Time to handbrake?

[seoseo]

Been wondering about this since last week.

Recently, went to a KTV and got to know this China Mei Mei. Not really know lah, basically it's just tabao, bonk. Usually, its bonk and bye bye for me no matter how good of a fuck it is. Makes life simpler that way.

Somehow, this one, after the 1st commercial bonk, I can't remember how come I met her again, ended up with another fuck. It's been a few weeks now? Fuck's free other than dinner and everything else as usual. No gift required, no extra $$ needed, as YET.

Now comes the part where she gets sticky, messaging me like mad everyday. I obviously know that this is not going to end up anywhere anyway, so is it time to call it quits?

She even stopped working working in KTV for 2 weeks, did not ask for a single cent from me, YET. But either she's naive to think she can survive here without good inflow of money she's just hoping that I am going to end up being her sugar daddy.

I sorta feel that she is pretty genuine and its quite a nice girl although of course she could be just that oscar actress. For me it is more of wondering, which route should I go to call it quit? It's either she is scheming this whole shit out, or she's genuine right? Now, being a nice person or at least I think she deserves me to be nice, thus this starts me pondering.

What should I do to cut this off.


Start MIAing. Always works.

Tell her, it's not gonna go anywhere for us and rather call it quit early before either party start feeling like shit. If this goes on further, feeling will develope and it's not something I want to have, time is not something I have in abundance. (of course, this imght end up with more drama given guys, or rather me are sucker when it comes to seeing girl looking, acting, pitiful and sad)

Which would you choose?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Actually, alot of things you already know and have even penned down the courses of action needed but the KC effect is making you find something to justify you not to pull the plug out from this one.
Think back & recap, 2 wks no work...you dun feed her....money for her drop from the sky?
Of cos you'll feel she's nice...remember, you can fuck many many & tons of them but it only takes 1...THE 1 to fuck you up....you already met this person.
A clear minded man would do what you have posted......
A confused man would do what you've posted too....
You're in the middle my friend, now choose a side & that'll decide the outcome of this story.......

[leecs]

I think its really time to handbrake.

[sibaysong4u]

Handbrake & E brake too!

[mike1304k]

Bro TS,


As you mentioned, you had a certain set of rules and that was to F&F. But there is also another rule, never to give your contact to them. For me I always leave it to fate. Be it KTV or HC or what. When they ask for my number, I will just say that I will not give it out. If they ask whether I am married, I will say yes... I am not afraid of lousy service... if it is lousy, all the more I will not RTF.

What you have mentioned is a classic case of entrapment. She will make you feel like you are special to her. She will "make" sacrifices for you, even stop for you. But bro... Their main purpose is to come here and make money.. And I have not seen a truly naive WL yet. Even those who come jus 18 and are studying... They will act innocent, even make "innocent" mistakes to seen like poor little lost lambs who are ripe for the "slaughter" and if we are not careful, we walk into that trap. Even if they are so naive... then they are better of going back and returning to what they were doing previously.

So as you can see bro TS, you are now like bro DYBJ said, standing on the precipice... one false step and you fall over. Not sure what your marital status is or what, but my personal advice is to walk away from this as it is getting sticky.

[slider_72]

Handbrake, E brake plus get on your ejaculation seat! (And before I get flamed, yes I am aware that the correct term for it is ejection seat )

If you look through all the other posts by the other KCed bros, there is a pattern that is almost identical for all cases.

1. The guy will feel that the WL is very special. "She is different from all the rest I've met before." is the usual refrain.

2. The two love birds will go on dates, dinners, drinks, movies, shopping, etc. The guy will invariably pay for the dates, as gentlemen should, and thinking hey, I only spend like less than SGD200 for the dates, its what I would normally spend even if I go out with a normal SG girl. Oh, and she is so nice she doesn't mind eating out at the food court or coffee shop with me. Therefore she is different and she cares about my financial well being.

3. Most of the bros who get KCed will think that I am just a normal salaried worker with average income. Not Robert material as I have no money to give to her. What the hack, my bank account only got less than SGD10,000 in all. She is not after me for my money because I don't have much to give.

4. You two have sex. Lots of it. FOC. Damn, she loves me that is why she is not taking my money after sex!

5. For some folks, they even have it raw. Oh my god, she allows me to do it raw!!! she must really love me to bits!!!

6. Messaging each other and calling each other numerous times in a day. Usually with phrases like “宝贝， 我想你” ‘宝贝，你在干嘛？” “情爱的，你吃饭了吗？别饿坏了，我会心痛的。”. Or phrases to that effect (in the respective languages).

7. You start brushing up on your Mandarin/Thai/Vietnamese and will start thinking about migrating to China/Thailand/Vietnam.


This is the scenario that is being repeated time and time again. Different players, different actors/actresses but same scene.

If a poll is conducted, I am sure that statistically the guy invariably ends up being hurt and most end up spending a not insignificant sum of money in the end. Having such a poll is not possible because for most, after being hurt they simply disappear, wallowing in their own distress.

So before the irrational exuberance hits you, better exit the market and stay in cash. To most of us, the money spent is not a real issue but the emotional distress of such relationships. Fairy tale ending for such relationships? Hmmmm.... I personally doubt it is possible.

So in the meantime, before you get hit by the irrational exuberance, just enjoy the time you have together, get out before its too late and leave the happy times you shared etched in your memory.

[GL-Roamer]

Bro Seoseo

This one is a more skilful player, sensing that if she starts asking for money / gifts first you will kick her out fast. So she is now worming her way to your heart to bypass your logic and make her way to your bank account. Her TIME BOMB has been planted since you started to have feelings already.

No she is not naïve, that is her initial investment and that 2 weeks of income is what she can afford to lose.

Her motive is very clear it is MONEY, if not why is she working at a KTV in the first place or why is she even here in Singapore? She came here with an objective and it is MONEY. If she only desires a simple life, she would have stayed at China with her family and get married there and have her simple life there. She is SCHEMING this whole shit out to trap you. She doesn’t deserve you to be nice to her when her motives are to hurt you. (Some of these women have a deep hatred for men)

My take on this matter is: Handbrake and get out NOW before it gets too hard for you. Just go MIA now.

I hope your case will be a success story (you manage to get rid of her), remember to come back and tell us the outcome.

[K9696]

Bro TS

There are two threads "About KC thread" for you to read and you can decide
your stake on the game.

Like Bro_s72 said, I agreed his pts 1 - 6. so if you are on this 1-6, then you are being KC leow.. so "Make decision and Move On"

Therefore all bros here can't decide for you, the decision still lies on you.

If you already know this is “放长线，吊大鱼” then you should even have to
stop immediately to stop your damages.

[keepcalm]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Actually, alot of things you already know and have even penned down the courses of action needed but the KC effect is making you find something to justify you not to pull the plug out from this one.
Think back & recap, 2 wks no work...you dun feed her....money for her drop from the sky?
Of cos you'll feel she's nice...remember, you can fuck many many & tons of them but it only takes 1...THE 1 to fuck you up....you already met this person.
A clear minded man would do what you have posted......
A confused man would do what you've posted too....
You're in the middle my friend, now choose a side & that'll decide the outcome of this story.......

can tell me you ph no.

[DO_I_BJ]

Originally Posted by keepcalm

can tell me you ph no.

i sell you... one number 10 dollar.

[bloopz]

hey bro,
i do understand tat there r lots of FL or KTV gals who KC ppl but there are also genuine gals out there.
use both ur brain n ur heart in this matter. if you r single n feel tat this gal is someone worth ur effort n time, go for it. but it is a choice u have to make. whether things work out of not, face it like a man. good luck!

[rocketman]

So many well experienced bros giving very good advice.. Bro Seoseo shld now know tat the chances of knocking ones' head into a nail is at least 88%, the other 12% is tat she will stop calling bocs she found another man tat fell for it and she is spending productive time sucking his accounts dry.

[K9696]

Give u some familiar sms..

PRC - 你现在也都不想我了，每个星期就一次都不愿意来。 也不管我了。
Me - don't bother to reply le...tired..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by keepcalm

can tell me you ph no.

You wan my number for wat???
PM yours la, I call u

[raibo]

just remember the old chinese saying " 扮猪吃老虎 "..

I believe some can really act like a pig, trick the tiger come closer and eat the tiger..