Giving up relationship because of a flirting text?

bbenjt · #1 03-10-2014, 09:27 PM

Hi Bros and Sisters,
I'm sorry to ask this question here but I'm really very curious to find out if majority here will give up a relationship because of a flirting txt? I will fill in as much info to possible about this.

1. Boy and Girl in love for more than 6 months and has plans to get married
2. Very intimate with each other as in as far as making love
3. Boy or girl has a BFF (best friend forever) but never met before
4. BFF very open minded and wild type and loves to flirt
5. Boy or Girl was ignored for almost a month due to some relationship misunderstanding and only the communications means is through the BFF
6. BFF was all along very interested with the Boy or Girl and started to flirt with all sorts of msgs as in having sex and making out but it was all purely txt and no meetups or whatsoever intended in the first place
7. Boy or Girl found out about the flirting txt and BFF was spared the break up but not their partners

Would any bros or sisters give up this relationship which have gone through so much just for a pure flirting txt?

Thanks

Traid14k · #2 03-10-2014, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by bbenjt

Hi Bros and Sisters,
I'm sorry to ask this question here but I'm really very curious to find out if majority here will give up a relationship because of a flirting txt? I will fill in as much info to possible about this.

1. Boy and Girl in love for more than 6 months and has plans to get married
2. Very intimate with each other as in as far as making love
3. Boy or girl has a BFF (best friend forever) but never met before
4. BFF very open minded and wild type and loves to flirt
5. Boy or Girl was ignored for almost a month due to some relationship misunderstanding and only the communications means is through the BFF
6. BFF was all along very interested with the Boy or Girl and started to flirt with all sorts of msgs as in having sex and making out but it was all purely txt and no meetups or whatsoever intended in the first place
7. Boy or Girl found out about the flirting txt and BFF was spared the break up but not their partners

Would any bros or sisters give up this relationship which have gone through so much just for a pure flirting txt?

Thanks

I really don't know what the fuck are you writing about.

hardrod69 · #3 03-10-2014, 10:23 PM

Sorry but your scenario is very confusing. Very hard to give advice.

Why don't you get straight to the point. Are you the boy, girl or bff?

alan0338 · #4 03-10-2014, 10:49 PM

can intro the BFF if she is a cha bor??? kamsia very much...

4getful · #5 03-10-2014, 10:55 PM

TS, your composition failed big time liao. I read until my head keep twisting leh. Please take the resit n rewrite a more simple n concise ones.

Johnbass · #6 04-10-2014, 12:50 AM

TS, your 1st relationship ah?
6mths nia... Don't jump the marriage gun lah... Sure scare the girl away.
BFF FTW!
U should try to be her BFF 1st...

Squirting · #7 04-10-2014, 01:53 AM

Thread Starter, just tell the situation as it is ... no one has stamina to read all your 7 points with boy lah or girl lah or BFF or whatnot ... aiyoh straight to the point lah !

thislogin · #8 04-10-2014, 04:43 AM

Yup TS this is the internet. You can just anonymously share your real situation. Point 5 or 6 I was totally lost..

firejalan · #9 04-10-2014, 06:06 AM

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Originally Posted by thislogin

Yup TS this is the internet. You can just anonymously share your real situation. Point 5 or 6 I was totally lost..

Agreed...!!
If u want to ask , ask properly...!!

What guy , gal , guy , gal....?
Irritating to read...!!

ChinaFriends67 · #10 04-10-2014, 06:10 AM

Its very cuntfusing dude

otamay · #11 04-10-2014, 06:33 AM

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Originally Posted by ChinaFriends67

Its very cuntfusing dude

Yes, you are very right.

Gentle Beast · #12 04-10-2014, 07:12 AM

Reminds me of solving problems sums in mathematics. Grrr...

acidicavex · #13 04-10-2014, 08:18 AM

Ts why dont u just go straight to point . No wonder so many want to slam u .

U afraid scare tio ID no face?

bbenjt · #14 04-10-2014, 06:22 PM

So Sorry bros

I have never encounter or post such situations before so forgive me on this.

Yes, I'm the boy and my girlfriend broke up with me big time just for a flirting txt to her BFF which I have never met or even the intention to met up. I have explained to her many times that its just a txt and no action whatsoever but she just can't accept it.

Can any bros or sisters advice or maybe let me know what will you guys do or its really I deserve it? The most important is I hope sisters will answer this more so I can tell her that its really illogical to give up a relationship just because of a txt.

starbucks · #15 04-10-2014, 06:35 PM

ahh.. now i understand. i suggest you behave a little more manly and not turn into a little puppy just because your lady queen threaten to leave you. you see boy.... sooner or later you have to 'grow up' anyway, so i suggest you take it in full stride and let her go. Be cool about these BGR man. I repeate. Be Cool and walk away and stop calling or texting your gf. (whether you want to text that other lady is another thing). Just dont be so needy towards women in general, or you end up letting them shit on your head, repeatedly, in future.

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Originally Posted by bbenjt

So Sorry bros

I have never encounter or post such situations before so forgive me on this.

Yes, I'm the boy and my girlfriend broke up with me big time just for a flirting txt to her BFF which I have never met or even the intention to met up. I have explained to her many times that its just a txt and no action whatsoever but she just can't accept it.

Can any bros or sisters advice or maybe let me know what will you guys do or its really I deserve it? The most important is I hope sisters will answer this more so I can tell her that its really illogical to give up a relationship just because of a txt.