Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles Part 2

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Originally Posted by v-factor

add me please? i think i need a group to mingle with. wechat ID quanmin-k-ge

thanks.

I have added you on wechat. Pls check

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Originally Posted by singmarine

James211277

I have added you on wechat. Pls check

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Originally Posted by Footman

Hello please add me : dashuahzu

You are already in the group bro

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Originally Posted by lalaliang

Pls add me? Callmeawesome123

OK added you on wechat already. Please check

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Originally Posted by want0nmee

Is the group still around? Who do i pm to add me in?

You can pm me your wechat ID

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Originally Posted by lonelyboiboi90

Pls add me xiaoemoboy

I have added you on wechat. Pls check

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Originally Posted by cornyham

Add me. Cornyham89

I have added you on wechat already. Please check

[MrDariusxify]

Can add me also jjinniz

[overlord9898]

add me to the group, WeChat: overlord9898

[Lemonjuice]

Add me pls. Johnlee1025

[AnnieYJL]

Sometimes good for ladies to initiate. My husband not as active as before probably due to age. Probably most obsessed with playing other balls (golf) instead of my pair of balls (melons).

On weekends I woke him up with my bj and it never fail to arouse him…we had great sex on weekends morning and it was so good and relaxing..sometimes I shower together with him and also make him horny…

Lately I went to pick him from airport without my panty and it drove him wild. I think these are the things women should try our best to accommodate as it takes 2 hands to clap.

Which men wants to come home after a long day and hear wives bitching at him? For women, sometimes just turn a blind eye to all these nonsense and life will be happier…make sense? I also took my husband for granted because always ask him go buy lunch, dinner, pick up my shopping, be driver etc…but sometimes I also try to be nice to him and plan for holiday, make coffee for him etc…sometimes go shopping I just accompany him to see his golf stuff…instead of complaining about him wasting money, I just pay for him. Not say he got no money to buy but this kind of action touched him. Haha

[acidicavex]

TO frank wife that have your mentality are hard to come by it a 2 way traffic. No intimacy isn't everything in a R/S but some male or female are just program differently.

Chatting with some or most i see local ladies especially those in the boomer era tend not to believe in intimacy is part of a marriage life.

The newer era are open to that concept however it also depend on the up bring and family bad ground and mindset. especially this day the ladies out there are equally capable as compare to the past.

Anyway just want to say wife that realise the way to do it and secure their partner you are the 3rd lady. I have seen so far will do that.

cheers have a great weekend

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Sometimes good for ladies to initiate. My husband not as active as before probably due to age. Probably most obsessed with playing other balls (golf) instead of my pair of balls (melons).

On weekends I woke him up with my bj and it never fail to arouse him…we had great sex on weekends morning and it was so good and relaxing..sometimes I shower together with him and also make him horny…

Lately I went to pick him from airport without my panty and it drove him wild. I think these are the things women should try our best to accommodate as it takes 2 hands to clap.

Which men wants to come home after a long day and hear wives bitching at him? For women, sometimes just turn a blind eye to all these nonsense and life will be happier…make sense? I also took my husband for granted because always ask him go buy lunch, dinner, pick up my shopping, be driver etc…but sometimes I also try to be nice to him and plan for holiday, make coffee for him etc…sometimes go shopping I just accompany him to see his golf stuff…instead of complaining about him wasting money, I just pay for him. Not say he got no money to buy but this kind of action touched him. Haha

[AnnieYJL]

Originally Posted by acidicavex

TO frank wife that have your mentality are hard to come by it a 2 way traffic. No intimacy isn't everything in a R/S but some male or female are just program differently.

Chatting with some or most i see local ladies especially those in the boomer era tend not to believe in intimacy is part of a marriage life.

The newer era are open to that concept however it also depend on the up bring and family bad ground and mindset. especially this day the ladies out there are equally capable as compare to the past.

Anyway just want to say wife that realise the way to do it and secure their partner you are the 3rd lady. I have seen so far will do that.

cheers have a great weekend

Interesting views. To me, playing a part of the marriage is the duty of both sides right? We can argue that both husband and wife also have a job and are both tired. So it is fair to split the work.

I feel marriage is both sides. If I start nagging at my husband when he spend on his gadgets, then he will nag at me for spending on ladies stuff. If I start checking his phone, he will want to check mine as well. A lot of ppl think marriage is about 2 person but I disagree. It involves his parents, siblings also. If I start being nasty to his parents, he will start being nasty to mine.

Maybe that is how I live my life. I start doing what I think is right. For example if we go Europe, i will never fail to bring presents for his parents, immediate family. If we travel during CNY, then reunion dinner is a must and we give out all the red packers and well wishes before we fly. At times I self reflect, I would say my husband probably sacrifice more than me. He probably packed lunch/dinner 70% of the time. Paid 70-80% of all the expenses…cannot complain right? Sometimes you start nitpicking then relationship will sour. Every couple sure have conflict one. Sometime I just walk away and go some where to chill….Compare to some ppl, I am already very fortunate. I heard some husband are quite abusive then the wife quite poor thing

[acidicavex]

thanks for sharing your life yeah when one partner start nagging non-stop at the other the marriage no doubt will start turning sour.

I like the part when u mention self reflect but many don't maybe it is society that turn our the people into my self-center and self entitle.

example you do what u can for your partner birthday regardless just going by the observation you get what she like and try to pls her. At that moment it seem like a happy time. But you start noticing this example again the pair of earing or accessories you bought for her wasn't worn at all (ain't cheap stuff). Than u ask hey why you don't want to wear them?

1st excuse no occasion fit.
2nd excuse too loud must have right time to wear.
3rd excuse and final i won't wear them it totally not my style
all this excuse is span across for a period.

Than when it your birthday or happy occasion she will just tell you she don't know what u want. After year of being together your partner can tell u that? sad isn't it?

I feel that stuff get sour always like u mention nitpicking at one another that is the breaking point for me also. But this days it so common i witness so many couple half a year ago they still showing so much love 6 months down suddenly divorce . Manage to only found out one or 2 cases the break up is due to taking thing for granted.

Sad that this days couple to compromise with each is rather hard. Maybe due to work, family etc pressure.

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Interesting views. To me, playing a part of the marriage is the duty of both sides right? We can argue that both husband and wife also have a job and are both tired. So it is fair to split the work.

I feel marriage is both sides. If I start nagging at my husband when he spend on his gadgets, then he will nag at me for spending on ladies stuff. If I start checking his phone, he will want to check mine as well. A lot of ppl think marriage is about 2 person but I disagree. It involves his parents, siblings also. If I start being nasty to his parents, he will start being nasty to mine.

Maybe that is how I live my life. I start doing what I think is right. For example if we go Europe, i will never fail to bring presents for his parents, immediate family. If we travel during CNY, then reunion dinner is a must and we give out all the red packers and well wishes before we fly. At times I self reflect, I would say my husband probably sacrifice more than me. He probably packed lunch/dinner 70% of the time. Paid 70-80% of all the expenses…cannot complain right? Sometimes you start nitpicking then relationship will sour. Every couple sure have conflict one. Sometime I just walk away and go some where to chill….Compare to some ppl, I am already very fortunate. I heard some husband are quite abusive then the wife quite poor thing

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

Interesting views. To me, playing a part of the marriage is the duty of both sides right? We can argue that both husband and wife also have a job and are both tired. So it is fair to split the work.

I feel marriage is both sides. If I start nagging at my husband when he spend on his gadgets, then he will nag at me for spending on ladies stuff. If I start checking his phone, he will want to check mine as well. A lot of ppl think marriage is about 2 person but I disagree. It involves his parents, siblings also. If I start being nasty to his parents, he will start being nasty to mine.

Maybe that is how I live my life. I start doing what I think is right. For example if we go Europe, i will never fail to bring presents for his parents, immediate family. If we travel during CNY, then reunion dinner is a must and we give out all the red packers and well wishes before we fly. At times I self reflect, I would say my husband probably sacrifice more than me. He probably packed lunch/dinner 70% of the time. Paid 70-80% of all the expenses…cannot complain right? Sometimes you start nitpicking then relationship will sour. Every couple sure have conflict one. Sometime I just walk away and go some where to chill….Compare to some ppl, I am already very fortunate. I heard some husband are quite abusive then the wife quite poor thing

Sis sounds like a rare find. Yr husband must b fortunate to have you.

Maybe i read too much stories on NUSwhispers Theres really alot of relationship/marriage issues ongoing in sg..really sad