SG men especially married men very deprived.

[DRSG]

A MAN who punched his wife who refused him sex was jailed for two weeks on Friday.

David Sim Teck Meng, 48, was originally accused of causing grievous hurt to his wife, Madam Lee Meng Choo, 40, at their Hougang home on Oct 29 last year.

He pleaded guilty to the reduced charge of voluntarily causing hurt after she made a statutory declaration that she had forgiven him and wanted to drop the charge.

Sim, who is now a shop assistant at his wife's mobile phone business, asked his wife for sex that night but she said she was tired.

Angry, he pushed her to the bed and sat on top of her and tried to remove her clothes.

She tried to defend herself and was punched by Sim a few times.

When she broke free and ran out, he pulled her back by the hair into the room. She then locked herself in and called the police.

Madam Lee suffered fractures to the facial bones, a bruise over her eye and an abrasion on her upper lip.

District Judge Jill Tan told him that his violence resulted in serious injuries to his wife and the sentence must be such that he understood the gravity of his actions.

Sim, who has previous convictions for bigamy, affray and robbery, could have been jailed fined up to $1,000 and/or jailed for up to one year.

SG married men is always at a disadvantage.Money not enough .Sex by wife not enough.After getting married wife becomes Ah Soh with big legs,big tummy,sulky face ,complain and complain from Day 1 of marriage till death.
Thanks to pros we have at least some ave for letting steam and having some dignity as MAN.

[proffessor_x]

Serve him right.
Married doesn't infer that sex is always on call. Can't get a screw from wife, go to GL. No fuss no muss.
That's what GL for.

[HeadOn]

tis got nothing to do with being deprived..no matter wat, he should not lay a fist on her..anyway, tis guy also no gd man if u see his history of criminal records..so he deserved to go jail

[gilagila100]

Dun know the full details so it's hard to say who's fault it is ...

So dun jump to conclusions ...

Every family has its own problems ...

To be honest, birds of the same feather flock together ... same can be say for human beings ...

If you are an angel, you stick wif angels ...

If you are a gangster, you stick wif gangsters ...

If you are a sbf bro, you go kio kway ... lol

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by DRSG

SG married men is always at a disadvantage.Money not enough .Sex by wife not enough.After getting married wife becomes Ah Soh with big legs,big tummy,sulky face ,complain and complain from Day 1 of marriage till death.
Thanks to pros we have at least some ave for letting steam and having some dignity as MAN.

Money not enough?
Did the average ladies honestly told you thier money enough?

Sex by wife not enough?
Perhaps this is not the first time he resort to violence for sex.
Say your gal gives you a tight slap on the face and then ask for sex. You on?

Wife becomes Ah Soh look after marraige?
Did you happen to first check out if the husband was a big belly tummy, shabbly dressed, long dirty finger nails uncle?

Like some bros had mentioned, it is not a good idea to jump to conclusion without knowing more.
But nevertheless, (not to be offensive so i use my family as e.g) if my daughter ever end up in this state, I would gladly sacrifice my "coffin money" to fund her divorce lawsuit if needed.

[jon2000sg]

wah lau eh ah?

like that dun get married lo ...


men any age can fuck around as long as got $$$ !

[easybaby]

A gentleman should never lay his hands on a lady, no matter how angry he is. Looking from the state of injury the wife had suffered, violence is probably common in their family. Yes i must agree that men in these cases are always at a disadvantage, but there are many ladies out there who are facing domestic violence but keeping quiet, either not knowing how to seek help or not wanting to disgrace the family's name.

Talking about wives not maintaining their figures, most of the time when this happens, it's because they bear you kids, and the older they get, it becomes harder to lose the fats they gained during pregnancy. She is fat, because of you and your kids. Do you bring her out for exercises every week? Do you give her money to join slimming programs? If you had done so but your wife is Pure lazy, does not look after your kids, does not do housework, does not cook, then it's more justifiable for you to complain that she's fat because you had made an effort.

How deprived? Can always visit FLs, don't have to beat up your wife man...

[koolie]

man and wife must respect one another in order to have a successful relationship. communication is very important. once it breaks down, the relationship will not last very long. sex can only hold you that long...
hope all can have good communication with your wives and gf.
good day mate

[old_yet_horny]

IMHO... However the husband is deprived, there is no reason to engage in violence...End of the day, the stupid Sg law favours the weaker sex...

If its a genuine case and the deprivation still persist even after medical or psychological assistance are being exhausted... Just file for a separation and divorce...

I dun mean that sex is everything in a marriage but it sure does plays an important role... How is the marriage going to last forever when the wife see the husband as useless, boar and on the other hand, the husband finds the wife a total turn off...

My ex Gf's father was totally abused by his wife... He brings back the dough and feed the familioy well but the stupid wife just trat him like dirt.. beside gambling his money away and hurling abuses and punches at him, she did nothing much to be apraised of... I pity that old man and I would find all excuses to aviod meeting that old hag...

[analog]

Originally Posted by easybaby

A gentleman should never lay his hands on a lady, no matter how angry he is. Looking from the state of injury the wife had suffered, violence is probably common in their family. Yes i must agree that men in these cases are always at a disadvantage, but there are many ladies out there who are facing domestic violence but keeping quiet, either not knowing how to seek help or not wanting to disgrace the family's name.

Talking about wives not maintaining their figures, most of the time when this happens, it's because they bear you kids, and the older they get, it becomes harder to lose the fats they gained during pregnancy. She is fat, because of you and your kids. Do you bring her out for exercises every week? Do you give her money to join slimming programs? If you had done so but your wife is Pure lazy, does not look after your kids, does not do housework, does not cook, then it's more justifiable for you to complain that she's fat because you had made an effort.

How deprived? Can always visit FLs, don't have to beat up your wife man...

Lemme guess.....

Early twenties...
You've had the odd GF but nothing very long...

Just wait till you get married boyyo, just wait. Reality is coming my friend, oh boy, is it coming....

And judging form your comments, its going to shock you more than an electrical probe up your backside.

Life is like that bro.

Good luck.


Jim

[t123]

Originally Posted by old_yet_horny

My ex Gf's father was totally abused by his wife... He brings back the dough and feed the familioy well but the stupid wife just trat him like dirt.. beside gambling his money away and hurling abuses and punches at him, she did nothing much to be apraised of... I pity that old man and I would find all excuses to aviod meeting that old hag...

My friend's father also same thing. His wife never got out of depression and become more violent. Everything she also wants because the family used to own business. When the biz collapse she cannot accept the fact. She become abusive to hubby and children. Now at her age ard 60+, she still having fridge for showcasing cakes, and a X-Trail. But when she can't get what she wants, all hell break loose. I pity the father and salute him. Despite all the shit, he never stray but stayed on the marriage because of my friend and the brother.

[old_yet_horny]

Originally Posted by t123

My friend's father also same thing. His wife never got out of depression and become more violent... .. Despite all the shit, he never stray but stayed on the marriage because of my friend and the brother.

Bro... I salute this old man. I feel so inferior comparing myself and him.

Come to think of it, the older folks like our parents do really cherish marriage more ... Be it no bonks or no dough.. they still stick together... Unlike couples now...


No $$= Divorce...

No Sex= Divorce...

I wonder what will my OC become if I am broke or impotent or worst still both..hahahaha..

[Criminalz]

sg guys give in too much...the woman just keep taking and taking and taking until we have no more pride left..

damn i sound sore..

[Compassion]

Originally Posted by old_yet_horny

Bro... I salute this old man. I feel so inferior comparing myself and him.
Come to think of it, the older folks like our parents do really cherish marriage more ... Be it no bonks or no dough.. they still stick together... Unlike couples now...
No $$= Divorce...
No Sex= Divorce...
I wonder what will my OC become if I am broke or impotent or worst still both..hahahaha..

I have also seen couples who:-
Plenty $$ also Divorce
Alot sex also Divorce

If a marriage is focused on $$ and sex alone it is doomed to fail. Happiness in a marriage is:-

Wanting what you have - meaning cherish the family you have
and not:-
Having what you want - meaning satisfying our selfish needs and ignoring the family you have

Some wisdom to chew upon.

[Sebastian Crab]

Originally Posted by Criminalz

sg guys give in too much...the woman just keep taking and taking and taking until we have no more pride left..

damn i sound sore..

Who won't be? But still it is very important that we pick the right girl otherwise will suffer like crazy.