Married men, how did you convince your FB?

[baloo90]

As per title, I'm curious on the different methods married or attached men, convinced their FB to be their FB and that there was no future of relationship together?

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

[donut88]

Originally Posted by baloo90

As per title, I'm curious on the different methods married or attached men, convinced their FB to be their FB and that there was no future of relationship together?

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

For me, it's upfront. They know my status. I also choose married FB coz I know they won't be sticky to me.

Divorced ones are a bit risky because they will be more sticky and hopeful. I tried before. Didn't like the feeling.

[oxeso]

Moi upfront. Reason no.1. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. No.2. 风流和下流是不一样地。。

[Cryptor]

why would the partner be called a FB if there are long term relationship goals? FB is called FB precisely because its a NSA can end anytime by anyone kind of arrangement what

[baloo90]

Originally Posted by donut88

For me, it's upfront. They know my status. I also choose married FB coz I know they won't be sticky to me.

Divorced ones are a bit risky because they will be more sticky and hopeful. I tried before. Didn't like the feeling.

yeah i figured best to be up front to avoid any issues down the line. And you are right, married is the highest guarantee of no strings.

[baloo90]

Originally Posted by oxeso

Moi upfront. Reason no.1. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. No.2. 风流和下流是不一样地。。

probably the most accurate saying ever.

[baloo90]

Originally Posted by Cryptor

why would the partner be called a FB if there are long term relationship goals? FB is called FB precisely because its a NSA can end anytime by anyone kind of arrangement what

That the point - you may call her a FB, but she may not call you the same. So the question is how do you ensure it remains as an FB relationship.

[ken_v2]

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

[moloch1666]

Originally Posted by ken_v2

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

True on this one.
I have ex FB, she with me for few months and she found out I'm married.
but we still being couple till she get married.

[timeliness]

Originally Posted by moloch1666

True on this one.
I have ex FB, she with me for few months and she found out I'm married.
but we still being couple till she get married.

Like that I lagi jialat sia, she knew I was attached from day one but still gave me her first time..

[donut88]

Now I'm working on someone who's divorced. I need to be extra careful of her stickiness.

[LordVader]

Both my FB knows I am married, but both do not know each other exists.

[evilair]

Originally Posted by baloo90

Were you upfront in saying you were attached? Or did you just hook up first, and then inform her later and she had to live with it?

I also tell them upfront. It may cost you a lot more trouble later if you don't mention this upfront.

Agree with bros here
1) Married FB is the best, minimum trouble and tends to be more understanding. The relationship will also tend to last longer
2) I try to avoid divorced ladies nowadays. My experience is that they tend to be sticky. Some may even want you to divorce, especially when the lady has kid(s) and is looking for a father for their children
3) Attached ladies are also good, just that they will tend to stop when they are about to get married.

So I feel it is not about how you convince, it is more about which profile of a lady you are looking at.

[finalrebel]

my fb is attached and going to get married . i don pay her over the top attention thats my line

[Slaver29125]

Originally Posted by ken_v2

well, things just happened when you talked to them. you know, there will be the chemistry and flirting moments... and one thing will lead to another.

there is no formula to it.

+21 to you... I agree... there is no formula to it... You just got to have the guts to steer it if there is some chemistry... Never try, never know...

Originally Posted by LordVader

Both my FB knows I am married, but both do not know each other exists.

NBZ... the force is strong with this one... LOL, I'd up you too, but I upped you before... hahaha