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14-06-2009, 01:38 PM
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Falling for your collegue
Hi Anyone can advise?
Just like being with someone whom u work closely with... like u are falling in love .... with hime / her Both party married ... only one side feel that way .... how to manage such feeling... 
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14-06-2009, 02:04 PM
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14-06-2009, 02:46 PM
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14-06-2009, 02:53 PM
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14-06-2009, 03:21 PM
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14-06-2009, 03:56 PM
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But we are not animals, we can control our action - since both side married and one sided, then best thing is to back away. Look for another job or do find some ways to distance yourself.
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14-06-2009, 04:03 PM
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When people work closely together, in an office or a project, sometimes and in fact it can be quite common, there could be feelings of attraction. Look at the way some stars can pair up after working in the same movie.
But.... problem.... the feeling is one sided.... TS likes the girl, but the girl does not.... Next problem... both are married... Third problem... both are working in the same office... With all these problems, what do you suppose the bright thing is to do? Being attracted is not love my friend. It is just that you feel good with her. Perhaps when you are working late, you both share conversations, or perhaps it is just the way she moves, she smells that turns you on. Do you wish to put everything you have gained and worked for at risk? So how do you turn off? It is not easy, but try to put some distance from her. Use you brain, you are married and so is she, she is also your colleague.. What can you gain from having a relationship? And if all this thinking and all this reasoning still does not work, then perhaps it is better to transfer yourself out. I would because if I had a wife and a job, I would not put myself in a position where I can lose it all because I like someone, especially if she is working in the same office and does not have the same feelings for me. I really would not like to eat, shit and do everything at the same place. Wish you luck and strenght bro.
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14-06-2009, 08:12 PM
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Thanks bro...
Had been thinking what I should do for a while... Mind over heart ... I think it takes time ... Will update if anything happen .... ) :
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14-06-2009, 08:35 PM
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my advice is, BEST to walk away from potential problem.
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15-06-2009, 01:21 AM
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HeY HeY bros read sat paper, give you tips abt office romance, unless you like to be next Jack Welch..
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15-06-2009, 12:06 PM
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15-06-2009, 12:15 PM
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Sorry to say this, but to have an office relationship is so unwise. 1) You are working together. 2) You are married 3) she is married.
Somehow, this is only a recipe for a major problem if anything happens. I have seen it with my own eyes so many times. It will be fun if it starts, but then if something happens? When you break apart, how are you gonna face each other? If she is the unhappy party, you will get shit. If you are the unhappy party, you will give shit... If shit happens and you lose your job it is still ok. But if you wife finds out, you may lose your job. Some more TS mentioned it is one way... If he made it in such a way that the one way becomes 2 way and the other husband finds out, you may lose your life... Is it worth it?
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15-06-2009, 04:39 PM
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 Maybe she dresses or talks like one?
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16-06-2009, 01:12 AM
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16-06-2009, 07:50 AM
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Dun eat and shit in your own backyard no matter how attractive the deal is
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