Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

another good thing is that... if you maintain your MIL in Singapore, you got higher Parent Relief in your personal income tax calculation:

"You may claim this relief if you have supported your parents, grandparents or great-grandparents or THOSE OF YOUR SPOUSE.......

for YA2011, the parent relief is 7k....

MIL from foreign spouse also can claim,now i know bro,thanks for the info

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

end of the day it is still bro ilovedoggie decision to play along with the vb or have a serious relationship.

i remembered that when i met my girlfriend few years back, i also had alot queries and doubts. i also kana alot from TS and Sha_gua. Same thing, "she is just another vb working here". same thing from me, "she is different from other vb".

it was not a good 1+ year for me initially as i was struggling. But i can say i am lucky i hold on till now. hopefully can have a wonderful family just like TS. (if only i can kick my habit which developed into a hobby of kc-ing vb)

for me is 3 different stage that i gone through-struggling,learning then accepting

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

wow bro ilovedoggie,glad u still around

haha thanks bro... i'm glad i can still be around

need help on translation. urgent. bro KT is offline...

me ma biet em qua day la me chet mat em khong the cho me biet e dang o sin duoc

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Not all Viet WL are hopeless, but if you are lucky, u may be able to get one that has the right mentality, is sick of being a WL and is more open to ideas. But all these qualities are not enuff, you need to spend years and lots of effort to communicate with her, educate her. Its not easy, but if you kanna one that offers hope, it may just turn out well.

bro singvet u have highlight a very important message which i also like to express for quite some time.But i dont really know how to express in words so think is best to let any bro who is more experience to express here.Thanks bro

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

haha thanks bro... i'm glad i can still be around

need help on translation. urgent. bro KT is offline...

translated in the TV lovers thread. I am online almost whole day wan.
becoz i am very free with nothing else to do.

day time in office can online, evening go pubbing can online, night time come back home sure online...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

translated in the TV lovers thread. I am online almost whole day wan.
becoz i am very free with nothing else to do.

day time in office can online, evening go pubbing can online, night time come back home sure online...

haha. r u in vn now? is that vn life?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

haha. r u in vn now? is that vn life?

life in sillypore lah...
if i go vn, my life in vn is .......... (some bros will know )

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

life in sillypore lah...
if i go vn, my life in vn is .......... (some bros will know )

Anh muon đi den sai gon rat nhieu... I miss the roadside stall selling chéap hai san in bui vien. I miss the hair saloon/Msg parlor girls. And i also wan to c if tht girl will come over to c me or not.I dun wan to go to her place alone.it's 4 hours away Frm hcm.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

i also wan to c if tht girl will come over to c me or not.I dun wan to go to her place alone.it's 4 hours away Frm hcm.

if the vb got the need ($$$$), she will come all the way to meet you.
my recent "steal eat" trip, my vb travel all the way from kien giang, rach gia to TSN airport to meet me... its 6hour journey.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

MIL from foreign spouse also can claim,now i know bro,thanks for the info

I won't even think of fetching her here to Singapore. Employing a maid will cost less. Think about it, she flies to and fro HCM and Singapore monthly, the air ticket, the salary, her demands for money for her other children, her demands for other things like electronics etc, it will be much more than maintaining a maid. that $7k tax deduction is peanuts compared to the amount of goods and money that she takes from you during the year. Maid cost around $450 (salary) a month, plus government tax of $170 (if you have kids) and its around $620 a month. This is fixed, and the tax of $170 is tax deductable. If kanna a greedy MIL, $620 a month surely not enuff, and most of the MIL are greedy.

[Honey Boon]

so if we need urgent help or advice, can we pm you anytime?

Originally Posted by KangTuo

translated in the TV lovers thread. I am online almost whole day wan.
becoz i am very free with nothing else to do.

day time in office can online, evening go pubbing can online, night time come back home sure online...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

so if we need urgent help or advice, can we pm you anytime?

just pm him...or pm me sure will reply haha...

[Honey Boon]

swee..... the sharing spirit of SBF

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

just pm him...or pm me sure will reply haha...

[evoking88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

if the vb got the need ($$$$), she will come all the way to meet you.
my recent "steal eat" trip, my vb travel all the way from kien giang, rach gia to TSN airport to meet me... its 6hour journey.

haha 6 hrs trip for them is like nth lehhh. my one go tsn airport meet me every 2-4 weeks and will go back once i leave.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by evoking88

my one go tsn airport meet me every 2-4 weeks and will go back once i leave.

Waaaaaaaaaaa So GooD Har