Should I Stay or Should I go

[abcdefg7]

The perennial question…..

[abcdefg7]

So, who has been in situation whereby you are in a position whereby the current person you are with, you feel a sense of commitment and guilt and history to stay with but the other person on the other side offers a different future, new possibilities, great sex… but you do realise that the whole world will hate you if you went with the latter.

[gerber88]

Originally Posted by abcdefg7

So, who has been in situation whereby you are in a position whereby the current person you are with, you feel a sense of commitment and guilt and history to stay with but the other person on the other side offers a different future, new possibilities, great sex… but you do realise that the whole world will hate you if you went with the latter.

if no kids involved, clean break and go with the other person.

life is too short to be " guilted".

As for the " world", they hate you, fuck them and enjoy your life... make new friends . all the best!

[stanleyxinu]

Somehow, my thoughts are similar to yours.

Originally Posted by gerber88

if no kids involved, clean break and go with the other person.

life is too short to be " guilted".

As for the " world", they hate you, fuck them and enjoy your life... make new friends . all the best!

[cataramp]

Grass is always greener on the other side, until......

[abcdefg7]

But come on, those whom have been through it or are going through it know how though it is in the present. In hindsight, it may seem easier but at that moment, going through that crux is a real pain, mind boggling heart wrenching moment.

Originally Posted by stanleyxinu

Somehow, my thoughts are similar to yours.

[butterboy88]

Originally Posted by abcdefg7

So, who has been in situation whereby you are in a position whereby the current person you are with, you feel a sense of commitment and guilt and history to stay with but the other person on the other side offers a different future, new possibilities, great sex… but you do realise that the whole world will hate you if you went with the latter.

if you are feeling this way then most likely you already dont see a future with your current one and want to see what can happen with your next. Happened to me before and went with the latter. never regretted after and felt a huge relief after breaking off with my ex. i was afraid that the world will hate or judge me so i deleted/deactivated all my socials for a few years and became a ghost online. No one can judge me and only close friends know what happened. All the best to you bro and follow your heart!

[stanleyxinu]

If it was an easy decision, you would not have asked for opinions here. All the best.

Originally Posted by abcdefg7

But come on, those whom have been through it or are going through it know how though it is in the present. In hindsight, it may seem easier but at that moment, going through that crux is a real pain, mind boggling heart wrenching moment.

[abcdefg7]

Thank you gents for the insights and support. Will keep you guys posted

[LauAdi]

My friend was in that position
Original gf was rich, chio, smart, kind, loved him
Richer girl came by but she’s quite a witch. Not Chio but key point is a lot richer
He ditched original for rich girl, stay gcb now but wife is fat after giving birth and passive aggressive
But can inherit her family business
Happier or not? No one knows. That one is on you to be as happy as you want to be

[abcdefg7]

Damn guys… thanks for all the input and sharing. I am of course still undecided and teetering between. There are good days and bad days. Tough.

[Xgenre]

If it's still at the dating stage, leave whenever you have doubts. Doubts then to grow over time. Doubts arise when you are noticing her negative aspects more than her positive traits. When the mind is fixated on looking for shit, the mind notices and accumulates more of her shitty side over time. Girls have limited youth. By leaving her earlier, you give her more time to find the next suitable guy while she is still young.

If it's at the marriage stage with kids involved, think more before deciding. Kids are innocent.

[superstiffy]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

If it's still at the dating stage, leave whenever you have doubts. Doubts then to grow over time. Doubts arise when you are noticing her negative aspects more than her positive traits. When the mind is fixated on looking for shit, the mind notices and accumulates more of her shitty side over time. Girls have limited youth. By leaving her earlier, you give her more time to find the next suitable guy while she is still young.

If it's at the marriage stage with kids involved, think more before deciding. Kids are innocent.

sibei ho ah bro... i cannot up you liao but this one is wise words... all you kids better read and remember... i think this one is best post i ever see in SBF...

knn if you write this 35 years earlier limpeh no need to waste so much time and money....

[tanpomime]

Originally Posted by LauAdi

My friend was in that position
Original gf was rich, chio, smart, kind, loved him
Richer girl came by but she’s quite a witch. Not Chio but key point is a lot richer
He ditched original for rich girl, stay gcb now but wife is fat after giving birth and passive aggressive
But can inherit her family business
Happier or not? No one knows. That one is on you to be as happy as you want to be

Ditch her for The Jinx, richest of all

[abcdefg7]

Hahaha. Yes. And maybe 15 years for the rest of us.

Originally Posted by superstiffy

sibei ho ah bro... i cannot up you liao but this one is wise words... all you kids better read and remember... i think this one is best post i ever see in SBF...

knn if you write this 35 years earlier limpeh no need to waste so much time and money....