Inexperienced looking for guidance on winning girlfriend

[dancerteo]

Hi, as most of you would think I am not serious in any kind of relationship due to my last post but yesterday, by selling an item , I met a pretty girl two years younger than me. I have her phone number and I am dying for her to be my girlfriend so any tips to whatsapp her and not make her freak out? Thanks.

[Johnston]

Originally Posted by dancerteo

Hi, as most of you would think I am not serious in any kind of relationship due to my last post but yesterday, by selling an item , I met a pretty girl two years younger than me. I have her phone number and it.

Yes
I think u are not serious in relationship because at 2.23pm u post u have gf and at 2.26 pm u post u need help to find a gf.....

Even the most hardcore playa i know also not so hardcore until like that

It is also my duty to inform u it is illegal under any circumstance for either of your mouth, hands, or genitals to have any contact with each other or for any images of her private parts to be sent to u

However the law is quite ambigous on her putting on shows for u and all the other stuff u can do sexily without having any mouth, genitals or hand contact

If u do sian her - i will be happy to pour a decades worth of sexy knowledge into your brain

[dancerteo]

Hi, I wrote Ive found a suitable girl to be my girlfriend means that I found her suitable to be my girlfriend which means she does not know I like her and she is not my girlfriend

[wolflust]

There are no methods, formulas or laws, this is not Maths or Science. Try it out, if fail take it as a lesson. Don't say just because you came from a boys school, you have no experience dealing with girls. A lot of us came from boys schools and knowledge of such things are gained by trial and error.

Now you taking it as though you are trying to solve a Maths or Science problem. Why don't you just relax and try it out on how to form a relationship? Furthermore you'll be entering poly or jc soon and there are lots of opportunities there for you to meet girls of your age.

[dancerteo]

Thanks a lot @wolflust. That gave me a lot more confidence and inspiration. but im not quite sure how to start, and im scared that if i message her, it will freak her out and i get rejected

[bigbrudder]

Pardon me for being blunt ... they way you talk ah, what if this ... what if that ... IF I am the ger, I also dunno what you want.

Just prepare for the worse, take a deep breathe ... and talk to her. What's the worst case? She is gay.

Lim bei ga ler kong ... if you like her so much ... you can stalk her, follow her everywhere ... take a gunny sack and put her inside. After that, charter a plane ... drop off at a deserted island. You be Tarzan and her Jane. Simper?

[FatSpider]

two words = be yourself

but if how you present yourself in your post = your real self...better change yourself

[Sirrus]

u dont win a woman. you get to know a person....your mentality is already wrong.....

talk to her like you want to be friends, a person who can share anything together.

she not just a slab of meat put down on earth for your pleasure. respect that. there is no tip that we can offer on how to talk to her. i can only offer a tip on how you should look at her

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by dancerteo

Thanks a lot @wolflust. That gave me a lot more confidence and inspiration. but im not quite sure how to start, and im scared that if i message her, it will freak her out and i get rejected

just text her this - 我喜欢你，你要不要我的D?

short, swift, sharp and sweet

[dancerteo]

Thanks guys. I find some of you guys really helpful and I really dont want thia golden chance to be missed...

[FatSpider]

Originally Posted by dancerteo

Thanks guys. I find some of you guys really helpful and I really dont want thia golden chance to be missed...

a girl is not a "golden chance"

[starbucks]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

just text her this - 我喜欢你，你要不要我的D?

short, swift, sharp and sweet

What the 'D' thingy? Dick?

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by starbucks

What the 'D' thingy? Dick?

haha ya.. it's a term used in 9gag..

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by dancerteo

Thanks guys. I find some of you guys really helpful and I really dont want thia golden chance to be missed...

TS, ok lar i be serious with you.. you are overly and unnecessarily excited.. it's cruel to crush a young man's dream, but when you grow up in another 10 - 20 years time, you will realise the world is bigger than you thought.. use your time and drive to achieve something more important.. not that love is not important, but ultimately you are now at a stage where you naively think love is all you need.. now I tell you, no it is not.. you need much more than that in the coming years.. and chances are that your relationships will go through many changes until you settle down on one for life.. and believe it or not, she might not even be amongst the top 20 prettiest you've seen.. experience the phase, but do not get to obsessed with it.. making money more important.. i mean unless you are a heir to a certain big fortune lar.. then i lan lan siao siao..

[lotsfits80]

What girls like:
1.you making decisions, but still will happily change your decision to suit her.
2.talk what you feel without being needy or weak
3.tease her in words, but treat her in actions (tease, don't insult!)
4.ask if she wants to join u for anything, but not asking her permission to date her. They like the feeling of being invited instead of pressured into decisions.
5.confident but not arrogant


If you're afraid of running out of topics when being with her, make your dates short! Send short messages but long answers.