SG men especially married men very deprived.

[DRSG]

A MAN who punched his wife who refused him sex was jailed for two weeks on Friday.

David Sim Teck Meng, 48, was originally accused of causing grievous hurt to his wife, Madam Lee Meng Choo, 40, at their Hougang home on Oct 29 last year.

He pleaded guilty to the reduced charge of voluntarily causing hurt after she made a statutory declaration that she had forgiven him and wanted to drop the charge.

Sim, who is now a shop assistant at his wife's mobile phone business, asked his wife for sex that night but she said she was tired.

Angry, he pushed her to the bed and sat on top of her and tried to remove her clothes.

She tried to defend herself and was punched by Sim a few times.

When she broke free and ran out, he pulled her back by the hair into the room. She then locked herself in and called the police.

Madam Lee suffered fractures to the facial bones, a bruise over her eye and an abrasion on her upper lip.

District Judge Jill Tan told him that his violence resulted in serious injuries to his wife and the sentence must be such that he understood the gravity of his actions.

Sim, who has previous convictions for bigamy, affray and robbery, could have been jailed fined up to $1,000 and/or jailed for up to one year.



SG married men is always at a disadvantage.Money not enough .Sex by wife not enough.After getting married wife becomes Ah Soh with big legs,big tummy,sulky face ,complain and complain from Day 1 of marriage till death.
Thanks to pros we have at least some ave for letting steam and having some dignity as MAN.

[proffessor_x]

Serve him right.
Married doesn't infer that sex is always on call. Can't get a screw from wife, go to GL. No fuss no muss.
That's what GL for.

[HeadOn]

tis got nothing to do with being deprived..no matter wat, he should not lay a fist on her..anyway, tis guy also no gd man if u see his history of criminal records..so he deserved to go jail

[gilagila100]

Dun know the full details so it's hard to say who's fault it is ...

So dun jump to conclusions ...

Every family has its own problems ...

To be honest, birds of the same feather flock together ... same can be say for human beings ...

If you are an angel, you stick wif angels ...

If you are a gangster, you stick wif gangsters ...

If you are a sbf bro, you go kio kway ... lol :D

[ekemono]

SG married men is always at a disadvantage.Money not enough .Sex by wife not enough.After getting married wife becomes Ah Soh with big legs,big tummy,sulky face ,complain and complain from Day 1 of marriage till death.
Thanks to pros we have at least some ave for letting steam and having some dignity as MAN.

Money not enough?
Did the average ladies honestly told you thier money enough?

Sex by wife not enough?
Perhaps this is not the first time he resort to violence for sex.
Say your gal gives you a tight slap on the face and then ask for sex. You on?

Wife becomes Ah Soh look after marraige?
Did you happen to first check out if the husband was a big belly tummy, shabbly dressed, long dirty finger nails uncle?

Like some bros had mentioned, it is not a good idea to jump to conclusion without knowing more.
But nevertheless, (not to be offensive so i use my family as e.g) if my daughter ever end up in this state, I would gladly sacrifice my "coffin money" to fund her divorce lawsuit if needed.

[jon2000sg]

wah lau eh ah?

like that dun get married lo ...


men any age can fuck around as long as got $$$ !

[easybaby]

A gentleman should never lay his hands on a lady, no matter how angry he is. Looking from the state of injury the wife had suffered, violence is probably common in their family. Yes i must agree that men in these cases are always at a disadvantage, but there are many ladies out there who are facing domestic violence but keeping quiet, either not knowing how to seek help or not wanting to disgrace the family's name.

Talking about wives not maintaining their figures, most of the time when this happens, it's because they bear you kids, and the older they get, it becomes harder to lose the fats they gained during pregnancy. She is fat, because of you and your kids. Do you bring her out for exercises every week? Do you give her money to join slimming programs? If you had done so but your wife is Pure lazy, does not look after your kids, does not do housework, does not cook, then it's more justifiable for you to complain that she's fat because you had made an effort.

How deprived? Can always visit FLs, don't have to beat up your wife man...

[koolie]

man and wife must respect one another in order to have a successful relationship. communication is very important. once it breaks down, the relationship will not last very long. sex can only hold you that long...
hope all can have good communication with your wives and gf.
good day mate;)

[old_yet_horny]

IMHO... However the husband is deprived, there is no reason to engage in violence...End of the day, the stupid Sg law favours the weaker sex...

If its a genuine case and the deprivation still persist even after medical or psychological assistance are being exhausted... Just file for a separation and divorce...:rolleyes:

I dun mean that sex is everything in a marriage but it sure does plays an important role... How is the marriage going to last forever when the wife see the husband as useless, boar and on the other hand, the husband finds the wife a total turn off...:(

My ex Gf's father was totally abused by his wife... He brings back the dough and feed the familioy well but the stupid wife just trat him like dirt.. beside gambling his money away and hurling abuses and punches at him, she did nothing much to be apraised of... I pity that old man and I would find all excuses to aviod meeting that old hag...:eek:

[analog]

A gentleman should never lay his hands on a lady, no matter how angry he is. Looking from the state of injury the wife had suffered, violence is probably common in their family. Yes i must agree that men in these cases are always at a disadvantage, but there are many ladies out there who are facing domestic violence but keeping quiet, either not knowing how to seek help or not wanting to disgrace the family's name.

Talking about wives not maintaining their figures, most of the time when this happens, it's because they bear you kids, and the older they get, it becomes harder to lose the fats they gained during pregnancy. She is fat, because of you and your kids. Do you bring her out for exercises every week? Do you give her money to join slimming programs? If you had done so but your wife is Pure lazy, does not look after your kids, does not do housework, does not cook, then it's more justifiable for you to complain that she's fat because you had made an effort.

How deprived? Can always visit FLs, don't have to beat up your wife man...
Lemme guess.....

Early twenties...
You've had the odd GF but nothing very long...

Just wait till you get married boyyo, just wait. Reality is coming my friend, oh boy, is it coming....

And judging form your comments, its going to shock you more than an electrical probe up your backside.

Life is like that bro.

Good luck.

:)
Jim

[t123]

My ex Gf's father was totally abused by his wife... He brings back the dough and feed the familioy well but the stupid wife just trat him like dirt.. beside gambling his money away and hurling abuses and punches at him, she did nothing much to be apraised of... I pity that old man and I would find all excuses to aviod meeting that old hag...:eek:

My friend's father also same thing. His wife never got out of depression and become more violent. Everything she also wants because the family used to own business. When the biz collapse she cannot accept the fact. She become abusive to hubby and children. Now at her age ard 60+, she still having fridge for showcasing cakes, and a X-Trail. But when she can't get what she wants, all hell break loose. I pity the father and salute him. Despite all the shit, he never stray but stayed on the marriage because of my friend and the brother.

[old_yet_horny]

My friend's father also same thing. His wife never got out of depression and become more violent... .. Despite all the shit, he never stray but stayed on the marriage because of my friend and the brother.


Bro... I salute this old man. I feel so inferior comparing myself and him.

Come to think of it, the older folks like our parents do really cherish marriage more ... Be it no bonks or no dough.. they still stick together... Unlike couples now...


No $$= Divorce...

No Sex= Divorce...

I wonder what will my OC become if I am broke or impotent or worst still both..hahahaha..:rolleyes:

[Criminalz]

sg guys give in too much...the woman just keep taking and taking and taking until we have no more pride left..

damn i sound sore..

[Compassion]

Bro... I salute this old man. I feel so inferior comparing myself and him.
Come to think of it, the older folks like our parents do really cherish marriage more ... Be it no bonks or no dough.. they still stick together... Unlike couples now...
No $$= Divorce...
No Sex= Divorce...
I wonder what will my OC become if I am broke or impotent or worst still both..hahahaha..:rolleyes:

I have also seen couples who:-
Plenty $$ also Divorce
Alot sex also Divorce

If a marriage is focused on $$ and sex alone it is doomed to fail. Happiness in a marriage is:-

Wanting what you have - meaning cherish the family you have
and not:-
Having what you want - meaning satisfying our selfish needs and ignoring the family you have

Some wisdom to chew upon. :)

[Sebastian Crab]

sg guys give in too much...the woman just keep taking and taking and taking until we have no more pride left..

damn i sound sore..

Who won't be? But still it is very important that we pick the right girl otherwise will suffer like crazy. :(

[Cailis]

Infidelity affects 8 out of 10 marriages in this country. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It’s an assumption, of course, but I don’t think that 80% of the people who get married intend to cheat or be part of a love triangle.

[gilagila100]

Infidelity affects 8 out of 10 marriages in this country. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It’s an assumption, of course, but I don’t think that 80% of the people who get married intend to cheat or be part of a love triangle.

Infidelity covers a lot of aspects ....

Visiting prostitutes is also considered infidelity which I believe most married sammy bros are guilty of but most guys here won't consider this as infidelity.

Having one night stands and fuck buddies are also infidelity however I think most would think tis not as bad as having affairs or mistresses.

So the 80% stats, it's quite shocking but despite of this, the % of happy marriages are still quite high.

Sad to say most men stray because they are naughty. Finish playing outside still guai guai go home so the marriage can still be maintained provided ofcoz the wife dun know :p.

But if the wife stray, most of the time it's becoz of probs in the marriage. If this happens, sigh, very difficult to fix. :(

[gilagila100]

sg guys give in too much...the woman just keep taking and taking and taking until we have no more pride left..

damn i sound sore..

Really understand your soreness ...

I have similar feelings as well especially from some bad experience I had previously but luckily my current gf is an angel.

However, I've learn one very important lesson from my bad experience.

Give only when you have enough and you are willing to give.

No one can force you to do anything or bully you into anything unless you let them to.

So ANY giving of ANYTHING you OWN should be on YOUR OWN TERMS & CONDITIONS !!!

Simple but hard to practice.

[decimal86]

I have also seen couples who:-
Plenty $$ also Divorce
Alot sex also Divorce

If a marriage is focused on $$ and sex alone it is doomed to fail. Happiness in a marriage is:-

Wanting what you have - meaning cherish the family you have
and not:-
Having what you want - meaning satisfying our selfish needs and ignoring the family you have

Some wisdom to chew upon. :)

three cheers! very true. not that i practise the above but very true. sometimes hormones just get the better of me. cannot tahan bah....

[decimal86]

Infidelity affects 8 out of 10 marriages in this country. This is a shocking statistic! What happens between the time the marriage vows are spoken and that first episode of cheating? It’s an assumption, of course, but I don’t think that 80% of the people who get married intend to cheat or be part of a love triangle.

on my part, it certainly was not planned. i did not wake up one day and told myself, today i want to start something....

sometimes the place or the music or the laughter just hits the two ppl and then it all happens. you know, wake up not in your bedroom and with somebody else. i am not trying to justify what i have done, IT IS WRONG, morally religiously wrong but hard to undo. but life was not meant to be easy they say.

[Moda]

after reading bros posting, what i knw is everything money come 1st then got happy life(sex too).

but this wil not happen in china,money or w/out money still got sex life:p

just my 2cts.

[alphalaw]

Who won't be? But still it is very important that we pick the right girl otherwise will suffer like crazy.

Its pretty tough to confirm that one have indeed chosen the right one.
After marriage, things really change. Knife gets blunt overtime, rose wilt as time fades away.
Its still pretty much 50:50.

THe correct path is surely wanting wat u have. and try the bestest of effort to keep it going.

A true gentleman never lay his fist on a lady. Tease her enough to make her want u more than u wan her. :rolleyes:

Man giving in too much until nothing's left? And women does not want to be treated as a sex object?
We can pretty much handle that. be it negatively, or positively. Our choice.

One reap what he/she sow. Put in the effort, the more beautiful the outcome will be.

Bad things may not be that bad afterall, good things may not be excellent.
The monk. :rolleyes:

[Sebastian Crab]

Its pretty tough to confirm that one have indeed chosen the right one.
After marriage, things really change. Knife gets blunt overtime, rose wilt as time fades away.
Its still pretty much 50:50

True, in the end only time will tell if you have chosen the right one. Important thing is the reason for chosing her. Right? :)

[JediSkull]

I think married men are very deprived when their wives are pregnant.......... :(

[zhutou12]

I think married men are very deprived when their wives are pregnant.......... :(

Totally agree.... that is where our poor birdie suffered.... sigh....

[alphalaw]

True, in the end only time will tell if you have chosen the right one. Important thing is the reason for chosing her. Right? :)

Yup man :)
We juz have to dive head in, telling ourselves, we have chosen her. stick by her be it good or bad.

We can always fool arnd elsewhere but theres this one place and one woman we will always end up with. Just be good to her.

Human are born to make mistake, but by following this one golden rule, Im certain it is not a mistake. Afterall, a life partner surely explains its significance..

Xing fu mei man? :)

[Starlite]

...
A true gentleman never lay his fist on a lady. Tease her enough to make her want u more than u wan her. :rolleyes:
...


Bro agree with you, a gentleman should lay his fish on his lady, he shall protect her instead. As for marriage it would take both hand to clap. What you invest will not go in vain unless the other one feel tire of it no more interest already then problem starts to surface up.

[84gunner]

I think married men are very deprived when their wives are pregnant.......... :(

this one, depends on individual.

1st few months, still can bonk lah. Just think, usually will know wifey is pregnant earliest from 2nd month of pregnancy onwards, ie, miss menses. So before missing menses & going for check-up, u still bonk. But of course, once know wifey is pregnant, better not bonk those "acrobatic" stunts or bonk vigorously anymore. When stomach bulges out, can get wifey to help pcc, while caressing her breasts. From my experience, pcc from gal is still more shiok than pcc myself.

[84gunner]

Sama sama here....not just 9 mths of neglect..after that also got 3-6mths of recovery period...due to trumatise pussy from childbirth...then if you start again and she get pregnant again...dunno if shd be happy or sad...miss the days when me and my OC jus met...everyday FxXXing like rabbits haha

aiya, just think of those born in the 70s & earlier. Many have siblings, age gap 1 year only. Some even less than 1 years' gap!

If u calculate, where got wait 3 - 6 months? I believe immediately after 1 month confinement start bonking oredi. Maybe even bonk during confinement oredi, where got what wait for traumatised pussy from childbirth. Gals nowadays too pampered lah. Abit only pain lah, what traumatised lah, etc.

If dowan pregnancy, then use cap lor. I'm no fan of taking pills, especially if planning for future childbirth.

[mystica]

Dun know whether if i can do it.. got a phobia just talking about it.. marriage.
can never stay long enough with the same one... wonder is it really my luck, or maybe not ready to commit... tough... :(

Yup man :)
We juz have to dive head in, telling ourselves, we have chosen her. stick by her be it good or bad.

We can always fool arnd elsewhere but theres this one place and one woman we will always end up with. Just be good to her.

Human are born to make mistake, but by following this one golden rule, Im certain it is not a mistake. Afterall, a life partner surely explains its significance..

Xing fu mei man? :)