this China girl previously from ktv, fell head over heels with her. At first, I bought a diamond pendant for her and she wear it everyday. After that one day, she told me that the necklance broke while playing around with the other girls at the ktv and she doesn't want to wear it anymore. I told her we can go fix it or I can get a new chain to put the pendant on but she refuses, saying that she don't feel like wearing it. So after that, I bought a diamond ring for her to wear.

After a couple of months, she requested for iphone 5S, gold necklance, gold bracelet, so I bought everything for her. She said her watch broke, so I bought a watch for her too. She said that she wanted to buy a watch for her father so I bought that as well.

Then one day, she said that while she was out, her rented room got burglared and she lost the diamond ring I bought for her, the necklance with the broken chain and the money that I had given to her. So, I told her that since its lost, I will buy another diamond ring for her since she always complain that the previous one is too loose and doesn't want to wear on her ring finger. So, we went to buy the diamond ring.

Before she went back to China, I told her that I want to send her off at the airport, but she keep insisting that she don't like people to send her off because she does not like the sad feeling. When I keep insisting then she said that a friend is sending her off already, so I shouldn't go. I was really sad but I went to the airport to see with my own eyes so that my feelings for her can die.

True enough, I see another guy sending her off and hugging her for several minutes before she enter the gates. I feel so heartbroken. Subsequently, I called her on her hp and she tried to lie that its the boss of the KTV that she works in. Subsequently, I told her not to lie anymore and she insist that its only a very close friend sending her off and that they will not keep in touch anymore.

Although I really wanted to stop then, I still keep in contact with her because I really did feel for her. Then one day, she told me that her father thank me for the watch. So, I was puzzled, I asked her that if her room was burglared and she lost everything, how come the watch still exists? She then said that a friend of hers wanted to see the watch in real life so she brought over to her friend's house and left it there so it wasn't stolen. At that time, I felt it was unbelievable but I decided to let it go since I had no evidence anyway.

Then subsequently, she told me that she sold the gold necklace because she needed the money to pay for her family's illness and she felt really bad. I told her that its okay, I understand her situation. (Part 1)

[Johnsmith88316]

Please see part 1 of the same title first

Then one day, she send me a photo of herself, and I realised that she was wearing the same necklace that I originally gave to her. I was so shocked. Everything was a lie, the broken necklace, the lost ring, the burglar.....everything.

I confronted her and the only excuse she could come up with is that its a different necklace, she went to buy it.

I was devastated, I told her that continuing the conversation is meaningless and she replied me that continuing to be together without any trust is meaningless. Since then, I have been ignoring her, although she didn't try to contact me much except dropping me a msg saying that she dreamt about me.

I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money. Maybe we grow up in a different environment so this is shocking to me.

[demonhunter]

She doesnt look too bright to me , lying and getting caught by you .

When she does not want you to see her off at the airport , you should know better as its very obvious . Anyway , she choose some other guy to see her off instead of you , does it not tell you where you stand in her life ? Its crystal clear dude .

Like all the brudders always say , these women are for banging and not for lovin !:)

good luck forgetting her so as to avoid more lies and foolish money spent :D

[demonhunter]

Please see part 1 of the same title first

Then one day, she send me a photo of herself, and I realised that she was wearing the same necklace that I originally gave to her. I was so shocked. Everything was a lie, the broken necklace, the lost ring, the burglar.....everything.

I confronted her and the only excuse she could come up with is that its a different necklace, she went to buy it.

I was devastated, I told her that continuing the conversation is meaningless and she replied me that continuing to be together without any trust is meaningless. Since then, I have been ignoring her, although she didn't try to contact me much except dropping me a msg saying that she dreamt about me.

I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money. Maybe we grow up in a different environment so this is shocking to me.

please remind yourself why they are here working in a KTV .

they are looking for Mooolah , not love .

[36Red]

TS u very young right? Slowly learn la.

[Blast88]

TS, mind to share how much have you spend on her? Did you bed her?

[Johnsmith88316]

I am early 30s this year...not sure if that's young but I only started hanging out at ktvs 6 months ago.

[Johnsmith88316]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

[damong777]

Bro: you need to move on, harden your heart; since she is like that liao, you can always feel someone better or appreciate you.

if not, you may be taken advantage. Once your heart become soft, you would be getting in more mess...

[autoroam]

TS....
why are you starting a new thread since it is the same story??
So if there is 100 parts you going to create 100 thread??

[Nato17]

TS....
why are you starting a new thread since it is the same story??
So if there is 100 parts you going to create 100 thread??

I concur with the statement above. If you want to finish the story, just finish it here instead of opening 100 threads lei.

[Nato17]

Please see part 1 of the same title first

Then one day, she send me a photo of herself, and I realised that she was wearing the same necklace that I originally gave to her. I was so shocked. Everything was a lie, the broken necklace, the lost ring, the burglar.....everything.

I confronted her and the only excuse she could come up with is that its a different necklace, she went to buy it.

I was devastated, I told her that continuing the conversation is meaningless and she replied me that continuing to be together without any trust is meaningless. Since then, I have been ignoring her, although she didn't try to contact me much except dropping me a msg saying that she dreamt about me.

I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money. Maybe we grow up in a different environment so this is shocking to me.

How you play the game does not mean people have to play by the same rules. Here is something you and most brothers need to understand. PRC women have something that a lot of other country women don't have. There is a MAJOR shortage of women in PRC versus other countries, so even a fucking ugly woman would have people chasing after. My own stupid theology for every 1 PRC women, she probably have 10-20 different guys being interested in her over her life time. What makes you so special that she is really going to be touched by you? Unlike other countries, whereby WLs become used properties, PRC women as long as they open leg, they will have someone interested in them.

Enuff said. I hope you get through this and I am sure you will.

[cqueen]

I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money. Maybe we grow up in a different environment so this is shocking to me.

Good afternoon Johnsmith88316,

The very fact that you came forward to share with us how your sincere intent of just wanting to love someone heartily and unconditionally, and be loved in return, was met with deception and lies, only demonstrates that you are not stupid and useless.

On the contrary, you are a courageous man with good strength to be able to recognise and accept this hurting truth. I know you will be able to recover from this hurting episode soon and emerge from it a stronger man.

Remember, its the other party who took advantage of your well intended feelings for her own ill motivated interests. You have not done anything wrong! Do not blame yourself for her manipulative ways. After all, what is wrong in wanting to give your very best to someone you have strong feelings for.

Having said that, you may want to exercise more caution and be highly "selective" in your well intended feelings towards your future partner.

It is through such trials and errors that makes us grow and mature in life.

[stillgottheblue]

When the other party keeps asking for help, that's the warning sign to cut the relationship.

[sammyboyfor]

You should have read my 3 simple rules. :rolleyes:

You deserve whatever befalls you because of your stupidity.

[sammyboyfor]

Remember, its the other party who took advantage of your well intended feelings for her own ill motivated interests. You have not done anything wrong! Do not blame yourself for her manipulative ways.

The girl is a freakin WHORE for goodness sake. Anyone who trusts a WHORE deserves to be cheated good and proper. :rolleyes:

[justl00king]

Bro, thanks for sharing..another typical KC trap story.

Sorry to be blunt but the answer is staring u right in the face, she only loves your $..not u.

Better to move on and cut your losses. if having difficulty in moving on, read this- http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=2857692&postcount=1

Been there..done that, good luck! :cool:

[ah rat]

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

Any pixs of her neh neh & pussy to share :p :D

[sammyboyfor]

Been there..done that, good luck! :cool:

Question : How can you tell when a WHORE is lying? :(

Answer : Whenever she opens her mouth and says something. :D

The only time her open mouth is of any value is when you can shove your dick in it. She can't lie when her mouth is full.

[Nato17]

Question : How can you tell when a WHORE is lying? :(

Answer : Whenever she opens her mouth and says something. :D

The only time her open mouth is of any value is when you can shove your dick in it. She can't lie when her mouth is full.

Boss always so practical. Next time I shove my dick into any women, I will remember your words. :)

[subidowa]

Eh.... never trust a girl too much. I remember some god said this before. A man can satisfy every needs for a girl and All the girls in the world can only satisfy a man single need.

Go clubbing and ons. U get to choose and need not use so much money.

[sheridan]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

depending of the brand, just by buying a watch can cost you 30k liao :p
furthermore already done 3 times... so no issue no worries

[Tai_zi21]

You deserved to get cheated....

She has the upper hand in this game... while she just lead you on

Move on with ur life and forget abt her

End of story

[amostio]

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

TS, that's almost $10k per bonk! Wake up! You know what you can do with $10k?

[seriesbolts]

Stop flaming him already, he already at lost (both emotional & finiancally). Just hope that he ll learn his most expensive lesson and continue to move on.

[8Black]

Sad for TS kena conned.

[Nato17]

TS, that's almost $10k per bonk! Wake up! You know what you can do with $10k?

Aiyah. You chase local girl also may need to spend 20-40k so what and maybe get nothing even. His choice lei.

[mevius]

Ts ,, time to wake up ... Go ktv is to play and not go there get played

[mutantchicken]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

wow thats one expensive pussy no wonder these women think so lettle of men when they see such weakness...dont EVER believe their insinuation that buying them things proves ur love to them

[sammyboyfor]

Stop flaming him already, he already at lost (both emotional & finiancally). Just hope that he ll learn his most expensive lesson and continue to move on.

Sometimes a bit of tough love works wonders. :p

[crood]

Rem the gals are here to work and to earn $$, bagging a carrot head is just another bonus for her.

If a gal genuinely likes u, she wont ask u to buy things or spend too much $ on her.

Wan to fall in love, go find a decent gal.

[miniboy]

just learn and earn back your 30k from PRC chicken :p

[justl00king]

The only time her open mouth is of any value is when you can shove your dick in it. She can't lie when her mouth is full.Well said...shove it in and give her a full CIM. :p

[xuanz]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.


wah 10000 per shot siol. ;p

[xuanz]

if a gal genuinely likes u, she wont ask u to buy things or spend too much $ on her.

couldn't agree more.

[Ken79]

TS bro, because u are in self-denial that she would love u and if u say no to her requests/demands, your value would fall in her eyes.
Thus, u give in time and again in the hope that u are getting into her good books, but this will only make her greedier, unless u have more money than her appetite, which is unlikely even if u are filthy rich becos she would then ask u to buy house after house for investment.

Sorry to say that u look for love at the wrong place, a whore/FL is supposed to be paid what that is worth and close case, a decent gal is where u put your kc.

No way that gal will come back to u, unless its for more money and meanwhile she is definitely fishing elsewhere, needless to say your money is good as gone and only thing do now is learn from this expensive lesson and move on.

[Psam]

Move on. no need to feel bitter, simply not worth it.

Consider yourself lucky, my friend divorced his wife, sold his flat, quit his job and left for China, lost all his money in a short 2 months time.

Till now he still don't think he is cheated..

[teohhb]

Till now he still don't think he is cheated..

your friend is amazing :eek:

[sammyboyfor]

your friend is amazing :eek:

Amazingly stupid. :p

[chanster]

Show her pic bro

[PeterBicycle]

different characters, different twist and turn here and there but always the same old ending. good luck 2 you ts

Another guy who got cheated

[georgemagnum]

TS,

Pls use your big head to think.
Learn from this and move on .... Hope you recover fast.
Take care

gm

[8Black]

Amazingly stupid. :p

Hate to say it but I have to agree to it.

[Psam]

your friend is amazing :eek:

Yes, I agree, amazingly stupid, apparently the money was invested in a house and some biz in the women's name, things changed when the money dries up.

He don't think he is cheated as he is out borrowing money to "save" his so called investment.

TS. learn from it, it is ok to be weak for a moment but don't be stupid for a lifetime.

[Nato17]

Yes, I agree, amazingly stupid, apparently the money was invested in a house and some biz in the women's name, things changed when the money dries up.

He don't think he is cheated as he is out borrowing money to "save" his so called investment.

TS. learn from it, it is ok to be weak for a moment but don't be stupid for a lifetime.

Is he dumb or is he dumb. For crying out loud do the business in his name, why put it under the women's name. I just cannot comprehend his thought process.

[lespaul]

wah 10000 per shot siol. ;p

Yeah, that's one of the most expensive cibai this the world.:D:D:D

[GoodMorning]

Bro

20K is very expensive. Sorry to hear your sad story.

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

[saabking]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

aiyo...30K only do 3 times? 10K each time?

haha..i think i spend more than 30K on my darling... well at least she don't lie to me and i was there to see her off.. she was there to receive me when i visited her. She even rush queue for hours to get through custom to receive me...

Well..may be she is one of those rare one? Time will tell..

[copper]

Your Emotional Intelligence is not sharp than your Intelligence Quotient.

[1118]

if TS can afford this kind of money, treat it as a lesson lor. 30k for a life lesson is consider cheap :D

[shiokpleasure]

aiya, u paid and have your fun.

how can you say she cheated you? you gave her money and she still entertain you, she made you feel like you love her leh.

so mai kpkb leh.

[wantanabee]

TS, there are worst cases around... lucky u woke up before anymore dmg

[Meow^^]

When human fall in love, it tends to be just 2 things. Emotional and Rational. TS belong to the Cat. Emotional.

Falling in love with the right party, you will enjoy your love life. If you fall for the wrong party you will get what you are getting now. Unless you change the way you are thinking towards love or you will be getting this things offen.

Anyway, just move on you will find someone better. This time open your eyes not your wallet. :D

[cuntarow]

I never thought that I will ever be posting here, but I just feel really unhappy and thought that sharing might make me feel better.

I got to know this China girl previously from ktv, fell head over heels with her. At first, I bought a diamond pendant for her and she wear it everyday. After that one day, she told me that the necklance broke while playing around with the other girls at the ktv and she doesn't want to wear it anymore. I told her we can go fix it or I can get a new chain to put the pendant on but she refuses, saying that she don't feel like wearing it. So after that, I bought a diamond ring for her to wear.

the greed in them run in their blood even you bought gold chain they will tells you they want gold bar

After a couple of months, she requested for iphone 5S, gold necklance, gold bracelet, so I bought everything for her. She said her watch broke, so I bought a watch for her too. She said that she wanted to buy a watch for her father so I bought that as well.
what if her father wants to change house?? u buy??

Then one day, she said that while she was out, her rented room got burglared and she lost the diamond ring I bought for her, the necklance with the broken chain and the money that I had given to her. So, I told her that since its lost, I will buy another diamond ring for her since she always complain that the previous one is too loose and doesn't want to wear on her ring finger. So, we went to buy the diamond ring.

you really dumb enough to believe this

Before she went back to China, I told her that I want to send her off at the airport, but she keep insisting that she don't like people to send her off because she does not like the sad feeling. When I keep insisting then she said that a friend is sending her off already, so I shouldn't go. I was really sad but I went to the airport to see with my own eyes so that my feelings for her can die.

thanks to you the guy might be living off her and sextisfying her better that she rather don see you

True enough, I see another guy sending her off and hugging her for several minutes before she enter the gates. I feel so heartbroken. Subsequently, I called her on her hp and she tried to lie that its the boss of the KTV that she works in. Subsequently, I told her not to lie anymore and she insist that its only a very close friend sending her off and that they will not keep in touch anymore.

Although I really wanted to stop then, I still keep in contact with her because I really did feel for her. Then one day, she told me that her father thank me for the watch. So, I was puzzled, I asked her that if her room was burglared and she lost everything, how come the watch still exists? She then said that a friend of hers wanted to see the watch in real life so she brought over to her friend's house and left it there so it wasn't stolen. At that time, I felt it was unbelievable but I decided to let it go since I had no evidence anyway.

Seeing is believing but you choose to cheat yourself than blame who

Then subsequently, she told me that she sold the gold necklace because she needed the money to pay for her family's illness and she felt really bad. I told her that its okay, I understand her situation. (Part 1)

All these jokers have endless sick family members but none seems to die??

[massagemmaniac]

Please see part 1 of the same title first

Then one day, she send me a photo of herself, and I realised that she was wearing the same necklace that I originally gave to her. I was so shocked. Everything was a lie, the broken necklace, the lost ring, the burglar.....everything.

I confronted her and the only excuse she could come up with is that its a different necklace, she went to buy it.

I was devastated, I told her that continuing the conversation is meaningless and she replied me that continuing to be together without any trust is meaningless. Since then, I have been ignoring her, although she didn't try to contact me much except dropping me a msg saying that she dreamt about me.

I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money. Maybe we grow up in a different environment so this is shocking to me.

Bro,

I can definitely feel your sadness and disappointment.
In your heart, you do hope to have outcome with her but the truth is that she is only making use of you to earn money.
Sad but this is just the reality. It is very hard to accept but still have to.

One point to note is that they are not as mentally weak as we may think.
In fact, their emotional control is very strong as in they can be cruel without emotional attachments in split seconds.

You might be just one of her many men. I have been through the same shitty feelings and I can definitely feel for you.

Bro,

Move on. I know it is easy to say but difficult to execute. But keep on trying and you will succeed. :)

[massagemmaniac]

Question : How can you tell when a WHORE is lying? :(

Answer : Whenever she opens her mouth and says something. :D

The only time her open mouth is of any value is when you can shove your dick in it. She can't lie when her mouth is full.

Lol. This is really true. :D

[massagemmaniac]

aiyo...30K only do 3 times? 10K each time?

haha..i think i spend more than 30K on my darling... well at least she don't lie to me and i was there to see her off.. she was there to receive me when i visited her. She even rush queue for hours to get through custom to receive me...

Well..may be she is one of those rare one? Time will tell..


Bro,

I really hope yours is rare but then my experiences doubt so.
Anyway, you are right that time will tell. Wish you good luck!
:)

[DonkeyDong]

Most of these girls, whether KTV or FLs are there for the money. Given a choice and other career options, they wouldn't want to be stuck doing what they do. Getting emotionally hooked onto one is a bad move.

Think of it as a car wash. They are there to wash your wheels and soap your body. Once they wipe your car clean, next car comes.

Its a business deal. They have what you desire, you have what they desire. Common denominator is money.

F&F. Fire & Forget.

No offence, i m new here :)

[porscheclub]

Another Robert head? Welcome to the club man. Now, go take your number please :D

[porscheclub]

Just to share that it's not just these working ladies that cook up stories of sick family members.

Our company staffs in other countries always have stories of dying relatives that they need emergency leaves so in the end we demanded for a death certificate & then everybody seems alive & well :D

[hamsapkwai]

some lessons in life cost a lot :p

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=Johnsmith88316;10356581]I just feel so useless and stupid, all I wanted to do was to love someone and yet all I got back was lies, lies and more lies. I just couldn't believe how much lies she fed me all the while. Even now, I find it hard to believe that someone can lie so much just to cheat more money.
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forget her as she is just public toilet bowl, any man pay admition ticket can sit on her the toilet bowl.
u not the only stupid one - the man who send her to airport will also kena rub by her aeroplane very soon, may be ever more jia lat than u.

[whoresaviour]

Get cheated better. You dont get cheated then u dont learn. You dont realised until u are fucked.

[shiokpleasure]

how to know when a whore really likes you?

when they keep asking for money and yet you persist in not giving. yet after you don't give, they still stick with you.

you DICTATE what gift to give and when to give. not when the whore ask and then you give. in this case, it's always she ask or say something then u give. when u learn to bo chup about them, then u learn more about them.

[romidogdog]

TS, the one that sent her to the airport is richer than you.you need to read more on this forum to understand more about this kind of KC by prc gals
Ktv gals not for loving my friend.you spend so much 20 to 30k on her? Rich also must spend wisely, must be street smart !

[VeryGoodah]

Bro TS

This is an expensive deal. To me $20K is alot and i can feel very pain if i loose $20K.
Sad to hear your story.

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=VeryGoodah;10440364]Bro TS
This is an expensive deal. To me $20K is alot and i can feel very pain if i loose $20K.
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$20k is nothing to a property agent. it's the kamlang feeling that cannot bear.
last time my Zhuhai massage girl aske me for S$200k!
I tulan throw $2 note to her & fuck off.
so u must be like property agents - play hard but street smart
we not stupid! don't call us lion dancers, call us the long cock men

[smile_santa]

Sorry to hear that bro. I completely understand why you did all of those things. We (men) sometimes just want to be loved by someone. Its not so much the sex part that we seek but the affection and attention that we get from someone. Not everyone can find a nice girl on the streets that easily because he may be shy, introvert or has low self-esteem. Furthermore, its getting increasingly difficult to satisfy local women requirement. And also some bros don't really want to date seriously due to commitment issues.

Why bros fall for KC trap easily is because when we are with them they treat us like king. Don't have the courage to speak to a stranger? nvm. They will initiate the conversation. Think you are not humorous enough? Thats ok they will laugh at anything you say. Suddenly, all the affection that you have hungered for is being served to you on a plate. They wrap their hands around yours, whisper next to your ears while you try and catch a whiff of their perfume. And once you have tasted such emotions, you will do almost anything to retain it. Hence we will start opening our wallets. I'm sure most bros here knows they are working there because of money, and not to seek love. They probably have a 2 year old kid back in their country waiting to be fed as well. But if money is the fuel that satisfies your emotional needs, we will willingly pay.

In the future if you go have fun, try not to take things too serious. I know its damn comforting when someone pays you extra attention, but once u leave the place let the feelings wear off, maybe you can try my method to forget; tomorrow when you did not go and visit, her arms are wrapped in another mans.

[Greenfrog]

Sorry to hear that bro. I completely understand why you did all of those things. We (men) sometimes just want to be loved by someone. Its not so much the sex part that we seek but the affection and attention that we get from someone. Not everyone can find a nice girl on the streets that easily because he may be shy, introvert or has low self-esteem. Furthermore, its getting increasingly difficult to satisfy local women requirement. And also some bros don't really want to date seriously due to commitment issues.

Why bros fall for KC trap easily is because when we are with them they treat us like king. Don't have the courage to speak to a stranger? nvm. They will initiate the conversation. Think you are not humorous enough? Thats ok they will laugh at anything you say. Suddenly, all the affection that you have hungered for is being served to you on a plate. They wrap their hands around yours, whisper next to your ears while you try and catch a whiff of their perfume. And once you have tasted such emotions, you will do almost anything to retain it. Hence we will start opening our wallets. I'm sure most bros here knows they are working there because of money, and not to seek love. They probably have a 2 year old kid back in their country waiting to be fed as well. But if money is the fuel that satisfies your emotional needs, we will willingly pay.

In the future if you go have fun, try not to take things too serious. I know its damn comforting when someone pays you extra attention, but once u leave the place let the feelings wear off, maybe you can try my method to forget; tomorrow when you did not go and visit, her arms are wrapped in another mans.

well said. Sometimes, the KC is very tough to resist.

[Canoneos]

Most guys who get KC'ed have low self esteem and confidence. You really should not be going to KTVs. Stay home, watch some porn and wank off.

[Peter83]

Bro TS

Thank you for sharing. I can understand your feeling. Lets move on

[jameschong1]

Most guys who get KC'ed have low self esteem and confidence. You really should not be going to KTVs. Stay home, watch some porn and wank off.


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u are idiot to say this.
I go ktv & wank on all the bitch face!
people like u not only low self esteem but also low IQ & low income, so no confident to go ktv
so go but some cheap porn & wank off, u born loser

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
Here is a though or a question, why guys prefer to run the risk of being cheated by FLs....spending 10sss of thousand of $$$$ to win over a FLs....instead of dating normal Singapore girls.....
With the money..... being thrown around on this forum....I cannot believe that there is not a decent SG girl; that would take up the offer.....
Even if you throw half the money, at any girl, you should have a good chance of landing a half way decent girl...:confused:
Food for though....:)
I just cannot understand nor believe that the SG girls are that over the top, that an imported women that sell her body for money is more appealing.....:eek:

My humble two cents.

[stillgottheblue]

There had been enough was warnings issued in this forum not to get involved with FL but this had been fallen on deaf ears.

[nihabaashi]

Maybe we are willing to splurge cos:

1) dont want to commit long term
2) just wanna fuck around
3) these girls are slutty...which u cant get from normal gf
4) its just transactional....if u know how to control your emotions.

[joew2005]

life is like a box of chocolate, u never knw wat u will get.
sometimes 20k might be alot 2 us 2 get a gal, but 2 some it's only peanuts.
if we earn few k per month, it would take us abt a year or less 2 save 20k.
but 2 those tat draw a 5 figure pay cheque every month, they could easily save 20k in 2-3 months.

[MissPooh]

why guys like to regret after doing things?

TS cheers up and learn from it.

[MichaelWinn]

Move on. no need to feel bitter, simply not worth it.

Consider yourself lucky, my friend divorced his wife, sold his flat, quit his job and left for China, lost all his money in a short 2 months time.

Till now he still don't think he is cheated..

2 months is still not that fast
i seen cases myself
2 singapore ah peks went back to szechuan with their ktv darlings
in 7 days time they came back to singapore with 500k sing dollar cpf money
gone in szechuan china
the 5 days in china the girls kc them and their china husbands disguised
as ''brothers''.''uncles'',fathers etc:D
ask the spore ah peks to buy house,furniture,car,etc
500k sing dollars gone like that:eek:
when the ah peks come back to spore the china girls change their china mobile numbers, uncontactable :
:mad:
wake up ts we will never find true love with ktv girls:o

[MichaelWinn]

how to know when a whore really likes you?

when they keep asking for money and yet you persist in not giving. yet after you don't give, they still stick with you.

you DICTATE what gift to give and when to give. not when the whore ask and then you give. in this case, it's always she ask or say something then u give. when u learn to bo chup about them, then u learn more about them.

this is the best and almost perfect method:)
when i was working in china i used the above method
it saved me from many whores and parasites
and gave me great insight into prc women 's thinking;)

[MichaelWinn]

How you play the game does not mean people have to play by the same rules. Here is something you and most brothers need to understand. PRC women have something that a lot of other country women don't have. There is a MAJOR shortage of women in PRC versus other countries, so even a fucking ugly woman would have people chasing after. My own stupid theology for every 1 PRC women, she probably have 10-20 different guys being interested in her over her life time. What makes you so special that she is really going to be touched by you? Unlike other countries, whereby WLs become used properties, PRC women as long as they open leg, they will have someone interested in them.

Enuff said. I hope you get through this and I am sure you will.

great post by bro nato17
if one live in china long enough , all the above points metioned are true
once in a pub in dongbei, i saw a japanese man around 50 plus age paying
a dalian ktv girl who was milf around 40 plus age 5000 rmb for overnite to bring her to his hotel room:eek:
5000 rmb is enough to fuck 50 different girls in yunan southern china at 100 rmb per shot:D
many of the japanese-themed pubs in liaoning are filled with prc milfs 40 plus
age,why? as long as prc women open leg in china ,men will pay them money even the cleaner who sweeps the road or the construction worker :D

[Alex20]

Whores are meant to be fucked not loved
KTV Gals and FLs are Here for 1 Reason
Money should be spent wisely. I have been through this
Its heart breaking to see so many more victims made used off by these ppl.

:(

[arizona]

The only Pain from this sob-story is 20-30k spend for. Kinda strange for individual to find "Love" when patronizing KTV, it is neither a match-making service center nor a speed-dating agency :confused:

[Rythmik]

I wonder those diamond rings and all cost how much?
TS earning alot? can afford so many of these expensive stuffs :eek:

[KaniNababe]

You should have read my 3 simple rules. :rolleyes:

You deserve whatever befalls you because of your stupidity.

Why are men so stupid????:eek:

[KaniNababe]

Stop flaming him already, he already at lost (both emotional & finiancally). Just hope that he ll learn his most expensive lesson and continue to move on.

Its kind to be cruel...u heard this before?
Stupidity has no cure..except a hard knock

[wolfberry2]

how to know when a whore really likes you?

when they keep asking for money and yet you persist in not giving. yet after you don't give, they still stick with you.

you DICTATE what gift to give and when to give. not when the whore ask and then you give. in this case, it's always she ask or say something then u give. when u learn to bo chup about them, then u learn more about them.

So true, a gal hit me up on a chat app just recently, and I thought strange. True enough, she's asking for a loan $$$ citing a friend borrowed some money and failed to return and some lame excuses. I told her "talk money hurt relationship" but I can anything that can help her except lending her $$ ... and she faded.

[TedBear]

I have already lost count of how much I spent on her. I also helped to pay her management fees now and then, gave her allowance when she say that she is poor. Bring her to go see doctor.

I estimate probably around 20k to 30k.

I only went with her to hotel 3 times.

wah too much liao.. for me, if i spent more than 1k, and still do not get any response from her, then i give up liao, proceed to find new target.. hehe..

guess you really "love" her hor, spent so much.. just remember there are always so many more pretty ktv gals out there..

[Ahxi]

Lol, why not drop the word "marriage"?

See how the girl reacts.

Of course before marriage, get a good friend of yours to hire a PI to scout first.... If discovered, can just say your friend is concerned about you.

If they are only out to fleece while you are madly in love, they will find all ways to either fleece you before marriage or break off. At the very least, it shows their true colours, if any.

[senabig00]

this is the best and almost perfect method:)
when i was working in china i used the above method
it saved me from many whores and parasites
and gave me great insight into prc women 's thinking;)

Yes, that's the way. To me never play with any PRC in sg on KC, it never works(oh well some did) Play KC in their country, it works much better. When they become pricy, or don't see you when you don't give forget it. The next one is always available.
KTV/Spa girl don't go for those work damn long time ones, else play KTV waitress (princess they call in China) date them, and everything comes. Spa girl same.

Play it right and they will even quit their KTV life and hang around with you, oh well you got to pay her living expenses, else just move along.

Oh and remember to give good/great sex, the girl sticks with you longer in China though not SG.

All IMHO only.

[Kerry]

You should have read my 3 simple rules. :rolleyes:

You deserve whatever befalls you because of your stupidity.

Super LIKE

[phantom777]

Yes, that's the way. To me never play with any PRC in sg on KC, it never works(oh well some did) Play KC in their country, it works much better. When they become pricy, or don't see you when you don't give forget it. The next one is always available.
KTV/Spa girl don't go for those work damn long time ones, else play KTV waitress (princess they call in China) date them, and everything comes. Spa girl same.

Play it right and they will even quit their KTV life and hang around with you, oh well you got to pay her living expenses, else just move along.

Oh and remember to give good/great sex, the girl sticks with you longer in China though not SG.

All IMHO only.

first of all, this is my virgin post, pls dont zap me!

I jz want TS to know, this is a small world full of squeezed with many many good choices, its an old saying dont becoz of 1 flower you sacrifice the whole forest is very true n i live through my own exp to tell - whenever I go chiong, I always remind myself, u dont find love in places where you pay for sexual services. if u can chat up a waitress thats a diff story, but the golden rule is always stay away whoever that ask u to buy expensive stuffs, even for a decent gal.

I was in PRC land for work sometime back n chat up a SYT receptionist with shoulder length hair, chio looks n killer body at a client's office. Cut the chase, very soon after a few dates we hit it off n no money/gifts were ever involved in between or after - maybe coz she really liked me? Irregardless, my intention was to jz to hav fun n see how far this goes n I nvr promise anything. Anyway, we enjoyed each other as I know the feeling/desire was mutual (from the sessions). However, all good things must come to an end n when my work is done, i fack off to sg for good, so I told her bye bye n she only had my china mobile number which is byebye already.

I'm sure she is now over it n found someone else because of her looks n everything, probably a much younger, more eligible man than me. She did say she prefer someone more mature but not old like me though :D