KTV gers.

boy_ · #1 08-12-2006, 04:09 AM

sorry to all bros here cuz i duno if i posted in e right forum. but tis is a newbie question as i am a newbie. so please forgive me if its kinda lame.

jus wan to ask n look at some of e views of bros here. please kindly advise.

as e title states, its abt ktv girls. recently, i heard someone mention, is it true tat ktv girls will only go for those rich ah seah kia(rich young man).?

bacsically, these girls are in tis line for the $$. why in e world would they fall for an average joe, who doesnt have money, looks or anything worthy of her?

well, tis story actually starts cuz, i haf taken a liking to one of these girls, when i +++ to my friends abt it, they all laughed me in e face. wad do i haf to offer? im not loaded, i dun drive, im not handsome n neither can i satisfy her. not only in one area, but all.

come to think of it, i myself believed it. she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me? i cant gif any explaination at all. maybe they are right.mayb im to naivie.

wad do u guys think?

V3IK · #2 08-12-2006, 04:29 AM

hi boy,

good luck to you!!!! can tell you that don't pin too much hopes on such investments.... i can say is too risk to be serious abt it. But you can try your luck. End of the day, the story will still tell you...easy come easy go...

no_faith · #3 08-12-2006, 05:19 AM

go wif ur instinct n feeling..
shd it fail or a success, u have no regrets....

stephan · #4 08-12-2006, 08:27 AM

Those gals r dealing with too many kind of guy liao and they should know what kind of guy they can stick together. Maybe that gal has the concept of rich n handsome guys all "bo sim kua"

LengKia · #5 08-12-2006, 08:48 AM

The success rate is damn low. If you are prepare to suffer some broken heart
maybe you can give it a try. Best advice is not to start before your feelings for her develope further. STOP and change a target

bullgod5 · #6 08-12-2006, 09:00 AM

yeah just play the game. dont get attached.

Lsize · #7 08-12-2006, 09:08 AM

depending how you get to know her, if you know her as a ktv gals when you know her..better forget it..

but when you know her initially without knowing her job, both of you develop some feelings, chances are higher..

good luck

LonelyInChina · #8 08-12-2006, 09:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boy_

is it true tat ktv girls will only go for those rich ah seah kia(rich young man).?

she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me?
wad do u guys think?

I believe this will make you feel better.

Ah seah Kia (rich young man) also meets better, prettier, sexier KTV GIRLS every day. So if you think you dont have a chance with this girl, than she also might not have a chance with Ah Seah Kia (rich young man).

Feel better now?

buzzing · #9 08-12-2006, 09:34 AM

Brother..

Jump off the jolly roger when u are still alive....

couple of questions which u must answer truthfully..

1. can u continue to let her work in that kind of environment?

2. If yes, and U must be truthful, cos she will meet tons of men that will grope and try their luck on her. Will jealous get the better of u, even though u say u will trust that she will not do anything. Brother... we all cheong lah ok..

3. If no, are you will to support in her cost to find money to support.. aged sick mother or to support the siblings through college? Expensive choice.. but doable if both of you put extra effort in it.. cos if money is a main factor.. once its dry.. she will go back to her old trade.. brother.. its fast money.. u cannot deny that..

Love is blind.. so its better to have loved and never been loved at all.. final decision rest with u..

Good luck

chip

randyboy73 · #10 08-12-2006, 09:47 AM

No offence to KTV gals who happen to read this post.. I know several of them and have a genuine liking for them (i used to rent rooms to some of them so in a sense i lived with them).. to me they are like normal gals, with the only difference that they LOVE money, shopping and gossip more than the norm..

I have seen these same girls at home and at the KTV lounges and I can tell u they are totally different people when they are working.. One of them tells me she does not enjoy sex and has never had an orgasm, but when she went for short time with my buddy, my buddy told me that she came 3 times (she must have faked the Big O)..

When u decide to woo a KTV gal to be your fulltime GF, you have to be mentally strong and this is something that you will never know until you are in it. Consider the following situations:

1. When she is at work, she is scantily clad and if she works in LV, TAM, XTD, Kabuki and similar class, u can be sure that the boys will be pawing her all the time.. can u take it? Even if she says she doesnt let boys touch her, can u honestly be sure about it? Be truthful

2. even when she is working only happy hours.. can u be certain she has not gone short time with her customers? Will you know? Will you keep doubting whether is she telling the truth? are u going to wait at the lobby everynight and keep vigil?

3.Assuming events 1 & 2 do not exist, then there is your own inferiority complex.. u said u have the 4 No(s).. no loaded (money not canon), no car, no condo, no looks... then how? If u are not convinced of your own self value/worth, how can u be sure that she will be convinced that you are the right guy.. everynight, she will be meeting so many different kinds of customers who are either looking for fun, or scouting for mistressess/lovers.. can u live with the prospect that she will leave u anytime when she meets someone who fulfills any of the above categories (those that u say No)..

Brudder.. these girls are fun girls to be with and they make a hard day's work disappear when u are with them.. they deserve to be treated with DUE respect as people.. However, do also recognise that they are here to earn a living too. I am very sure that there are always cases where true love with develop in due course.. You could always be one of those that work out... My personal advice is that if you really like the girl and if she reciprocates, start of as friends going out for coffee (just like any normal date).. give it time to develop..and you will come to your own conclusion.. just makes sure that before u embark on your quest, think about those scenarios i outlined above...

To brudders out there, this is just my personal opinion and hope that i have not offended anybody in the process....

Castrol · #11 08-12-2006, 09:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by boy_

well, tis story actually starts cuz, i haf taken a liking to one of these girls, when i +++ to my friends abt it, they all laughed me in e face. wad do i haf to offer? im not loaded, i dun drive, im not handsome n neither can i satisfy her. not only in one area, but all.

come to think of it, i myself believed it. she meets better, richer, more handsome men everyday. she can jus pick any one of them. why in devils name would she choose me? i cant gif any explaination at all. maybe they are right.mayb im to naivie.

wad do u guys think?

so the ktv girl also "taken a liking" to you and let you bonk for free or not? if not, i dont know what your thread is about man.

randyboy73 · #12 08-12-2006, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Castrol

so the girl like you and let you bonk for free or not? if not, i dont know what your thread is about man.

come to think about it, bro castrol's post also makes sense.. if she lets you bonk for free, it does add another factor into your decision process.. good luck bro.