Guess I'm not the only one who she made feel uncomfortable... SYT and all but had dropped out of my consideration list. I pay money to be comfortable not uncomfortable
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Originally Posted by kaixin82
i kenna xln outburst once(not related to her limits). but that happened when she just arrived.
since then, she has been cool for me and still in my rtm list
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Originally Posted by Ivysaw
I kena on our first meeting too, can even tell that she was in a foul mood through her texts even before arriving , got the "...." Text..when i went to the wrong place . Then once i was there her face was pretty black..not sure if it was related to what i did earlier but the entire session was conducted in total silence, i didn't even try to talk since i could sense her anger just by the tone of her voice when she gave me the towel and told me to shower(i kinda knew she had mood swings from reading the forum). But gotta say her massage was good(just like her friends) and she didn't shortchanged me on the time but it was the only time i really wanted the session to end asap because the entire atmosphere was weird. Then after the shower she wanted to give me a hug before i leave and i almost wanted to decline but i was scared that she might go ballistic on me if i did that.. honestly speaking i think she'd be a really fun ml to be around when she's in a good mood but when she's not..you'd wish that you were elsewhere . And of course after that episode i didn't rtm again even though her area is like a short walk away from my house.
Yea I think the problem is sometimes you don’t know which one you get with her lol. I actually quite like the way she text after the session, she will still try to keep it engaging and fun, in a way only a young girl will do so I give her kudos for that. If you are into that surely you can strike up a good chemistry with her. And maybe cos I wasn’t a regular enough as I remember one bro who is a regular with her seems to find sessions with her less restrictive, and pretty fun? So perhaps it’s a matter of mood, character and her comfort level.
Also maybe I was suay as I remember the first 2 times I visited her she say her auntie came or coming, maybe the mood swings because of that? Lol.
But then again not the first time I visited girls with auntie period and they were still ok with the obvious restriction other than that everything same.
I just wanna end off my discussion of her that I’m not slating her. I still consider her as one of the better options at present whom I may visit from time to time, with the caveat I haven’t visited new MLs for quite a while, just that visiting her takes a little more uncertainty in terms of what I may get on the day. But anyone who wants a cute looking girl with a young body cannot go wrong with the visuals with her.
From that statement in your post, I was guessing you guessed many people experienced something similar. Actually quite a few posts already suggested so, it doesn't come as a surprise.
And if it did happen to me, I am inclined to think that I did not go overboard - if not I'd surely be blacklisted in that database and she wouldn't accept the appointment. As the bro just rightly mentioned, I won't pay to be uncomfortable (or get treated harshly).
A younger version of Melody then. For MLs like this, the onus should not be to stay on their good side, it would be to highlight their unreasonable side as a warning. We are after all paying customers.
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Originally Posted by kaixin82
I think maybe she was new then in this trade. Still adjusting.
I explained to her and all good since then.
Still rtm regularly to chill with her.
I also kenna black face from another ml once.
i know how it feels. And yes, i also hoped for session to end asap.
that ml is still active...but i'm not returning
That's where you tell a great ML from an average one. When I first met Yi Yi (the BBBJ one) and MLX (separately lah), there was some misunderstanding prior. The atmosphere wasn't exactly great. 3 mins later, it was all forgotten and I had a lovely time each time.
Much of it to the credit of the ladies and their wonderful work ethic (I can't say I would be as gracious as them in my own work).
Actually ya, once a ML gets more comfortable with you some of her true nature will show up. Much like most girls have their mood swings and likes/dislikes (those with gfs and wives should know), she will start to show in front of people she is closer to. I once had a regular who started to find fault with the way I reply her damn funny. A little pissed at that moment but after visiting her we had a real good laugh about it 😂
Sometimes I find it quite cute and secretly happy she shows that side to me, as long as it’s not over la. Cos when they try to hide and always be all smiley and nice you know surely it is a very commercial thing, much like how comedians always look happy in front of others. Yes it makes you happy but it’s a show. But of course, you may argue you pay the money for that 1-2 hour of pleasure not there for gf, which is why some will drop these gals after a while if they receive that treatment. No right or wrong, so this kind of interaction (some may argue is also a show itself to bait you in) works for some doesn’t work for others, win some lose some along the way.
The outburst need to be reasonable in the first place. Once, the ML outburst me coz I asked her why was she chatting with another bro during my session. Her response was that she need to get another bro to fill up her time after I leave. While I still visit her from time to time, the frequency has since dropped.
Actually my understanding is the offense for HJ and FJ is different.
Of course both will also get you deported once caught but from what I heard from the girls the offense is worse if found they do FJ, usually evidence by the presence of condoms, which is why many girls try not to have condoms in their apartment (bring ur own CD), I have even heard of girls who put CD in their mailbox instead of home just to play safe in the past.
But not an expert here, just based on what the MLs told me although they themselves might not even know also.
HJ / FJ is not illegal
What break the law is she work as holding travel visa / work permit violating ICA law
I'd dump the ML on my list if they ever had outburst and vent it on me though.
I pay money for pleasure, not to be at the mercy of someone's mood.
Same for me. 2 years ago, 1 ML scolded me when I tried to open her locked door after the session. She was busy preparing the bed for next customer and I thought I better auto a bit by leaving quietly as she said her customer reached the carpark already but I didn't know that she had locked the door. When the door created the loud sound, she scolded me and said something like I am stupid or what. I left angrily after that and she WhatsApp me to thank me for the support (as usual). 2 weeks later, she WhatsApp me to ask why I did not look for her for so long and she misses me. I did not reply her.
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I'd dump the ML on my list if they ever had outburst and vent it on me though.
I pay money for pleasure, not to be at the mercy of someone's mood.
My sentiments exactly.
This shows how much the standard of the chickens had deteriorated, until customers need to put up with their outburst.
Worst still, some customers enjoyed it.
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