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Old 18-01-2012, 10:37 PM
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Need advice..

Hi bros out there.. Lil bro, me, here need a little advice..

There is a woman i used to go crazy about.. But she's married and we had sex on every other days.. So I thought she will divorce her hubby and be with me. In the end.. She really divorced her hubby.. But never ended with me.. But an Indian chap (no offence to Indian bros here). I was devastated.. So I stop contacting her.. But recently.. She caught up with me again.. And started telling me how she misses the good old time we spend together and wanting to be with me.. I was head over heels.. But the happiness is short lived.. Cuz there was one day.. She was not feeling well.. Fell sick all of a sudden.. Then she did a full body check up and the results is she was diagnosed with genital herpes. Her current bf found Out and left her. So she said she wanna be with me.. I haven't given her an answer..

So I'm stuck in a dilemma.. One hand.. I still love her.. But on the other hand.. She has herpes and only after she found out then she wants to be with me.. And I can't get over the herpes thingy..

So bros Out there.. What should I do? Your advice are greatly appreciated.. Thank you..
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Old 18-01-2012, 10:53 PM
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Re: Need advice..

common sense would tell you to stay away from her. as you mentioned, she is not committed to any relationship so you can expect any relationship with her to not have any "future". you can remain as FBs at your own health risk. u need know how to separate love from lust as I sensed some one-way "love" going on.
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Old 18-01-2012, 11:10 PM
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Re: Need advice..

First, please go knock your head against the wall a few times to clear your head. Then dig out your heart and strangle your cock. You need to think this through with your head, not your heart, and definitely not with your cock.

1. Herpes is not fatal. Not as big deal as HIV. Herpes is related to chicken pox. But unlike chicken pox, it will recur occasionally. Some people get outbreaks every few weeks, some go by months. Others by years. Each outbreak is short lived. Usually a few days only. Treat with special cream, also used for shingles. Some times require oral medication. For most people, outbreaks are mild.... Just a few mini ulcer like blisters... Hard to see if mild outbreak, but can feel the pain when touched. For guys, Herpes outbreak is usually just an inconvenience, but can be really uncomfortable for women. When she has no outbreak, you have low chance of catching it. If you really want to play safe, never raw with her, not even rub your bare dick head against her vulva.

Herpes is dangerous to feotus during pregnancy and childbirth. If ever get to that stage with her, MUST tell the doc to get proper advice.

The point is, Herpes by itself is no big deal in comparison to the bigger picture.

2. Make sure she gets tested for other STD. At least for HIV, if nothing else. Yourself test too. Never know whether she might have passed to you before.

3. If the Indian fella didn't give it to her, then who did? Obviously she's been sleeping around. She cheated on her husband, she cheated on the Indian fella, she WILL cheat on you, eventually, is my guess.

4. She appears to be self-centered and needy person. Moving from guy to guy. My advice is forget her, find someone else. I won't be surprised if her husband will be laughing his head off if he found out the current situation and is probably glad he is rid of her. Let her go find the guy who gave it to her... Or does she even know who it was?

In conclusion... She's NOT worth it.

Now, go smack your yourself a few more times and use your brain.
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Old 18-01-2012, 11:15 PM
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Re: Need advice..

Pls get yourself checked.

Herpes can be passed even with skin contact at her genitals. E.g your balls not being covered with condom and touching her genital area when doing her.

It's not fatal, but the virus resides in your spine and will be with you forever.
There's no cure.
So don't even take herpes lightly.
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Old 18-01-2012, 11:29 PM
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Re: Need advice..

this woman is those who likes to fuck around
at best she can only be a fb (friends with benefits)
definitely not the choice to be a life partner
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Old 18-01-2012, 11:36 PM
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Re: Need advice..

She got Herpes from sleeping around. Obvious since her husband doesn't have it. She bangs Punjabs (no offense to Indians and Pakis). Braddah, you want to down play Herpes but have you seen its effects. Herpes 1 and Herpes 2 are serious.
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Re: Need advice..

Herpes is no joke.
Is one of the most serious form of std which even passes through cd.
A life sentence that doesn't kill you but resides in your body permanently.
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Re: Need advice..

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So bros Out there.. What should I do? Your advice are greatly appreciated.. Thank you..
what advice do u need? just leave her & move on.
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Re: Need advice..

go for a check up and moved on.... life is not all abt her... no loss no gain!
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Re: Need advice..

Obviously its one-sided love affair. Find someone who truly loves u, definitely not this gal. Best stay away from her!
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Re: Need advice..

Run far away from her. Change your contact number and all.
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Re: Need advice..

It is obvious she taking you for a ride. You may also want to go see doctor. I believe you should not waste time on her and move on.
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Re: Need advice..

Hi to bros who have replied.. Thank you for your much needed advice. Well, I've went for check up this morning.. Results will know about 1 week later.. But so far so good.. As for the woman.. I've told her my stand.. That I can't accept her.. She refused initially.. But after much talking.. She relented and made me promise to stay by her side which i'm like wtf! I'm avoiding her since last night..

I just found out that before she discovered she has herpes. She actually slept with 2 more guys when she was with the Indian chap. I told her to stop all these activities and stop spreading to others.. But she refuse! I really feel like exposing her illness on her fb wall and let other know.. Should I?
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Re: Need advice..

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Hi to bros who have replied.. Thank you for your much needed advice. Well, I've went for check up this morning.. Results will know about 1 week later.. But so far so good.. As for the woman.. I've told her my stand.. That I can't accept her.. She refused initially.. But after much talking.. She relented and made me promise to stay by her side which i'm like wtf! I'm avoiding her since last night..

I just found out that before she discovered she has herpes. She actually slept with 2 more guys when she was with the Indian chap. I told her to stop all these activities and stop spreading to others.. But she refuse! I really feel like exposing her illness on her fb wall and let other know.. Should I?
You should not do anything until ur Medical results shows whether u have that dreaded herpes or not:

Case #1 : results positive, u have herpes
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Continue to fuck her.

Case #2 : results negative, u are clear
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Run as fast as u can!

For both cases, dun even think about taking revenge such as posting on her fb, what do u get to gain by doing that???
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Old 19-01-2012, 06:23 PM
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Hi to bros who have replied.. Thank you for your much needed advice. Well, I've went for check up this morning.. Results will know about 1 week later.. But so far so good.. As for the woman.. I've told her my stand.. That I can't accept her.. She refused initially.. But after much talking.. She relented and made me promise to stay by her side which i'm like wtf! I'm avoiding her since last night..

I just found out that before she discovered she has herpes. She actually slept with 2 more guys when she was with the Indian chap. I told her to stop all these activities and stop spreading to others.. But she refuse! I really feel like exposing her illness on her fb wall and let other know.. Should I?
Just ignore and avoid her. Don't go stir-shit by posting on her FB wall etc. You could be attracting more trouble for yourself only. This kind of trash, just throw and walk away.

Anyway, if it makes you feel better, when she has a Herpes outbreak, she will not be able to have sex... it hurts a lot more for women. Ever get a painful ulcer in your mouth? Imagine how much it'll hurt if you finger-fuck your mouth and rub on the ulcer continuously back and forth. And also, it might hurt too if the sores are on her labia and she pees.

Other guys who want to fuck her... they should realise that raw is war.
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