Ex gf pictures leaked, current gf pissed. What to do?

[bandunglim]

zapped too much

[Shorez]

The question is, what do YOU want? Then take action from there

[demonhunter]

So your current GF is pissed that you went for a movie with your ex ? and not because your EX GF photos were leaked ....

Your title was a wee bit misleading .

Anyway , can share share the link of your ex GF ?

[dk1903]

aiyo, TS yours is such a simple problem.

your ex was obviously a FL.
any normal girl will understand no guy will want to marry a FL!

so, you should just tell her no matter how good the sex was with the ex, she was never a candidate to be your wife.
now that you are mature enough and wants to settle down, she is the ONLY gal for you.

[bandunglim]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

So your current GF is pissed that you went for a movie with your ex ? and not because your EX GF photos were leaked ....

Your title was a wee bit misleading .

Anyway , can share share the link of your ex GF ?

Bro, my current gf is pissed because my ex is a whore and she's scared she might get funny diseases. I am kinda afraid too after realising that some photos were taken when we were together.

Anyway, her photos already all taken down the internet, thank god.

[bandunglim]

This girl of my dream is definitely what I want. Prob is, how to let her know and make her feel secure? I asked her to go BTO with me in march but she says I should propose first and if she says yes then go ahead. But I am not ready financially to propose.

Even my family and friends love her so much. But sometimes they will just randomly grab her and tell her that she is better than my ex and all these chats actually upsets her that she's being compared to my ex.

[sammyboyfor]

Nobody here is interested in helping until they see the images first.

[leekwantew]

Originally Posted by bandunglim

This girl of my dream is definitely what I want. Prob is, how to let her know and make her feel secure? I asked her to go BTO with me in march but she says I should propose first and if she says yes then go ahead. But I am not ready financially to propose.

Even my family and friends love her so much. But sometimes they will just randomly grab her and tell her that she is better than my ex and all these chats actually upsets her that she's being compared to my ex.

You should just tell her that you're glad to be with her at this moment; your ex is in the past and all you can think about is your future with HER.

If anything can use your family to help push her along. You can always say that "yes she is being compared to your ex, but she's the one that people prefer"

lastly if afraid catch disease, u can always go for screening. That will set her mind at ease hopefully

[letmetellyou]

Originally Posted by bandunglim

I am an ordinary guy who dated this girl for 3 years. When we first got together, I saw some naked photos of hers on her pc but she claimed those were studio shots for her own keepsake. She was also on birth control pills and often go for health check up. I gave her the benefit of doubt and towards the end of our relationship in the third year, her nude photos leaked online as she is a part time model by then. Many of my friends told me about it and it was too painful to see. In those 3 years, there were many occasions where I suspected she was doing things behind my back and I disliked her part time job and modelling. I never had concrete evidence and I didn't know what I was thinking.

We broke up a few months later when I found out that she was seeing another guy and she refuses to talk. After 1 month of cold period, I got close with a girl I used to like many years ago. We actually had 2 one night stands before, first one when she was drunk and she bedded me at her place and didn't remember anything about it; second time when I just got together with the cheating ex and I slept over at her place. After the second time, I felt so guilty I stopped contacting my current gf for a long time.

Now that we are together, she found out that my ex was doing all the porn photography and she saw pictures of her giving bj and gangbang. Now she's all upset and nothing I say can please her. She feels inferior to my ex because I had stopped contacting her before and that I met my ex for a movie (the ex went to book the tix before I could confirm and I was soft hearted) after we were together. Now whatever I say, she thinks my heart is with my ex. But little does she knows that she is the girl I want to marry. What should I do?

Sorry for the long spam.

so complicated

[Johnbass]

Originally Posted by bandunglim

This girl of my dream is definitely what I want. Prob is, how to let her know and make her feel secure? I asked her to go BTO with me in march but she says I should propose first and if she says yes then go ahead. But I am not ready financially to propose.

Even my family and friends love her so much. But sometimes they will just randomly grab her and tell her that she is better than my ex and all these chats actually upsets her that she's being compared to my ex.

U no money, buy BTO (ard $400K?) u not scared.
U no money, propose (ard $4K ring?) yet u scared?
Pls make up your mind.
You need to connect her emotionally, before connect logically.
Last but not least... Piak 1st Talk later... then u have the upper hand.
But don't say I teach one.

[cizaooo]

are u inside the leaked photo?

[melodymilky]

U need time to try mending things up. . When things happened (leak photos) then u want to like get bto and stuffs.. mend things up first and get back her trust.

Get urself screen for diseases. At least both of u will be at ease from thinking if u contacted any.

Just a small advise.

[Advanced]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Nobody here is interested in helping until they see the images first.

how true.. lol not interested unless see image