from F##k Service to Friendship, Possible ?

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Originally Posted by Dignified69

What was MAS's locus standi on this? There is noting on statute which forbids financial transactions between two parties. You give me seven figures (or even 6) I never complain to anyone. Kum Sia

am helping her to cash out quite a number of cheques

for sure RM will ask cos all using my name and ic

she also called issuer to confirm

previously ok but now withdraw 10k also must have reason

knn so silly as if stealing from account

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Originally Posted by happytree123

MAS don't mind large cash transfers provided got head and tail eg details of the payee and payor. If you feeling rich and wanna PayNow maximum $200,000 to your china 小三 own bank account in SG, this one MAS don care.

If anonymous, MAS will be concerned. Last time easier to smuggle in and out cash cos got 1000 SGD notes which make it thinner in your personal baggage. Maybe next time SGD 100 also phase out (but I doubt so). After the Fujian gang money laundering raided by SPF, all the banks now very 乖乖 when following AML measures. Even you buy expensive Rolex for your 小三 from 2nd hand dealer using cash also need to declare CDD form

Nowadays, you one time flood the WL with cash, she also hard to cash out so much and remit back to Chinese Mainland.

Unless she smart enough and previously got bank account in Macao or Hong Kong LOL but this one also now face the problem of CRS tax info sharing

Once Xi Jinping CCP side see you got many money suddenly come in, there will come a day where they 秋后算账 for tax matters.

off topic but there is a reason why China ppl always think of creative ways to offshore their wealth to Singapore, Malaysia, Dubai and elsewhere.

no wonder they keep on using cash to buy chocolate bars

[hokengahhh]

Originally Posted by chrix

Bro Old pussy don't go, new pussy don't come.
Tua Pek Kong bless us all with health and prosperity to many more years of bonking.

excellent quote! hahaha..

[hokengahhh]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

What was MAS's locus standi on this? There is noting on statute which forbids financial transactions between two parties. You give me seven figures (or even 6) I never complain to anyone. Kum Sia

like some of the bros say, need head and tails story on why this money is moving around. if the sender and receivers are both " strong accounts", ie they pay tax, declare good income and have legit earnings/ works etc, it should not ring a bell. but if the 2 accounts are weak accounts, like $500 minimum then suddenly $500k inside without any explanation ( maybe strike TOTO or something), then will have problems . So usually need to build up a good " story" or account before these movements happen

[happytree123]

Update: That day I went to find WL after she clock off, just nice she was out with her colleague. Never tell me beforehand.

Just nice I decided to drive my >10 yrs old dead beat car (seat peeling and crack already) cos I lazy walk to MSCP to drive the other more nicer looking car.

She got a bit caught off guard with her friend around. Her friend never say anything cos she knows SG got car good enough liao thanks to COE. The main WL, however, that facial expression I cannot forget dk is she lose face or what

After a quick supper, she just went off quickly with her friend when dropping them off.

Since then until now, can smell the difference in both online and offline behaviour already Maybe I got it wrong or the unraveling begins now

time to go find the another wl from Lor 20 liao...but that one too 宅女

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Originally Posted by happytree123

Update: That day I went to find WL after she clock off, just nice she was out with her colleague. Never tell me beforehand.

Just nice I decided to drive my >10 yrs old dead beat car (seat peeling and crack already) cos I lazy walk to MSCP to drive the other more nicer looking car.

She got a bit caught off guard with her friend around. Her friend never say anything cos she knows SG got car good enough liao thanks to COE. The main WL, however, that facial expression I cannot forget dk is she lose face or what

After a quick supper, she just went off quickly with her friend when dropping them off.

Since then until now, can smell the difference in both online and offline behaviour already Maybe I got it wrong or the unraveling begins now

time to go find the another wl from Lor 20 liao...but that one too 宅女

hahaha even WL also wanna flaunt rich clientele

[chrix]

Originally Posted by unfit

am helping her to cash out quite a number of cheques

for sure RM will ask cos all using my name and ic

she also called issuer to confirm

previously ok but now withdraw 10k also must have reason

knn so silly as if stealing from account

Very nice of you to help them. What's the biggest cheque you had cashed out before?

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Originally Posted by chrix

Very nice of you to help them. What's the biggest cheque you had cashed out before?

six figure

private banking client

[chrix]

Originally Posted by unfit

six figure

private banking client

Wow. 6 figure . I need one whole year to make that much and not spend a single cent.

[unfit]

Originally Posted by chrix

Wow. 6 figure . I need one whole year to make that much and not spend a single cent.

they do have really generous supporter indeed

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by heroi111

Not easy to pass day by day...
I have passed the 30 days of no message to my last wl...
I texted her last time after the last 30 days mark... Then radio silent again...
New wl will help...
Help you ease pain faster....

Update from your bro - I accept the challenge
Fighting in the trenches so you don't have to

I will not message ‘my’ sweety till 23 November. If I can do this then most probably I will be over her

Three reasons why I will not message ‘my’ sweety

1. She said I should forget her
2. I wished for her that she finds a nice man and gets married and has kids. If she is going about this agenda I should not disturb her.
3. I cannot give her a future. I can only give money.

Whenever I will mention ‘my’ sweety I will add this Sisyphean labour of putting the inverted comma around any possessive word to remind myself that they are not mine.

I hope that she posts on Tik Tok that she is marrying the pudgy bear bastard. That will give me more reason to be happy.

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Update from your bro - I accept the challenge
Fighting in the trenches so you don't have to

I will not message ‘my’ sweety till 23 November. If I can do this then most probably I will be over her

Three reasons why I will not message ‘my’ sweety

1. She said I should forget her
2. I wished for her that she finds a nice man and gets married and has kids. If she is going about this agenda I should not disturb her.
3. I cannot give her a future. I can only give money.

Whenever I will mention ‘my’ sweety I will add this Sisyphean labour of putting the inverted comma around any possessive word to remind myself that they are not mine.

I hope that she posts on Tik Tok that she is marrying the pudgy bear bastard. That will give me more reason to be happy.

You take care man.
Not easy to hold back.
Just look for a new wl. You will feel better.
This is how I cope.
Finding a new wl that is ok not having marriage certificate is helpful especially she likes you.
All the best in your new adventure!
Cheers!

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by heroi111

You take care man.
Not easy to hold back.
Just look for a new wl. You will feel better.
This is how I cope.
Finding a new wl that is ok not having marriage certificate is helpful especially she likes you.
All the best in your new adventure!
Cheers!

Not really in the mood to find new WL. Often think I had the gold standard where to find like that? Sometimes think will have bad experience (CBJ etc) then will fell even more fucked up.

Or could be nice person also....to what end. Just PCC and save money.

Have truckload of work to do but not really getting the energy or drive.

Most probably will end up in GL again when cannot tahan . A lot depends on my state of mind and luck when I do go.

Cannot go back to that house though.....the memories there will haunt me.

[heroi111]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Not really in the mood to find new WL. Often think I had the gold standard where to find like that? Sometimes think will have bad experience (CBJ etc) then will fell even more fucked up.

Or could be nice person also....to what end. Just PCC and save money.

Have truckload of work to do but not really getting the energy or drive.

Most probably will end up in GL again when cannot tahan . A lot depends on my state of mind and luck when I do go.

Cannot go back to that house though.....the memories there will haunt me.

New wl also depends on fate.
I tried stupid things when I was rushing to stop my pain...
I went the extent of tipping a wl to WeChat me daily. I stopped after one week.
When there is no love, this will not work despite that wl might be very active in WeChat. The feeling is different.
Even when it is painful now, trying to force love wouldn't make it.
Just sharing my experience.
Cheers!

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Originally Posted by heroi111

I tried stupid things when I was rushing to stop my pain...

The hurt and pain could take several months to heal