Double WHAMMY I got 2 GFs Pregnant

[siopu99]

Originally Posted by JediSkull

sighz........ dilemma.....

Here's my story:
both are china chinese...... one rich one poor. Told some bros about my problem.

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(PS: I dun think I wan my kids to be commy bastards!!! OMG!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO SIA?!?!)

First off, let your parents blast you. Then seek their advice. You still have to make the final decision because it is your life and that of your 2 children in the long road ahead that you have to think about.

As far as possible, try not to go for abortion. They might haunt you until the day you die. You will see if you have a 3rd eye. Ok...., we're not gonna be talking about hauntings here.

You have to come clean to both of them but do it with lots and lots of tact. You won't want one of them to run off and commit suicide.

Or you can quietly marry both and not register the marriage. Be a man and work your ass off to give them both families of yours a happy family life. Split your income across the 2 families. Tell them your job requires lots of travel, etc. That way you can manage both sides without them knowing about each other. But it's not an easy way to go about.

I'm married too, have kids and now GF is pregnant. She wants the bb and now I am working extra and making sacrifices of personal time to ensure that both sides gets the same amount of attention and financial support and are happy.

You've got to be responsible for that short moment of 'si beh song' feeling when you cum into their holes lah.

[JediSkull]

thanks bro naemlo, if i got more queries sure call you up......... damn sad sia..... i going on a solo mission to WUHAN to hold a wedding banquet there....

[LianLover]

many bros have provided insightful advice that i would probably have said too...

hence my advice is to....choose the one who is pregnant with a boy....cos u wouldnt want retribution for ur actions to fall upon a daughter....not that it shld befall ur son...but seems the lesser of 2 evils...lol

[tungsten]

Hmm...

The following choices are availiable

- Dump Both
If you do so, you are a bastard x 2 ... Period

- Cohabit with both
No legal status for either of them. More taxing on your kids when comes to school age and etc.

- 1 as wife and 1 as mistress
Not sure how you going to handle that. Eventually over time, the one who is being selected as "wife" will try to squeeze out the mistress. Mistress kid will also be likley to be ostricised even if he/she is adopted.

- Marry one then divorce and marry the second
Solve your wife/mistress status problem. Though the procedure is likely to take much longer then your kid coming out from the womb. Seeking annul of marriage is not going to work since there is 'proof' of the marriage is being consumate.

- Convert to Muslim and keep both
Are you kidding me? I believe there is definitely some repurcussions. Otherwise there will be tons of people who want to convert first to fill the quota then convert back. Not sure of the exact details. But doubt that it is so easy.

If you love one more than the other, I would suggest that you marry her and support the other financially untill she gets married again.

If you love both the same ... you think you are Duan Wang Ye huh.

Anyway I will just tell both girls that I will not give up either one of them because I love both equally. They either go with my options (likely to be cohabit and get parents to adopt) or come out of it. If only one chose to stay, she will be the wife. I will also tell the rich girl that if she going to behave like a spoil brat and bully the poor girl, I will dump her immediately. No wedding dinner for both. Reunion dinner (if this minor thing is still on your mind), go alternate. Perhaps like rich girl 1 year then poor girl the other year. If you think it is too taxing, do not go to both to be fair. Wei Xiao Bao managed to keep the princess spoil brat in check by having another 6. Apply game theory in this scenario. there are two buyers but only one seller. You have the monopoly power, apply it in an responsible manner and you got chance to come out of this alive.

Though I repeat.... DO NOT go to China before this thing is resolved. If not, there will always be chances that you will be hacked to death by the girl's angry parents/relatives/friends and etc...

[5stars]

I am one of the curious chap - curiously waiting for you to tell us which girl you choose to be with in the end..

End of the day, I hope you will find the best option, of course a Win-Win situation for all the affected parties would be nice.

An advice for you - Please wear cap if you do not wish to have unexpected pregnancy again..

Please update us.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Marriage Registration in China

wah when u become adviser ah know u for sometime why u no advice me ah

[darkangel]

The more I see it:

I pity you because your sex life would not be any much better from now onwards.

If you choose the rich China girl you will get hen pecked and under tight survey since she knows about your extra activities when out of sight. You will find sex boring with her since she has tight control over you.

If you choose the poor China girl you will have to work your ass off to give your family a better life, where got the energy for sex when especially there is no time also.

However it is good to share your story here as many will benefit from the experiences that you have been thru. Just my 2 cents.

[silent:hunter]

in deep shit liow still calculating property? is it possible to have 2 family?? grow up friend...

ask yrself, what is it that u wan in life?

kaoz..

[KonKam]

Not sure whether i should pity TS or not?

Frankly speaking,
easier way is to get both girl go for abortion when they are still in singapore time.

Now,
U choose or not also die,definitely one party will come out loser and marrying both definitely is a going to be a great hurdle.

Put karma aside as it is happening to u now,dude.

i really wouldn't wan to be in your shoe now.

The best option is marry both somehow(if possible lah) and bring them to singapore and dividing your fatherly duties to both of this ladies.

Really a messy affair..

TS posted this in Sept... and the gals already at 3+ months... now should be at about 6 months liao ba?

dunno how he decided...

[johnny21]

hunan bah???

[Stud00]

bro..don know wat to say about you.
wanna play.. play safe and responsible la...w.t.f...

[BeCkHaM_]

1 word - cowboy

[lblittlebear]

24 mths ? By then the baby would be out already and have his 2nd birthday cake

Originally Posted by EtherC

Between the Devil and the deep blue sea. I don't envy your position. Since lives are at stake here I won't become the devil's advocate by advising which girl to dump. Bro Colins has offered a sensible suggestion which is to come clean with both girls. Sit down and have a good talk with the two girls. Consider your own financials and alternatives like giving the baby up for adoption etc. A DNA test to show if you're the father should be performed as well, although expensive it is less expensive than parenting someone else's baby. Call the various hospitals to check if their lab does prenatal paternity testing. Mount Elizabeth & Thomson Med Center might have this service. Time is not on your side as abortion has a legal limit of 24mths in SG. So you better get off your ass and do something. Condoms are very friendly, learn to use them before you're forced to learn responsibility.

[EtherC]

24 weeks. Bad typo. My bad.