Help!! GF doesnt wanna have sex

[jo31]

Let this be a frank discussion, i am a poly student, primarily here to seek advise as well as to discuss over a shared platform. Willingness to seek advise and listening to good counsel has always been the way of learning for myself.

My present gf seems apprehensive when i pop the question of making out. Please do not be mistaken into thinking that we are both virgins or for that matter that she is a virgin, she gave me her virginity. It just seems that somewhat limits my activities to no more than once or twice a month. It gets really fustrating when i do not get it from her when i feel most vulnerable and needy.

I am asking if any of you understand there to be a problem that is prohibiting her from acceding to my request? Or was it the way i approach the whole thing? Or how could i do to make her more happy, willing or anticipative of our rendezous?

Any frank, open and even wacky idea that you feel might be a practical solution to my woes is deeply solicited and greeatly will be appreciated.

Meanwhile a good year to all and enjoy bonking.

Joel

[oakleyeug]

I have a feeling that she is afraid that you just wanna bonk her and leave just like in the movies. Are you the kind of out going guy with a normal looks? If yes bingo I think you strike jackpot liao, don think too much once she confirm that u r the one u will be crying cause not enuff to give.:p

[jo31]

Does a normal look contribute to my woe? I guess i wont say i possess good / charming looks.

We have been together for some time already and i have already assured her that i am only for her.

That could be a probable problem. Thanks oakleyeug

[sgpiggybank]

Let this be a frank discussion, i am a poly student, primarily here to seek advise as well as to discuss over a shared platform. Willingness to seek advise and listening to good counsel has always been the way of learning for myself.

My present gf seems apprehensive when i pop the question of making out. Please do not be mistaken into thinking that we are both virgins or for that matter that she is a virgin, she gave me her virginity. It just seems that somewhat limits my activities to no more than once or twice a month. It gets really fustrating when i do not get it from her when i feel most vulnerable and needy.

I am asking if any of you understand there to be a problem that is prohibiting her from acceding to my request? Or was it the way i approach the whole thing? Or how could i do to make her more happy, willing or anticipative of our rendezous?

Any frank, open and even wacky idea that you feel might be a practical solution to my woes is deeply solicited and greeatly will be appreciated.

Meanwhile a good year to all and enjoy bonking.

Joel

Actually, have you ask her what is the reason why she is so limited to have sex with you? I think only she knows the answer. Below is just my assumptions.

1) She does not enjoy making love. The problem mightlies with you or hers. You got to find out.

2) Scared of getting pregnant. she do it during her super safe period.

3) She does like it...(unlikely)

It all lies on your approach to get her answer.

[180sx]

Bro jo31

May I ask, wat is ur purpose of having ur gf? She is not there to be ur sex slave. I am not here to preach abt morality but I think u should respect her. Dun treat ur gf as some sexual device that will be there when u needed it. Also, for ur info ladies are more into sex when they are in their mid twenties.

[Strider_sG]

Yet another topic on GF not liking or wanting Sxx... From my point of view, some girls like it slow. How long have you known her? few days? few months? How did you move in? Did you just date her out and then after awhile pop the question of making out? She might still be inexperienced thus do take things slowly. It is hard to analsyt your situtation as not much details are told. Have you kissed? Have you did anything yet? If not making it seems abit too hasty dun you think?

Two Cents Worth Of Comments

[sdfr]

have u ask her why she doesn't seem to want to have sex with u?

what is her answer?

anyway , at your young age (poly student)... if not having sex, then better to break off.

because, let's face it, sex is very important in a relationship. if no chemistry then fuck it. break off, find another one.

[jo31]

We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it, we started it aft 4 mths into the relationship. Shes a young student too, i m sure shes afraid of getting pregnant, who wont at this age? But her reluctance has caught be by surprise, i could she her enjoying it and when i comment she blushes and ask me not to say. So how could i better engage her in this business?

[jo31]

sdfr, ure damn evil, well i guess there is alot of love involved, even if my lil bro is willing my big bro will stop.

I guess i will have to fuck a hooker if she doesnt want to do it with me or if she continues with being so sulky over it, no use forcing.

[darts]

Hi Joel,

From what u have described you are feeling that she might have a problem, however maybe is the other way round, first of all love is not = to sex only & lovemaking is not of quantity but is more of quanlity, my two cents worth of advice, Lovemaking is ten time much better than having sex, if u know what I mean & let nature take it course just spend more quanlity time to understand each other better & in the mean time create more romantic goings like dinner with wine, walk @ the beach, short getway etc.
I'm not sure wether she your right one but I'm very sure if you Live & cherish your current moment to the fullest it will been a beauitful memory.

Best of Luck
Darts

[Strider_sG]

We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it, we started it aft 4 mths into the relationship. Shes a young student too, i m sure shes afraid of getting pregnant, who wont at this age? But her reluctance has caught be by surprise, i could she her enjoying it and when i comment she blushes and ask me not to say. So how could i better engage her in this business?
Bro, a girl is not just about making love... remember this : "男人为了做爱而爱，女人为了爱而做爱。“ so do remember this... if you are often popping the question the girl will start to question if you are with her because of sex or is it because you love her...

[jo31]

how often is considered too often?

care to share guys? attached tt is

[thaivisitor]

We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it, we started it aft 4 mths into the relationship. Shes a young student too, i m sure shes afraid of getting pregnant, who wont at this age? But her reluctance has caught be by surprise, i could she her enjoying it and when i comment she blushes and ask me not to say. So how could i better engage her in this business?
You got to have chemistry bro....

and if there's no chemistry, then use biology when making love. Do all kinds of patterns, explore and make sure she feels stimulated and love your body as much as you love hers.

And if that also doesn't work, use Physics. Opposite attracts, Negative attracts positive. Act like you also don't give a damn about sex and this might make her wonder and even intiate it.

And if all that still don't work... Go to GL.

Cheers
Tee Vee:cool:

[Castrol]

[QUOTE=jo31]We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it [QUOTE]


bro, this is cuntfusing. both of you made out a couple of hundred times already, and now then you are worried she doesnt seem to like it?

anyway, dont think so much la. its better for you to focus more on the poly course than intercourse. :D

[jo31]

u seem to be treating me as a freshie sci students, anyway thanks a million

[Strider_sG]

[QUOTE=jo31]We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it [QUOTE]


bro, this is cuntfusing. both of you made out a couple of hundred times already, and now then you are worried she doesnt seem to like it?

anyway, dont think so much la. its better for you to focus more on the poly course than intercourse. :D
hahahaha... nice quote... poly course verus intercourse

[beck7777]

can be the following:

1. she worried you fxxk her too much will get sianz and go find other girls.

2. she dun enjoy sex.

3. she dun enjoy sex with you.

4. you not good enough (hopefully this is not the case)

5. ask her and have a good discussion with her.

just MHO... cheers! :cool:

[jo31]

shes basically having the thinking if we fuck too much she will be seen / percieved as a loose girl.

Shes also afraid of getting pregnant


how to overcome all this?

[beck7777]

shes basically having the thinking if we fuck too much she will be seen / percieved as a loose girl.

Shes also afraid of getting pregnant


how to overcome all this?

i believe she dun fuck around rite? so how loose can that be when she only fuck with you?
you are the bf, not any tom dick harry.....
u can use CD when having sex with her... get her on the pills too....

[jo31]

shes only 17, can she take pills?

anyway care to share how i can get pills for her? requires a doc's prescription i suppose?

Loose girl, not loose cunt

[beck7777]

shes only 17, can she take pills?

anyway care to share how i can get pills for her? requires a doc's prescription i suppose?

Loose girl, not loose cunt

Bro ya... i know you mean loose girl... but then like i say you are her bf, the guy who took away her 1st time so what's wrong with having sex with you and you alone? that wont branded her as loose....

as for pills well.... any bros out there can help him? my gf never use such things.... i never buy any before oso..... so not very sure.... :D

[Strider_sG]

pills not a very good thing especially when she is still so young... use a cd lor... also for the pills cannot take too long... if not the chances of getting pregrant will be lowered even till zero... i think there are some patches to avoid pregancy.. go check it out...

[jo31]

patches, heard of it, but is it tt reliable??

i dont wish to hurt her, i was told the pill has the side-effect of weight gain and uneven period, dont wanna put her through all this.

Any safer or more easy methods?

Anyway would a hotel admit her if shes in uniform?

[Strider_sG]

patches, heard of it, but is it tt reliable??

i dont wish to hurt her, i was told the pill has the side-effect of weight gain and uneven period, dont wanna put her through all this.

Any safer or more easy methods?

Anyway would a hotel admit her if shes in uniform?
patches are much more safer than pills... imagine if she forgets to eat it then how... if not once in awhile can take those aftermorning pills.. it is for dickheads that cannot think straight.. shoots into the vagina when it is a dangerous period.. the girl can take safely within 72hours... but the longer the consumation the more risk... nothing is 100%.. i got a friend, wife takes pills also kanna..

[sing1nitestand]

Loose girl, not loose cunt
she gave u her first time, only do it with you... and you still call her Loose girl?? me lost.... i think u are just about sex towards the relationship... maybe i misintepret your meaning...:confused:

[hardcoremayhem]

Yet another topic on GF not liking or wanting Sxx... From my point of view, some girls like it slow.....Two Cents Worth Of Comments

Totally agree with you Bro. Strider.
Ah Di (Threadstarter), don't worry about it. Take it easy and dun rush lah. some cha bor dun like to appear "loose" so they may take some time to get to nkow you 1st and then let you.
if you really hard up, then do the seduction thinggie lor. romantic dinner, romantic words, all that stuff and slowly make her feel comfortable and then ....

most important thing is no matter what, always, always respect her wishes. GF is not here for you to just fXXk one. but to sayang!

[jo31]

lol, i was responding to another bro's word loose, i love her too much to brand her as that.

anyway frankly, even if she were loose, i was the person who contributed to that.

[ricardo]

hey jo31,

me when younger oso face same problems in fact one gf broke up with me because i keep wanting while she did not feel like giving. i m sure it has got nothing to do with either she love u or not coz i believe that gf of mine do seriously love me. it is just that man and woman totally 2 different spices. basically with gf and wife for that matter it is about creating the mood. just by say "i want" just dun cut it. if u insist u might lose the girl (like me) in the end. so if she dun one just live with it and when the mood is right consider it a bonus. as u guys grow up a little it will become more acceptable and common. my personal stats are (with different gf):

with gf1, 2 & 3 at 14/15 years old - no intercourse just raba raba
with gf4 at 16 - do it for the first time then no more later break up because of this
with gf5 at 17 - starts with raba, proceed to bonk once in a while (a fews weeks once)
with gf5 at 18 to 25 - almost at every opportunity but unfortunately she past away
with gf6 at 26 to 29 - once or twice a week after initial courtship (2 months)

married to gf6 - current status refer to sexless marriage thread ha ha ha

[beck7777]

hey jo31,

me when younger oso face same problems in fact one gf broke up with me because i keep wanting while she did not feel like giving. i m sure it has got nothing to do with either she love u or not coz i believe that gf of mine do seriously love me. it is just that man and woman totally 2 different spices. basically with gf and wife for that matter it is about creating the mood. just by say "i want" just dun cut it. if u insist u might lose the girl (like me) in the end. so if she dun one just live with it and when the mood is right consider it a bonus. as u guys grow up a little it will become more acceptable and common. my personal stats are (with different gf):

with gf1, 2 & 3 at 14/15 years old - no intercourse just raba raba
with gf4 at 16 - do it for the first time then no more later break up because of this
with gf5 at 17 - starts with raba, proceed to bonk once in a while (a fews weeks once)
with gf5 at 18 to 25 - almost at every opportunity but unfortunately she past away
with gf6 at 26 to 29 - once or twice a week after initial courtship (2 months)

married to gf6 - current status refer to sexless marriage thread ha ha ha

yo bro! your wife just give birth how can compare like that?! haha~~~

and you actually can remember all and what happened to your ex.....

[jo31]

Lol, just have fun, at least u guys got a wife already, i am hesitant to talk about this man. Anyway, i just gave her a call, shes going for a haicut with her sister, girls are like that, when i dont call her she just kicks up a big fuss, when she doesnt call me, i just have to bare with it.

[beck7777]

Lol, just have fun, at least u guys got a wife already, i am hesitant to talk about this man. Anyway, i just gave her a call, shes going for a haicut with her sister, girls are like that, when i dont call her she just kicks up a big fuss, when she doesnt call me, i just have to bare with it.

well bro u can complain in another thread here... Gers are Still Gers....

[ricardo]

yo bro! your wife just give birth how can compare like that?! haha~~~

and you actually can remember all and what happened to your ex.....

alamak only 6 gf what, not difficult to remember la. i not like some bro in this forum can

here bonk there bonk ... everywhere bonk bonk ... old macdonald have a farm e ah e ah oooo

[jo31]

thanks, anyway b4 this thread, i felt that forumers in sbf are pretty merciless and str8 forward, now at least i can see some very kind souls around. Thanks for making me feel included.

[Strider_sG]

yo bro! your wife just give birth how can compare like that?! haha~~~

and you actually can remember all and what happened to your ex.....
errrmmm... for your information, i also can recall... mine are as below:

1st 2nd and 3rd GF at age of 13 (one leg step 3 boats...)... Kiss, Raba only
4th GF at 15.. kiss, raba plus petting and ended up in sxx... total no of sex:6
5th 6th GF at age 17... within the week already having sxx....
7th GF at age 21... took me 2 months to persuade her... (Virgin)
8th GF at age 24.... horny ger thus with days...
9th GF at age 28.... took only 2 days... It lasted 2 years with her... a very good partner...
10th GF at age 30... Virgin.. (China) only lasted 3 months relationship with her.. i do not like her motive attitude...always plotting
11th GF at age 30... now with her.. and intending to get married soon... i like her.. she is good but not on bed... well i am a samster... does it matter..hahahaha

[Rof|maoxz]

We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it. We started it aft 4 mths into the relationship. Shes a young student too, i m sure shes afraid of getting pregnant, who wont at this age? But her reluctance has caught be by surprise, i could she her enjoying it and when i comment she blushes and ask me not to say. So how could i better engage her in this business?


shes basically having the thinking if we fuck too much she will be seen / percieved as a loose girl.

Shes also afraid of getting pregnant


how to overcome all this?


Dui! How much is too much I ask you? Anyway you definitely well surpassing some of the seniors in terms of fucking quantity huh. :D You are unquestionably causing your gerfrd to be uncomfortable, requesting a couple of hundred times. Dun just make her on pills just to fulfill your sexual desire. Yes, sex is important in relationships and in marriage life, but it's not time yet for you, buddy. If you cherish her and the relationship sincerely, then spare her all uneasiness. Unless you still persistent about the sexual issue, I'm sure your school have what you wanted.

[ricardo]

thanks, anyway b4 this thread, i felt that forumers in sbf are pretty merciless and str8 forward, now at least i can see some very kind souls around. Thanks for making me feel included.

oh no no ... dun feel comfortable mate ... this is in fact a merciless board. to prove my point i m going to zap u after this post. reason for zapping ... insulting bros in SBF ... how dare u say we are nice. :p

[jo31]

i dont even know what is this zapping thing, guess its some points allocation system, just cant believe in a public domain this point collection / protection thing works, guess it has something to do with the FL contacts and stuff, if not singaporeans wont be so ting hua, guess theres no pap here rite? except papaya, those that are big, firm, juicy, and definetely not white in colour.
No pun intended

Anyway, i really feel the inclusion in this thread, thanks again.

[ricardo]

i dont even know what is this zapping thing, guess its some points allocation system, just cant believe in a public domain this point collection / protection thing works, guess it has something to do with the FL contacts and stuff, if not singaporeans wont be so ting hua, guess theres no pap here rite? except papaya, those that are big, firm, juicy, and definetely not white in colour.
No pun intended

Anyway, i really feel the inclusion in this thread, thanks again.

eh for a poly kid, u really not that fun leh.

[condor]

jo31,

as in the next thread sexless after marriage. your current situation will lead to the next topics exless after marriage in 10 years time if both of you get married. if before marriage already so chiam with you so active and she so passive , future sex life cant seem bright enough for you bro.
base on your account, i think she dont like sex but do it to just please you. after marriage when you no horse to run. it will dry up.
of course you cant discuss this situation with her, coz no one can predict what she really thinking and whether her senses will change her thoughts.
do what your big brain tell you now. leave your little bro alone when making decision.
sometimes, hard to balance between a good wife, good gf, good mother, good husband and yet had a good sex life. not many have that luck bro.

[ahpaul25]

Dui! How much is too much I ask you? Anyway you definitely well surpassing some of the seniors in terms of fucking quantity huh. You are unquestionably causing your gerfrd to be uncomfortable, requesting a couple of hundred times. Dun just make her on pills just to fulfill your sexual desire. Yes, sex is important in relationships and in marriage life, but it's not time yet for you, buddy. If you cherish her and the relationship sincerely, then spare her all uneasiness. Unless you still persistent about the sexual issue, I'm sure your school have what you wanted.

I do support Rof|maoxz bro sentence as above.........thumbs up man :D , jo31 bro, u r really a failure as a guy.....u don understand lady heart...that why u can't overcome this sex desire, try to learnt yr mistake for what u did......If 1 day, u master how much desire a ger want........u will get what you want...it the women want the need from u, not u want from her......just like what I doing.......women call u for desire need.....just like a pro gigglo withstand 2 to 3 hrs of fucking, my frd....hahaha :D

[BustLover]

how often is considered too often?

care to share guys? attached tt is

Bro, do you know that too much of sex can cause her figure to go out of shape? By letting you screw everyday, the pussy will be lose and how is she going to face her new BF/Husband if you decide to abandon her?
To you, sex may be everything but not necessary to her.

That could be the reasons. Don't believe, the next time you bonk her, observe her body and compare with a FL around her age. You will know what I mean...:D

[mccormick]

bro jo... be grateful that she's willing to hav sex wif u.... anyway, at ur age.. u shouldn't be thinking about only sex lah... if u truly love her.. then u must respect her mah... not jus treat her as ur sex machine... how u will feel if she's the horny type?? u will start to imagine her fucking around when u r in NS.. mind u.. u will be in NS very very soon...

[nerorix]

bro jo... be grateful that she's willing to hav sex wif u.... anyway, at ur age.. u shouldn't be thinking about only sex lah... if u truly love her.. then u must respect her mah... not jus treat her as ur sex machine... how u will feel if she's the horny type?? u will start to imagine her fucking around when u r in NS.. mind u.. u will be in NS very very soon...

yea i argee wif mccormick just be grateful n glad of what u have instead of thinking of just having sex -_- besides that being tog is not only abt having sex rite lolx got alot of other things to do tog de ma ^^

[xfishkerx]

man.. u have to try to let her explore the great world of sex.. like my current gf.. she was virgin when i met her.. at first.. she totally duno anything.. but me.. already 3rd girl that i fuxx.. so i got more exprience.. i took it slow with her.. 1 month plus then got to kiss her but after kissing.. things got faster and i made love wit her liao.. now.. if got BED anywhere.. she will wan it and takes initiative..

bro u should try to make her horny man.. take ur time.. one day she might become wild in bed liao!

[SexMan]

Hi,

or have u try to bring her overseas?

I find that gal tend to be more relax & more easy to 'on' when overseas ( and maybe no one to depend on except u).

Mayb less stress of being seen by others ( if u go hotel) or caught by family ( if do at home).
Moreover, usually people more relax when on overseas tour.

Understand that u r a poly student & mayb on a budget going overseas.

U can alway try 4 star hotel in JB (e.g Eden - abt S$70 per room for 2d1n) or Batam waterfront area ( abt S$140 for 2 person - 2d1n)
for a short trip over weekend

Hope this will help as I 'on' my gf ( now my wife) during 1 of this overseas short trip.

Thanks

[Rof|maoxz]

i dont even know what is this zapping thing, guess its some points allocation system, just cant believe in a public domain this point collection / protection thing works, guess it has something to do with the FL contacts and stuff, if not singaporeans wont be so ting hua, guess theres no pap here rite? except papaya, those that are big, firm, juicy, and definetely not white in colour.
No pun intended

Anyway, i really feel the inclusion in this thread, thanks again.


eh for a poly kid, u really not that fun leh.

jo31, do note that the purpose of pts system apparently is to agree/disagree with a member's post. Some may dislike this system, while some might abuse it. Dun be a smart alec and judge your points against govt. issues here. You are not bery funny, no pun intended and I mean it. :cool:

You wanna be one, join SGforum Adult's disscussion (http://www.sgforums.com/?action=forum_display&forum_id=18) there. You are more suited there.

[beck7777]

yo bro rolf!~!~!

cool it man... just a kid who dunno much yet wanna act like an adult..... :cool: haha~~~~ relac bro... we should touch back on our fave topic... SEX!!!!! :D

[aikoN79]

Threadstarter, try this trick :

aikoN79 : Na Na, errmm.. wo yao ~~
Na Na : Bu yao lah !!!
aikoN79 : yao lah ~~
Na Na : bu yao bu yao bu yao !!!! :mad:
aikoN79 : bu yao ? ok lor, i go geylang find a FL... maybe go find Dan Dan.
Na Na : ???
.
..
...
Na Na : ok lah, darling lets go ~~
aikoN79 : :D

[Rof|maoxz]

yo bro rolf!~!~!

cool it man... just a kid who dunno much yet wanna act like an adult..... haha~~~~ relac bro... we should touch back on our fave topic... SEX!!!!! :D

What happened to your pears? Will pass you 3 pears when recharged. :)

[beck7777]

What happened to your pears? Will pass you 3 pears when recharged. :)

nah... some incident with uncle sam... but its over... haha~~~~thanks anyway bro!!! thanks alot!!!!!!

cheers! :D

[Sorin^^]

Dear Bro Threadstarter, if ur GF dun wana have sex then dun force her lah. You muz respect ur gf's feeling and understand why she dun want sex.

Maybe she wana save it for marriage? Meantime, either u can pcc or go HC for a HJ or Capped BJ.Save it after ur marriage also goot mah. :)

P.S Bro, if u wana PCC, i recommend u the FLeshlight cos its like a Real Pussy!:eek: Easily bought at Sexshops.

Cheers

[beck7777]

Dear Bro Threadstarter, if ur GF dun wana have sex then dun force her lah. You muz respect ur gf's feeling and understand why she dun want sex.

Maybe she wana save it for marriage? Meantime, either u can pcc or go HC for a HJ or Capped BJ.Save it after ur marriage also goot mah. :)

P.S Bro, if u wana PCC, i recommend u the FLeshlight cos its like a Real Pussy!:eek: Easily bought at Sexshops.

Cheers

bro sorin is here too... haha~~~~ hey u buy that stuff before? looks like real is 1 thing... does it feel like 1 as well? expensive anot? hehe~~~ maybe weekend go take a look...

[BenQ]

Let this be a frank discussion, i am a poly student, primarily here to seek advise as well as to discuss over a shared platform. Willingness to seek advise and listening to good counsel has always been the way of learning for myself.

My present gf seems apprehensive when i pop the question of making out. Please do not be mistaken into thinking that we are both virgins or for that matter that she is a virgin, she gave me her virginity. It just seems that somewhat limits my activities to no more than once or twice a month. It gets really fustrating when i do not get it from her when i feel most vulnerable and needy.

I am asking if any of you understand there to be a problem that is prohibiting her from acceding to my request? Or was it the way i approach the whole thing? Or how could i do to make her more happy, willing or anticipative of our rendezous?

Any frank, open and even wacky idea that you feel might be a practical solution to my woes is deeply solicited and greeatly will be appreciated.

Meanwhile a good year to all and enjoy bonking.

Joel

Yo brother is yr gf a christian...

[R.I.P]

well if u wanna to make it out of coz u got to find a best place and actually by rite no need to ask her one,just as usual chat chat with her then slowly cares her then...tang tang tang...so all is depend on your skill la coz i and my gf oso like this loh...:D

[hockz]

the topic 3-4 pages le. asking him to check out with his gf why she don like it, until now? he have not ask? :p

[jo31]

if i could ask her, i wont not have to post and ask u guys for help rite?


And to those who seem to be lecturing me on point systems and stuff, it doesnt appeal to me to get or gain points, so thanks for your advise.

Anyway shes a christian

[beck7777]

if i could ask her, i wont not have to post and ask u guys for help rite?


And to those who seem to be lecturing me on point systems and stuff, it doesnt appeal to me to get or gain points, so thanks for your advise.

Anyway shes a christian

christian? a devoted 1? if she is then no wonder....

[singexpat]

Threadstarter, try this trick :
aikoN79 : :D

try this morin..

works!!:D

[aikoN79]

try this morin..
works!!

??? Wah so effective meh ???
That will be $10.50 for the consultancy fees inclusive of GST.:D

[tommyboy290906]

Same Bros....
If cannot after all classic methods, changing up to look for girls to fuck.
No choice, CO says Ok lohhhh...:D

[jo31]

aikon, i remember u wanted to start up a hc rite? Anyway hows it?

Anyway will bare in mind ur advise, thanks

[winger_tag]

Bro, its ok...me did not get to have sex with my wife (then was GF) until we ROM. But offcoz outside got few:D other ones lar.....

[ricardo]

if i could ask her, i wont not have to post and ask u guys for help rite?


And to those who seem to be lecturing me on point systems and stuff, it doesnt appeal to me to get or gain points, so thanks for your advise.

Anyway shes a christian

r all poly kids so cocky nowadays???

[jo31]

I love her, although i got the urge, i dont think i will want to betray her.

[Clonie]

And to those who seem to be lecturing me on point systems and stuff, it doesnt appeal to me to get or gain points, so thanks for your advise.

Anyway shes a christian

if she doesnt want to have sex with u then u RESPECT her decision. she's ur gf not ur wife..she certainly has her rights to refuse to satisfy ur carnal needs. if u cant take it then use ur hands or go geylang..

[trader11292001]

We have been out for like 1.5 years. Made out a couple of hundred times, but she will give in but she just doesnt seem to like it, we started it aft 4 mths into the relationship. Shes a young student too, i m sure shes afraid of getting pregnant, who wont at this age? But her reluctance has caught be by surprise, i could she her enjoying it and when i comment she blushes and ask me not to say. So how could i better engage her in this business?

Dude, might be a case of she's embarrassed with her body or just plainly shy... get her in the mood, no need to ask whether she wants to do it or not. Start with kissing, frenching then move on to petting.

You WILL sense whether she's getting hot and horny thats when you proceed... dont force it dude.

[sdfr]

eh for a poly kid, u really not that fun leh.

maybe he's not a poly kid.

[jo31]

i am just asking for advise, if ur advise is to ask me to go fuck myself, i dont see that as an advise at all.

With all respect to individuals who ask that i respect her, i do respect her, its a matter of give and take, a matter of compromise and accomodation, laughing at my age, i dont see how your age has made you any wiser.

[ricardo]

maybe he's not a poly kid.

ya hor, mayb actually just a primary or secondary shool kid pretending to be in poly just to sound a little more creditable.

anyway i dun really care, the point he raised was good, it is in fact something that is happening to many young couples i m sure and imo worth discussing. only thing i cannot tahan is the lack of sense of humor.

[BigGuy]

If your mind is thinking of juz bonking her and the excuse u give is you've done hundred times......then go get married n screw till no tomorrow plus no need to wear rubber or take pills.....

Cut the excuse if you wanna say u r still young la, no money la, no career all nite.......best few solutions:

1) Put your effort into your studies.
2) If can bonk bonk, if not forget it.
3) If need to release and she don't wanna give, go toilet wank it out yourself....WANKING YOURSELF IS AS GOOD AS FUCKING YOURSELF:)

[ricardo]

i am just asking for advise, if ur advise is to ask me to go fuck myself, i dont see that as an advise at all.

ok england powerful bro please come in and correct leh. got 3 "advise" in that statement sure out at least one wrong right? where is boss when u needed him?

[BigGuy]

i am just asking for advise, if ur advise is to ask me to go fuck myself, i dont see that as an advise at all.

With all respect to individuals who ask that i respect her, i do respect her, its a matter of give and take, a matter of compromise and accomodation, laughing at my age, i dont see how your age has made you any wiser.

This statement of yours clearly shows you have no respect for her AT ALL. Me no saint nor God......but my reasoning as follow:

1) Has she not given her virginity to you?
2) Have you not screwed her hundred times over?
3) respect then u won't say go find hookers to sextify liao.

You claimed you respect her.....you can promised she sure your wife? No right? But then you wanna fuck. Be a boy, admit you just need a fuck coz u think she is clean coz your GF.....As mentioned by some ppl here, if both have the mood do it. Got chemistry, do it. But if she chose to give as and when, accept it. No moral story no solution liao.

Cheers.

[condor]

have to give jo31 a break.
he has a need so he ask his gf for sex. it better than looking for pro.
however if your gf doesnt like it. dont force her as it will scare her off.
however, if you love her and she dont like sex but you do. you will face big problem after marriage.
take care bro.

[beck7777]

jo31, if you see things the other way actually what the bros say here are true (of cos some are really meant as a joke)..... like they say, best way is if she say no then no... can test her out again some other time.... there are more things to do than bonking in a relationship esp at your age... (you sure u 17? or younger than that?).... plus very high chance she wont be your last gf.... me and my gf dun bonk that much either.... when i need she dont give then nvm loh... can always go geylang or DIY (but of cos i hardly do it... would rather bonk with her).... so please dont worry about lack of sex.... you got more important thing to worry about than sex.....

cheers! :cool:

[R.I.P]

So how is our brader MR.Jo31 said?At least u tell us which statement u choose suggested by the bros here ma...eh i think he is old liao la maybe 31 this year leh...so u all talk like that to him he sure not shok la...:D i think will kanna zap again...:(

[Rof|maoxz]

i am just asking for advise, if ur advise is to ask me to go fuck myself, i dont see that as an advise at all.

With all respect to individuals who ask that i respect her, i do respect her, its a matter of give and take, a matter of compromise and accomodation, laughing at my age, i dont see how your age has made you any wiser.


jo31, if you see things the other way actually what the bros say here are true (of cos some are really meant as a joke)..... like they say, best way is if she say no then no... can test her out again some other time.... there are more things to do than bonking in a relationship esp at your age... (you sure u 17? or younger than that?).... plus very high chance she wont be your last gf.... me and my gf dun bonk that much either.... when i need she dont give then nvm loh... can always go geylang or DIY (but of cos i hardly do it... would rather bonk with her).... so please dont worry about lack of sex.... you got more important thing to worry about than sex.....


You claimed you are a poly student, and I don't think bros here sneer at you. Generally, studies should be your priority, followed by BGR. Unless you still persist that sex is of utmost essence, I may advise you to seek counselor's help. This is my humble advice to you. Just treat those hard comments positively. :)

[K9696]

One word... you are"Egoistic"...due to peers pressure..
You just treated her as one of your "Sparring partner"

Repent.. Brother.. go back to complete your study..
You are one of the "Future Kid-with great potential" :(

[sdfr]

ya hor, mayb actually just a primary or secondary shool kid pretending to be in poly just to sound a little more creditable.
.

actually he sounds more like a bored undergrad having a bit of fun.

[beck7777]

actually he sounds more like a bored undergrad having a bit of fun.

in a way i agree.... though i tried giving him advise but somehow the more i read his replies the more i feel he got no gf at all... mayb just his imagination run wild.... but jo31 if you have a genuine case, so far the advice here are quite ok....

[Rof|maoxz]

in a way i agree.... though i tried giving him advise but somehow the more i read his replies the more i feel he got no gf at all... mayb just his imagination run wild.... but jo31 if you have a genuine case, so far the advice here are quite ok....

It should be advice, not advise. :D

[beck7777]

It should be advice, not advise. :D

Opps!! ya hor.... but WTF!!! we are all here to discuss SEX!!! not to take English paper... i passed my Os doinkey years ago liao!!!! hahaha~~~~

[ricardo]

oh oh oh ... give me chance to show off what i have learned.

advice = noun
advise = verb

correct or not ah?

anyway threadstarter disappear liao i think attending lessons and plotting to bonk his GF after all the advice over here.

seriously i did mention that one of my gf left me because i keep wanting to bonk her ... to date i still feel very bad, i could have married her but it is not to be because of my didi.

[singexpat]

??? Wah so effective meh ???
That will be $10.50 for the consultancy fees inclusive of GST.

aiya...
Boss started e points system means for us bros to use points for payments.. :D

[jo31]

I do not know how to put across my position clearly to all involved. I do not see why my personal agenda of bedding my girlfriend, my urge and love to do that albeit her unforgiving declines have anything to do with you. I have just seek for friendly counsel to my predicament, and hoping in vain that such help appear.

Some guess and try to decipher my demographical make up and did a profiling, if i were that young or educationall so less endowed I do not even dare dream of entering into an argument.

Some try to put me in the bad light my insulting. insinuating or even outrightly chide me for my intentions. This is not a platform to discuss morales, ethics and even the slightest issue on morality, baring in mind this is a commercial sex forum.

I have already state my stand clear, that I do not want to engage in commercial sex to agitate or coerce her into making out with me.

For all who have truely contributed meaningfully to this thread, i thank you wholeheartedly. Well as to individuals or groups who try to attack first the personality than the spiritual integrity, I cant but phantom at your lack of ability to rationalize issues. If you think you are smart, than help me tackle the base issue, do not try to complicate matters by suggesting something that i had not first put forth for discussion.

Yours Truly
Joel

[beck7777]

jo31 ang mo sure is not bad... i admit i not good enough... i better keep to vocab that i'm used to like didi, puxxy, horny n many more!!!! :D

[elvee123]

U can alway try 4 star hotel in JB (e.g Eden - abt S$70 per room for 2d1n) or Batam waterfront area ( abt S$140 for 2 person - 2d1n)
for a short trip over weekend
Thanks


Edens cannot lah.. later he go bonk the girls at the spa... :p

[DaLu Power]

I do not know how to put across my position clearly to all involved. I do not see why my personal agenda of bedding my girlfriend, my urge and love to do that albeit her unforgiving declines have anything to do with you. I have just seek for friendly counsel to my predicament, and hoping in vain that such help appear.

Some guess and try to decipher my demographical make up and did a profiling, if i were that young or educationall so less endowed I do not even dare dream of entering into an argument.

Some try to put me in the bad light my insulting. insinuating or even outrightly chide me for my intentions. This is not a platform to discuss morales, ethics and even the slightest issue on morality, baring in mind this is a commercial sex forum.

I have already state my stand clear, that I do not want to engage in commercial sex to agitate or coerce her into making out with me.

For all who have truely contributed meaningfully to this thread, i thank you wholeheartedly. Well as to individuals or groups who try to attack first the personality than the spiritual integrity, I cant but phantom at your lack of ability to rationalize issues. If you think you are smart, than help me tackle the base issue, do not try to complicate matters by suggesting something that i had not first put forth for discussion.

Yours Truly
Joel

You really want to tackle the problem arh? Ask her to change a boyfriend instead, spare her the toture.

[ass_robber]

I do not know how to put across my position clearly to all involved. I do not see why my personal agenda of bedding my girlfriend, my urge and love to do that albeit her unforgiving declines have anything to do with you. I have just seek for friendly counsel to my predicament, and hoping in vain that such help appear.

Some guess and try to decipher my demographical make up and did a profiling, if i were that young or educationall so less endowed I do not even dare dream of entering into an argument.

Some try to put me in the bad light my insulting. insinuating or even outrightly chide me for my intentions. This is not a platform to discuss morales, ethics and even the slightest issue on morality, baring in mind this is a commercial sex forum.

I have already state my stand clear, that I do not want to engage in commercial sex to agitate or coerce her into making out with me.

For all who have truely contributed meaningfully to this thread, i thank you wholeheartedly. Well as to individuals or groups who try to attack first the personality than the spiritual integrity, I cant but phantom at your lack of ability to rationalize issues. If you think you are smart, than help me tackle the base issue, do not try to complicate matters by suggesting something that i had not first put forth for discussion.

Yours Truly
Joel


Well, if you are that concern in the first place you should first get that pre-conceived notion out of your head that you want sex with her. We can't tackle the base issue for you, as there exist elements that is unique to your relationship. Unless of course you want to experiment and I date your girl to see if I post the question to her after say 3 dates will she agree to sex. Chances are you would not want to find that out for yourself if I can achieve that.

End of the day, its all about communication and how you assure her you are not here for the joy ride. But to prompt you to ask as if its a big issue to you that she does not want to copulate with you has reflected that its something that is pre occupied with.

Since the sexual agenda of both of you do not meet, and sex is of such importance to you then let your girlfriend go and let those who will take care of her do so. For you, you can hunt for a girl that is over n above your libido level.

Drop it or Quit it you decide. Just my 2 cents worth.

[ricardo]

jo31 ang mo sure is not bad... i admit i not good enough... i better keep to vocab that i'm used to like didi, puxxy, horny n many more!!!! :D

exactly my thought. i read liao dun understand ... kids nowadays sure know how to use big big words .. i remember the biggest word i know how to use when in poly was pethetic ... well at least it seems useful in this context.

[ass_robber]

exactly my thought. i read liao dun understand ... kids nowadays sure know how to use big big words .. i remember the biggest word i know how to use when in poly was pethetic ... well at least it seems useful in this context.

Maybe that is exactly the problem. The gf cannot "comprehend" his "expression of intention to copulate" in "utmost sincerity". In essense the girl also catch no ball what is he saying.

[Sorin^^]

The gf cannot "comprehend" his "expression of intention to copulate" in "utmost sincerity". In essense the girl also catch no ball what is he saying.
Bro! ur England veri chim leh!hahahaha!:D

Cheers

[beck7777]

exactly my thought. i read liao dun understand ... kids nowadays sure know how to use big big words .. i remember the biggest word i know how to use when in poly was pethetic ... well at least it seems useful in this context.


bro lets give this kid a break lah... he dun dare to post here liao... haha!!! :D

[Niceman]

sad, that small boi nv dare to post liao :p
Got something to share, very similiar from that kid, but this guy is big boy liao, big boy with small brain.

He sms my friend, complained that his gf cannot have sex before marriage, and very conservative. (still got this kind of ger meh?)

So, he was thinking of getting with her. Both of us laughed and think he very kuku. For sex? and get married? Why not paid 40bucks go geylang?

Got such kuku ppl around also......:confused:

[sing1nitestand]

He sms my friend, complained that his gf cannot have sex before marriage, and very conservative. (still got this kind of ger meh?)

So, he was thinking of getting with her....
bro Niceman, tell your friend, what happen if he find out the gal not virgin during their 'first' night.:D

One of my friend kena this kind of thing b4... his gf (now his wife) do not allow sex b4 marriage, so, he thought this must be somekind of decent gal, so decide to marry her (last year)...the gal said if give him sex then brake off, she will be very jialat in future and things like that... so, he gave her the full respect...

but after the marriage, seems like their marriage not going so well.. he told me that his wife lied to him...he found out the gal hv boyfriend b4, and they had sex then broke up... he asked her since she is not virgin liao why she still dont allow sex b4 their marriage and the gal give a suck reason saying "I DONT WANT THE SAMETHING HAPPEN AGAIN..."

i'm not here to discuss the issue or virginity, but the honesty. I believe most of bro here can accept the wife not a virgin... but i was thinking, if i am in my friend's shoe, what will i do???? :rolleyes:

[aikoN79]

... but i was thinking, if i am in my friend's shoe, what will i do????

a case of LPPL... wat to do ??? now wan to divorce will even incur more loss cos need to pay her monthly maintainence.

[pendragon_sg]

alamak threadstarter if girl donwan to have sex with you that means she donwan lah!

do not force / trick / emotional blackmail her to have sex with you.

you have to respect her decision when you can go to Geylang and get a $40 fuck!

[KingBong]

Its the same as people like to try clothes before they buy. Usually if they don want to do it before marriage, chances are they are not good at it or don't enjoy it. My fren ever told me that this guy was courting her quite vigorously and finally she slept with him, he came in less than 5mins after the bj (she's real good at that and has real sexy bod have to say), wat a anticlimax, and she left him after becos of that.

[ricardo]

bro lets give this kid a break lah... he dun dare to post here liao... haha!!! :D

give break ... can .. he post FR of his gf (raba only oso can). like this at least got decent contribution mah. but hor i think he give up liao lah. Point proven, there are merciless bro in SBF indeed. myself included. :D

[aikoN79]

his point still 5 lei... i already open fire le

[sdfr]

I do not know how to put across my position clearly to all involved. I do not see why my personal agenda of bedding my girlfriend, my urge and love to do that albeit her unforgiving declines have anything to do with you. I have just seek for friendly counsel to my predicament, and hoping in vain that such help appear.

Some guess and try to decipher my demographical make up and did a profiling, if i were that young or (1)**educationall** so less endowed I do not even dare dream of entering into an argument.

Some try to put me in (2)**the** bad light my insulting. insinuating or even outrightly chide me for my intentions. This is not a platform to discuss (3)***morales***, ethics and even the slightest issue on morality, (4)***baring*** in mind this is a commercial sex forum.

I have already (5)***state my stand clear, that I do not want to engage in commercial sex to agitate or coerce her into making out with me.

For all who have (6)**truely** contributed meaningfully to this thread, i thank you wholeheartedly. Well as to individuals or groups who try to attack first the personality than the spiritual integrity,**(7a) I cant but (7b)**phantom** (7c)**at your** lack of ability to rationalize issues. If you think you are smart, than help me tackle the base issue, do not try to complicate matters by suggesting something that i had not first put forth for discussion.

Yours Truly
Joel

(1) EducationaLLY
(2) "a" not the
(3)morals, not morales
(4) bearing not baring
(5)clearly stated my stand
(6)truly
(7) Methinks you are typing so fast you are confusing yourself. "I can't FATHOM your INability to rationalise issues" would be more concise and precise.

You are welcome, my son.

[ricardo]

(1) EducationaLLY
(2) "a" not the
(3)morals, not morales
(4) bearing not baring
(5)clearly stated my stand
(6)truly
(7) Methinks you are typing so fast you are confusing yourself. "I can't FATHOM your INability to rationalise issues" would be more concise and precise.

You are welcome, my son.

wow bro your england even more "tock gong" man. "pei fu pei fu" "5 body dive down to ground"

threadstarter really "cow baby dunno tiger" "bird baby dunno lastic"

[sing1nitestand]

a case of LPPL... wat to do ??? now wan to divorce will even incur more loss cos need to pay her monthly maintainence.
ya... really a LPPL case... just dunno how long can their relationship last...

[Strider_sG]

In this E-society... alot of girls have lost the first time to someone. You must be very lucky to get one. When i get married i really do not mind if it was her first although it will be very good but if no and i get a good wife ain't that enough to compensate everything? No other intention but just want to share what i think.

You want virgin can always go buy one but a good wife can you buy? I think getting a good wife is Priceless!!! :)