Double WHAMMY I got 2 GFs Pregnant

[EtherC]

Between the Devil and the deep blue sea. I don't envy your position. Since lives are at stake here I won't become the devil's advocate by advising which girl to dump. Bro Colins has offered a sensible suggestion which is to come clean with both girls. Sit down and have a good talk with the two girls. Consider your own financials and alternatives like giving the baby up for adoption etc. A DNA test to show if you're the father should be performed as well, although expensive it is less expensive than parenting someone else's baby. Call the various hospitals to check if their lab does prenatal paternity testing. Mount Elizabeth & Thomson Med Center might have this service. Time is not on your side as abortion has a legal limit of 24mths in SG. So you better get off your ass and do something. Condoms are very friendly, learn to use them before you're forced to learn responsibility.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Congrats.
Do not jump the gun into investments of property watsoever.
Be a man, and face it.
Go marry them both.
But wait.
After baby born, MAKE SURE DO DNA TEST at private hospital to cfm its yours.
In Sichuan, go to Victoria's Female Hospital, in Chengdu City...a private high end hospital.
The other dun know but move fwd only after the DNA confirmation.
Other than that, all halt!
Dun panic, one step at a time.
But if both cfm yours, then be a man & keep the 2 kids lor.
That's what i'll do anyway......

Eh bro, TS is still full time student, guess who buy milk powder? Go China also need to wait for school holidays, you see the situation?

Bro etherc, I think the girls also have the right to choose. It puts into perspective for bro TS that relationships are never a choice between who is the better one. This is selfishness. Esp when life is at stake now, if the man still think only for himself or how to advance his own position, something is very wrong.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

(PS: I dun think I wan my kids to be commy bastards!!! OMG!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO SIA?!?!)

Abortion is the only choice unless u r able to support them.

Frankly speaking, I want to verbally f u but f u also no use now.

[EtherC]

It takes Jediskull and the girls to get pregnant. This is not Jediskull's responsibility alone. He did not rape those 2 girls. It was consensual sex, remember that. Obviously the responsibility to the babies lies with all three and their families to settle in a way which is best for the babies and themselves at this point in time whether be it to raise them, give them up for adoption or lastly go for abortion. Its their lives and their choices. I did not in anyway say the girls are not part of the equation.

Marrying them both is naturally the best solution if both girls are agreeable. However bear in mind that marriage involves the families as well. Are the 3 families going to concede? Not sure when they legislated polygamy in Singapore or China, but from what I know polygamy is still illegal in both countries.

The info about prenatal paternity testing is given on the grounds that there have been cases where husbands filing for divorce realize through DNA tests that the offspring is not theirs. And guess what, many of these men married a pregnant girl. Its only fair to ascertain the truth. So is it fair to these men that they have been denied the truth? Responsibility is all good but why be blindly responsible for the mistakes others made?

Adoption is a great approach if the concerned parties are willing. The baby will have a family evaluated to be ready to care for a child. It is a viable option as well?

While I do not encourage abortion, nevertheless it was legislated in SG and is still legal. Why? It is to give people a fresh start, a final choice when there are no other options according to the concerned parties. Abortion should not be seen as a means of shirking responsibility. To me it is murder. The fetus is alive, it has a heartbeat and a brain. Who is to say that there is no soul in such a little one?

However, this is a life choice to be made by Jediskull, his girlfriends and their families. All I provided is the legal limit info. Time is indeed not on his side should abortion be their choice. As always I have merely provided facts to this forum. Decisions, interpretations and opinions are solely that of forummers. If people think my information is flawed perhaps I should stop posting. Don't get paid anyways.

Originally Posted by colins

Eh bro, TS is still full time student, guess who buy milk powder? Go China also need to wait for school holidays, you see the situation?

Bro etherc, I think the girls also have the right to choose. It puts into perspective for bro TS that relationships are never a choice between who is the better one. This is selfishness. Esp when life is at stake now, if the man still think only for himself or how to advance his own position, something is very wrong.

[colins]

Always so touchy eh...relak relak

No your information is not flawed. Not that I can stop you, but pls continue to post. I always refer to the attitude rather than the actions, in this case, the manner the post was written shows a lot of that.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Dun always be too eager to drop the axe over the head.
This is a kid....someone who doesnt know crap abt responsibilities.
Just felt lucky cos he had the pleasures of 2 pussies serving him.
Selfish, he is, stupid, confirm.
This is not the 1st time i've come across such stories.
If you're a responsible man, then KEEP THE BABY!
If you have to break your back to fight through this, good for you.
If you decide to abort for your own self, then also good for you but i'd luv to see your karma...2 lives lost just for you own sake.

You did this, stop whining and face it like a man like you felt when farking those 2 chicks.
Since you got no income, i really suggest you CONFESS to your folks.
If anyone can really intervene to help you now, its only your parents.
This is a situation you cant run away from.

[fallen_angel]

Best is to come clean to both of them parties. and see what's their decision. If they stick want to bear your kid after knowing that you are an asshole, then good for you. You might well take the cake and eat it too. If they want to abort the child after knowing the truth, at least you have no more dilemma.

To take 3-4 months and not decided, you are a complete asshole.

[fallen_angel]

Originally Posted by EtherC

It takes Jediskull and the girls to get pregnant. This is not Jediskull's responsibility alone. He did not rape those 2 girls. It was consensual sex, remember that.

would agree that the gal n the guy is both responsible on that part. But nobody ask him to shot gun in!! and having unprotected sex to different gals at the same time, he is exposing them to various diseases....

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Abortion is the only choice unless u r able to support them.

Frankly speaking, I want to verbally f u but f u also no use now.

Hi bro,
I have a new found respect for you.
My humble two cents.

[porscheclub]

Xiao liao

Other than what the brothers here have said, I would seriously ask if your are ready to marry? Can you be a good husband, father & do you seriously love either of the girl or were you out having fun?

Don't let their background & riches affect your vision too much.

Think deep about this. It's a lifetime of happiness about 3 adults & two children. Either way, you are responsible and time is running out. Have you spoken to your parents or a close relative?

& yes, I would say come clean to the gals. It's not just your decision, they have the right to decide too.

[jojogigi]

i think the main story here is to advice him not to fuck him. thats why he posted this. But TS. U shouldnt have shoot the bullet to hit the figure 8. But if u really shot inside her. This really means u never ever thought of her getting pregnant. So both are pregnant now. You cant have best of both worlds. Choose one. either one u are gonna get it good. You can ran away from them. But most prob pple will despise u as a jerk.

This is a very hard choice to make. But also this is part of being an adult. We often make many difficult choices. So welcome to adulthood. But i didn't expect you would have 2 babies as presents.

I dunno whether to sympathise you or be happy for you. hmmm.
anyway God bless.

[JediSkull]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

To TS,

U so lucky ..... got so much engery to bonk until tow of yor gfs preg. Why didnt u take any safety precautions and now you are in trouble, you panicked.

Some bros agreed that you do not need any sympathy on that. I agreed on certain angle. You are an educated person and yet in the heat of passion, you did not take any safety precaution, go raw and caused both yor gfs to suffer. Somemore you dare to two timer your gfs while you are still studying without any means of earning power...

Consider the following factors:

1) Are you able to support both gals finanically?
2) How abt yor family? Do they support u? DO they know abt it?
3) Are you sure you are able to handle both gals if both give birth?
4) Will it be fair to both gals if you decided to keep both?
5) What will happen if both gers ask you to marry them legally? Can you in the first place do that in SG?

I do not approve abortions but in this caes, there is no choice. If you think you are not able to support both gers at the sme time, YOu have to let go one of them. Be a man and faced it. Be fair to the gals and at the same time, be fair to you.

Be faithful to the other one whom you decided to be with. Dont make such stupid mistakes again. I hope you will grow up.

God is fair. You do good deeds, you get yor rewards now or later. Do bad deeds, retributions might fall on you.

I have known a true life encounter with a friend of mine. He faced the same issue with you when he is young. Got 1 gal preg. He took the quick way out. Vanish into the air. Guess what.... God is fair. He was bonking a very young thai ger. Good bonk and the thai ger show him her family photo. Her mum happened to be his gf who he dumped when she is preg. He did not sleep in peace up till now cause he had no idea if the ger is his blood and whether he had actually f..ked his daugther.

I did raw thinking I can get morning after pills! anyway went to pharmacy and found out only can get with doctor's prescription and I was 2-3 days late liao! I do my own businesses besides being a full time student........ My family's well off too (though I haven't take money from parents since I'm 18)
I'm an overaged student near 30. But I can definitely afford to upkeep my gfs. Only problem now is whether my parents can accept my china gf/gfs...(I dunno if i should tell them one 1st or tell them I have two gfs pregnant.)

I'm definitely not a bastard. Both girls I love. May sound selfish or stupid! But I really do love both gfs. I don't think I favour one over another. They'r two types of girls that I like in terms of looks. And in terms of character, the rich girl is outspoken and jovial though can be abit violent(she claims she's like that only when she got pregnant. Bad temper when pregnant.) The poor girl is demure and caring but not as fun to be with. But BOTH girls I can communicate my heart with. We shared many things about views in life. In fact both gfs are against abortion..... ONLY PROBLEM NOW IS I FEEL I HAVE LET THEM DOWN COZ ITS LIKE I DUN LOVE ANY OF THEM WHEN I GOT BOTH PREGNANT....... THEY MUST BE THINKING I'M A PLAYBOY!!!

[JediSkull]

Originally Posted by fallen_angel

would agree that the gal n the guy is both responsible on that part. But nobody ask him to shot gun in!! and having unprotected sex to different gals at the same time, he is exposing them to various diseases....

I have regular checkups at DSC and have stopped sexual activities eversince I know of their pregnancy. I will not want to put any of my gfs or babies at risk of STDs.

(PS:I DO use condoms when I do it with FLs. But seriously I go to FLs only WHEN gfs don't give me what I need.)

[JediSkull]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Wah, nowadays full time student also very rich it seems.

For most people, falling in love with a WL already bad enough, for you two-timing a couple of non-WL students is worse. And to top it off, getting both of them pregnant.... I have no sympathies for you.

Abortion is murder. Don't even think about this.

I am pro life....... but so far noone I know agreed that I should keep both babies......... the response has been choose one or abort both. I'm not asking for sympathy.
I even consulted my aunt whom initially said good luck to me but corrected that to good luck to my 2 gfs!!! I was surprised by what she said, she explains the girls are currently at the losing end if I am a bastard. However I'm still considered a responsible person having not vanished into thin air!!!

Our main concern is how my family will react to my situation. especially when my mum has a stereotyped thinking that china girls are very materialistic. I did think of telling her about my rich gf who does her shopping at LV shop but she's kinda a spoilt brat having being the only child of successful parents. Whereas my poor gf is so poor that I am afraid my mum might think it was my gf trying to get pregnant with my kid in the 1st place.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

I did raw thinking I can get morning after pills! anyway went to pharmacy and found out only can get with doctor's prescription and I was 2-3 days late liao! I do my own businesses besides being a full time student........ My family's well off too (though I haven't take money from parents since I'm 18)
I'm an overaged student near 30. But I can definitely afford to upkeep my gfs. Only problem now is whether my parents can accept my china gf/gfs...(I dunno if i should tell them one 1st or tell them I have two gfs pregnant.)

I'm definitely not a bastard. Both girls I love. May sound selfish or stupid! But I really do love both gfs. I don't think I favour one over another. They'r two types of girls that I like in terms of looks. And in terms of character, the rich girl is outspoken and jovial though can be abit violent(she claims she's like that only when she got pregnant. Bad temper when pregnant.) The poor girl is demure and caring but not as fun to be with. But BOTH girls I can communicate my heart with. We shared many things about views in life. In fact both gfs are against abortion..... ONLY PROBLEM NOW IS I FEEL I HAVE LET THEM DOWN COZ ITS LIKE I DUN LOVE ANY OF THEM WHEN I GOT BOTH PREGNANT....... THEY MUST BE THINKING I'M A PLAYBOY!!!

Not too bad. At least half the problem's now solved since you can support them & old enough.

er hem but I must say U R A PLAYBOY (I'm guilty too ) or else why the fuck did u get both pregnant @ the same time? OK, now's not the time to whine & blame anymore. We know that you're choosing but while you're doing this, are you not going to tell both of them the truth or you intend to choose the best & dump the other? Do you not think that they will both dump you after finding out the truth? crunch time bro, crunch time....