Handbrake, E brake plus get on your ejaculation seat! (And before I get flamed, yes I am aware that the correct term for it is ejection seat
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If you look through all the other posts by the other KCed bros, there is a pattern that is almost identical for all cases.
1. The guy will feel that the WL is very special. "She is different from all the rest I've met before." is the usual refrain.
2. The two love birds will go on dates, dinners, drinks, movies, shopping, etc. The guy will invariably pay for the dates, as gentlemen should, and thinking hey, I only spend like less than SGD200 for the dates, its what I would normally spend even if I go out with a normal SG girl. Oh, and she is so nice she doesn't mind eating out at the food court or coffee shop with me. Therefore she is different and she cares about my financial well being.
3. Most of the bros who get KCed will think that I am just a normal salaried worker with average income. Not Robert material as I have no money to give to her. What the hack, my bank account only got less than SGD10,000 in all. She is not after me for my money because I don't have much to give.
4. You two have sex. Lots of it. FOC. Damn, she loves me that is why she is not taking my money after sex!
5. For some folks, they even have it raw. Oh my god, she allows me to do it raw!!! she must really love me to bits!!!
6. Messaging each other and calling each other numerous times in a day. Usually with phrases like “宝贝， 我想你” ‘宝贝，你在干嘛？” “情爱的，你吃饭了吗？别饿坏了，我会心痛的。”. Or phrases to that effect (in the respective languages).
7. You start brushing up on your Mandarin/Thai/Vietnamese and will start thinking about migrating to China/Thailand/Vietnam.
This is the scenario that is being repeated time and time again. Different players, different actors/actresses but same scene.
If a poll is conducted, I am sure that statistically the guy invariably ends up being hurt and most end up spending a not insignificant sum of money in the end. Having such a poll is not possible because for most, after being hurt they simply disappear, wallowing in their own distress.
So before the irrational exuberance hits you, better exit the market and stay in cash. To most of us, the money spent is not a real issue but the emotional distress of such relationships. Fairy tale ending for such relationships? Hmmmm.... I personally doubt it is possible.
So in the meantime, before you get hit by the irrational exuberance, just enjoy the time you have together, get out before its too late and leave the happy times you shared etched in your memory.