Re: Guy looking for a lady considering a discreet relationship

[thomas83]

Hi,

I'm a 28 yr old guy looking for a lady who is open to a discreet relationship. i've not tried it before and I know it is a long shot and i'm inviting myself to ridicule by starting this thread, but i'll just give it a shot anyway.

if u must ridicule or insult me for ur entertainment and pleasure. well,wat can i do right? i wuldnt retaliate. what's the point? We r just trying to entertain ourselves and kill time online.

Honestly, Ive tried FLs a couple of times about a year ago but it wasn't for me. Partly becoz it was too expensive if on a regular basis(locals who speak english and offer GFE), and partly becoz end of day, the GFE is JUST part of the service, not becoz the other party is attracted to me. So the couple of times i did it, it left me feeling rather unattractive and pathetic paying for sex. but it is just a personal opinion of myself, i m not judging others. how can i.

Anway, NO, i'm not looking for a cheapo fuck. but YES, i'm not rich nor do i drive. just average income(2.5-3.5k). If any lady is interested. I hope to have a gd time with you. I can't afford fancy meals at 5star hotels obviously but i would want to treat u with respect and like a lady. I'll definitely pay for meals and the room at least . When it comes to sex, i would like to think i want to give as much as i receive. Nothing sexier then a woman getting pleasured.

honestly, i'm about 1.8m tall, single, average looking i guess and medium build. toned body towards the slim side as i wrk out frm time to time but definitely dun dare to say im athletic.

And, I've a good friend, a lady friend, whom ive feelings for a long time but too bad she is not interested in me. This is so u know there wuldnt be any emotional mess to deal with coz my feelings r elsewhere.

Ladies, if u might be interested. PM me ur HP no. I'll call at a time of ur choosing and chat a while to make sure it is not a prank. Then we can communicate discreetly thru email. Mainly for me to email you my photo i guess, would love to see ur pic too of coz. If we decide to meet, we shall meet in a public area and have a casual normal chat & have dinner first for you to ensure ur safety and also for both of us to feel more comfortable with each other. We can then both decide if we wanna take it further. If you dun want to, no pressure.

Well, Im not hopeful abt replies and expecting to be ridiculed, just giving it a shot. Anyway, gotta turn in. Got a full day of wrk tomolo.

[FiliaLunae]

My dear, let me say a few words before people start coming in and saying "average? please stand aside"

I believe you're in the wrong forum if you're looking for the love, and love-making. Sure, we have a lot of love here - love for money, lust (a different form of love, IMHO). Sure we have a lot of love-making here - just that it's with the WLs and FLs (not your type, as you so plainly put it)

Like what Boss says, it's better to fuck, pay and forget.

I would rather you spend a bit of time and go out, widen your social circle a bit and perhaps learn to love a woman from there better - love-making that way would be so much better, I believe. However, that's not to say that there are no ladies in this forum that would not fit your criteria nor call on you.

Cheers.

p.s. This is me speaking with a nicer tone. Don't ridicule my words because I typed them out with sincerity because you sounded like a really nice guy.

p.p.s. I just find it funny that you type everything out so nicely but towards the end your English becomes like you're texting.

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by thomas83

Hi,

I'm a 28 yr old guy looking for a lady who is open to a discreet relationship. i've not tried it before and I know it is a long shot and i'm inviting myself to ridicule by starting this thread, but i'll just give it a shot anyway.

Honestly, Ive tried FLs a couple of times about a year ago but it wasn't for me. Partly becoz it was too expensive if on a regular basis the GFE is JUST part of the service, not becoz the other party is attracted to me.

Anway, NO, i'm not looking for a cheapo fuck. but YES, i'm not rich nor do i drive. just average income(2.5-3.5k). If any lady is interested. I hope to have a gd time with you. I can't afford fancy meals at 5star hotels obviously but i would want to treat u with respect and like a lady. I'll definitely pay for meals and the room at least . When it comes to sex, i would like to think i want to give as much as i receive. Nothing sexier then a woman getting pleasured.

You are a average joe with a average life aiming for something that you don't have and cannot get . THAT is the fact . You have the perfect template for all the other failures to follow . Your writing style is the most sincere AD for FB so far . BUT your are contradicting yourself in many ways . So are you just a keyboard warrior pouring out your woes ?

Gals judge you in here by your mannerism and confidence in writing . This is a hint to ALL . But no matter what , its your actual person that makes you what you are . Every one in here is not perfect and flawed in a certain way . If you accept your flaws and work on your flaws . It actual will make you a better person than others that don't realize it .

Originally Posted by FiliaLunae

I would rather you spend a bit of time and go out, widen your social circle a bit and perhaps learn to love a woman from there better - love-making that way would be so much better, I believe. However, that's not to say that there are no ladies in this forum that would not fit your criteria nor call on

p.s. This is me speaking with a nicer tone. Don't ridicule my words because I typed them out with sincerity because you sounded like a really nice guy.

p.p.s. I just find it funny that you type everything out so nicely but towards the end your English becomes like you're texting.

I see he have hit your soft point . A sucker for sincerity . TS need SDU rather than SBF .

[thomas83]

FiliaLunae: I appreciate you letting me off easy. And i fully agree with what you said. This is most likely the wrong forum for me but i'm not looking for love or love-making here. i just think i enjoy sex slightly differently. Without being too vulgar or explicit here, i think i enjoy giving more then receiving. But, you are sharp. It would be a lie if i said i prefer a discreet relationship to an open and monogmous one. Common sense dictates that the latter is more satisfying emotionally and safer in all aspects of the word.

Im do try to widen my social circle like you mentioned i should. Night classes for interests seek(C++, iphone app dev) and considering taking up hobbies outside of my comfort zone(bachata) to keep an open mind. But i'm doing it slowly, more for gaining knowledge and fuelling my interests rather then the need for social interaction(i socialising regular btw). I think it is more productive and effective at quenching loneliness if that is what you were getting at.

lastly, it was very "early" when i came back home after a late night, so hence the texting ending.

jasdude: Yes, i'm an average joe financially. Well, i think my post is as contradicting as buying the lottery but i guess chances are, most of us have bought it before. As for aiming for something that i don't have and cannot get, you r probably 99.9% right. i'm just dumb enuff to try while the smarter average joes sit at the side line watch me try it. I appreciate the candid way you put it and well, now i know. And i realise i might have come off as pouring out my woes, but i just it laughable to say that i'm attractive when the paradigm of attactiveness differ from person to person; or lie about being rich and such when i'm not.

But thanks for taking the time to comment candidly and sharply and i appreciate not being ridiculed by the both of u. Like i've said, this is a (very(VERY)) long shot that im expecting some form of ridicule from other people here rather then actual PMs from ladies.

[Reoxy]

Thomas, I support you!

Very nicely done!

Wish you good luck in finding a good fuck!

Some experience to share: When you are single, you may wish for an open relationship. But when you become "reserved", you will definitely want to have a discreet one.

[simple2kee]

Originally Posted by thomas83

honestly, i'm about 1.8m tall, single, average looking i guess and medium build.

average looking? as it is v competitive here, i would urge u to step aside.

Originally Posted by FiliaLunae

My dear, let me say a few words before people start coming in and saying "average? please stand aside"

thks for the reminder.

[orchideous]

Lunae, I get what TS means by fuck with (some) feelings.. I don't think he means he's looking for love.

As laoshi Reoxy has mentioned, i respect TS for his detailed post!

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by orchideous

Lunae, I get what TS means by fuck with (some) feelings.. I don't think he means he's looking for love.

As laoshi Reoxy has mentioned, i respect TS for his detailed post!

Hahahahah someone familiar appeared . how are you gal ?

[orchideous]

Hello jasdude! How're you? I'm fine just tired..

Oh I always follow laoshi around and stalk his posts

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by orchideous

Hello jasdude! How're you? I'm fine just tired..

Oh I always follow laoshi around and stalk his posts

Hahahaha stalker ! I am fine ! Reoxy is in mediation mode now . cannot answer us now .

[FiliaLunae]

Originally Posted by orchideous

Lunae, I get what TS means by fuck with (some) feelings.. I don't think he means he's looking for love.

As laoshi Reoxy has mentioned, i respect TS for his detailed post!

Sup babe. I've missed you!

I can understand what TS means as well, but personally, I think it's a bit difficult here. *shrugs* from my point of view, at least.

[Reoxy]

Originally Posted by orchideous

Hello jasdude! How're you? I'm fine just tired..

Oh I always follow laoshi around and stalk his posts

Hmm...Old habits die hard hor??

[thomas83]

Well now i can look back and say jasdude was 100% right about what he said. But can't blame a guy for trying. I'm just glad i wasn't ridiculed(up till now, not explicitly anyway). The embarassing part about starting this thread, think i can live with it. peace.

[thomas83]

thks orchideous for the acknowledgement. I'm sry but i think there's some problem with my inbox. i can't see your message(blank)until i download my private messages as a text file, and i can't reply too. So i replied through the visitor's message to you. have a pleasant weekend.

[suckerfish]

Nice one TS...You're a straight forward person, however i think as what other bros advice maybe you should try other networking sites, I know a very tested one!