True Love or Give Up???

[kefuso]

Dear bros, please give advice to the following story...esp bro DO YOU BJ cos I follow your post and you seem to give pretty good logical advice...

Recently I met a PRC FL and had a bonk with her...After that, I was memerized by her look and the way she chat about things during our session...Then I asked her to come over to my place but she don't want as she forgot who am I...No choice but to book her friend and pretend to ask for tarma so that they can come together...Upon arrival, she immediately recognised me and remember what I promised her the other day (bringing her out for dinner)...I paid them 2 hrs each but told them I don't want to bonk...Instead, I bring them around my apartment premises and then to my house...When they are inside, they realised that I am married...Told them I am filing for divorce or else wouldn't dare to bring them here...Anyway, had a nice chat and bring them for dinner...Later I send sms to her friend saying that I am in love with her...

Then I called her a few days later to bring her out for dinner...I asked where is she and she says she is at a friend place...Later I picked her up from H81...I bought a bouquet of roses, nice dinner at 5 star hotel and then stay there for a drink at the music lounge (piano bar)...Chatted about everything and I told her I love her...Prior to that, she said that dinner is enough and wanted to go back to work at KTV (I am paying her agent hourly rate of $100/hr)...I told her it's okay and wanted her to accompany me, forget about KTV...She says just $500 will do and called her agent to say she is not going for work...Later I heard her quarrelled with the agent cos agent demanded $700 or else get back to work...I told her its additional $200 more and I am okay with it...She says why don't I send her back to work so that I can save the money...She is happy that I bought her roses, presents and brought her to eat nice food (she says she sleeps in a crampy room and had instant noodle or mixed veg rice for meals)...Later she brought me to a place to listen to music...Down there, she hugs and kisses me lightly on my cheeks...She says she is very happy that night and she likes me

The following day, she is too busy to return my calls and sms...Feeling dejected, I called her friend at midnight and "booked" her for 5 hours just to chat everything about her (12am-5am)...Then at about 12plus pm the same day, I called her friend again as wanted to find out more about her, what she has done the previous day etc...In the afternoon, I sms her and told her that I wanted to help her and get her out from the agent...Initially she was surprised but then stop responding to my sms...I follow up shortly and asked her to accompany me...She says you don't need my company as you got someone else...Enjoy yourself...I called her and asked where is she and she says at H81, just finished serving a customer...I asked her why she tell me to enjoy myself and she says that she knows that her friend is with me (from her agent)...I asked her why she bluntly told me that she just finished with a customer while the other she tried to lie to me that she accompany a friend...She says the previous time she likes me and don't want to hurt my feelings...Now she thinks I don't belong to her and she don't have to cater to my feelings...I told her to meet up and talk...

Brought her to another 5 star hotel and checked-in into a premium suite, facing the river near fullerton and the night scenery...Prior to that, I asked for a big bouquet of roses, chocolates etc to be placed in the room...Then order dine in for her...First time having western meal and I guided her the way to hold forks, knife etc...She is really someone who is not into pretence and just behave the way she want to be...That is what really attracts me...Pure and innocent, not much of a pretender...Had a good chat and everything...Never thought of staying overnight with her as I told her you never sleep in a posh hotel, never seen beautiful Singapore night scenery, never had nice meal since day one here...Its either KTV, H81, junk food etc...I told her even if you don't love me, you can still remember something beautiful about here and esp me...She changed into a sleeping robe and asked me to change too...Ended up we both cuddle on bed but purely chatting, watching TV...Later, she snuggle up to me and kiss me with really passionate kiss (not those you get from commercial sex)...She says she really loves me and asked me not to betray her...In the end, we make passionate love and she cum with real orgasm...I asked her if she really enjoys and she says yes...Its true as everyhing is real and I know it...We chatted and she says she will cook for me and we kiss and make love again till next day...

Pass her the money to give agent and some allowance for her to spend (more than $10,000 in total)...Brought her out to many places, but she specifically requested me to buy her a belt as it means I want to be tied and bond together with her, and some nice clothings...In return, she says when she has saved enough money, she will buy me a tie or belt in return...When I asked her to stop working at KTV, she says she can't cos she need to send money back home and need to work hard here...I told her I can't stand other guys paid a miserable couple of hundred dollars and get to bonk her...I will take care of her till I divorce my wife and will marry her...Later she proposed that I fulfilled 2 conditions before she agrees, buy her an expensive gift (more than $10,000) so that if one day should I leave her, she will have something to safeguard her interest...and I must divorce my wife, wanted to know the time frame for divorce...I obliged without much hesitation and she says she won't be working in KTV anymore...Withing a short time frame of less than 2 weeks since day one I met her till now, I have invested a total of $25,000 on her...She says that she knows that I have invested heavily in her and she sms me saying that i can only love her and no one else...she loves me and asked me will I always love her and asked me not to leave her...

One day, I purposely went to GL and she asked me where am I...I told her I am in GL...She says don't go to even lane as there are many girls and she worried I will be hook away by them...Later she came down and saw me walking towards the even lane...She says she knew it as she saw me...I told her I didn't do anything...She is jealous and warns me not to do it again...

Bros, assuming that I had fulfilled her monetary terms that I had promised her previously...is she really in love with me or should I give up on her??? I truly in love with her but don't want to get hurt...I told her if money is what you want, I can give you but please don't hurt me emotionally...She says if money is all she want, she can earn herself...She don't want to stick with me without future...If I don't divorce my wife, she can be a kept mistress but I can only make love to her and no other woman...What happen between me and my wife she don't bother...Please help me as I am confused...This is a true story and I am not fabricating...

[titan]

bro,

if u don't give her any money and see if she really 'loves' u as much as before?

buying her the above 10000bucks present is just a way to get more bucks from u.. she can turn and sell it away..

she doesn't want u to go GL even lorongs, might be her doing sales there.. scare u kena hook by another PRCs.. then lobang gone liao..

they are here for a reason. $$$... yes they can earn it themselves by selling 'time' but now u are bigger investor and willing to pay... so why not? by spending that much to get her.. why not use that money to bonk other girls in GL or anywhere else..

bro, bring your $$ elsewhere..

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by kefuso

Pure and innocent, not much of a pretender...

A PURE prostitute??????!!!!!.. one who has fucks all sorts of strangers who could be infected with all sorts of diseases??? You gotta be kidding!

Originally Posted by kefuso

Please help me as I am confused...This is a true story and I am not fabricating...

I suggest you see a psychiatrist. Anyone who wants to replace his wife with a PROSTITUTE must be mad.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by kefuso

She don't want to stick with me without future...If I don't divorce my wife, she can be a kept mistress

What future is there to be a kept mistress ??

[DTCEPL]

Bro Kefuso....you are KCed.....pull out while you still can. The money spend....take it as a short-term investment that you have lost over the stock market.

You may maintain a relationship with her....but please open up your eyes to see clearly....don't be blind by yourself. Think with your mind and NOT YOUR HEART.

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

A PURE prostitute??????!!!!!.. one who has fucks all sorts of strangers who could be infected with all sorts of diseases??? You gotta be kidding!
Pure and innocent means she don't pretend to be demure, ladylike while she is with me...The way she eats with gusto, she talks, she carries herself are so true...What I have seen those dinner party etc are girls pretending to be demure, refine, ladylike even though I can tell they are all pretending...That's why I like about her...If she wanted to attract me, she would be like those ladies in business function parties...


I suggest you see a psychiatrist. Anyone who wants to replace his wife with a PROSTITUTE must be mad.

I am not replacing my wife...Prior to meeting her, I am already contemplating for filing for a divorce with my wife as we are not on talking terms anymore...In fact, I have moved out from the current apt and stayed in another place...

[kefuso]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Bro Kefuso....you are KCed.....pull out while you still can. The money spend....take it as a short-term investment that you have lost over the stock market.

You may maintain a relationship with her....but please open up your eyes to see clearly....don't be blind by yourself. Think with your mind and NOT YOUR HEART.

Bro, love is blind...If I were to maintain a relationship with her, I will treat her whole-heartedly and not constantly on guard against her...That is why I said if this is a KC game without true love, I am willing to back out as I cannot afford the time to play this game...Money lost can be earned but what I cannot afford to lose is my true feelings for her...In fact, I am missing her while typing now...So bros all think that there is really no true love between us??? The true love story "Pretty Woman" by Richard Gere and Julia Robert does not really exist??? After giving her the money, will there really be true love to be developed between us???

[jojogigi]

Originally Posted by kefuso

Bro, love is blind...If I were to maintain a relationship with her, I will treat her whole-heartedly and not constantly on guard against her...That is why I said if this is a KC game without true love, I am willing to back out as I cannot afford the time to play this game...Money lost can be earned but what I cannot afford to lose is my true feelings for her...In fact, I am missing her while typing now...So bros all think that there is really no true love between us??? The true love story "Pretty Woman" by Richard Gere and Julia Robert does not really exist??? After giving her the money, will there really be true love to be developed between us???

you are not thinking properly. You are basically buying love. Love cannot be bought. Once u run out of money. See what happens. Test her. Pretty woman is hollywood movie. Its fabricated. You don't bring fantasy to real life. I thought im not thinking correctly when KC-ed, you are way worse. (sorry to be so direct). Think properly. Use ur brain not ur heart. Your heart will tell u illogical things. Your brain doesn't. I rather you go vietnam find the most prettiest bride and buy her with that kind of money you spend on her and its safer than what you are trying to pull now.

If i were to told you now to stop. cos you gonna get hurt. would you? In the words of "do_you_bj" . "i think you already know the answer" . You are in for deep shit. Before the shit comes the honey. What you are searching for now is the love lost from your wife.
Good luck.

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

I suggest you see a psychiatrist. Anyone who wants to replace his wife with a PROSTITUTE must be mad.

100% Agreed with BOSS. TS, are you so lonely due to yor failure in marriage that you have to find another replacement for yor wife?

From yor story, you are seriously need of help. Still dont understand when I see some SBF bros are doing well in their careers and yet when they get KC by FLs, they lost their sense of directions, their logic of thinking.... Yor purpose for being there at the right time n right place - > TO FUCK, PAY AND FORGET. You are not there to talk abt FEELINGS to these gals... Are you nuts?

Ask yourself these few qns...

1) You claimed you love her after bonking her. Are you sure? Are you looking for someone to replace that emptiness in yor life after yor failure in marriage? This PRC FLs happened to make u see "lights" during this period.

2) I see you are a well to do person... Of all the gers out there, what makes you think you are ready to marry a FLs who had been bonked by hundreds or thousands of dicks? Are you mentally ready to handle it when someone close to you come and tell you how shiok your wife on the bed or how pinkish yor wife's nipple is? Or even how shiok yor wife whn she did a bbbj on their dicks?

3) You have spent at least more than $20k on her... why do u need to do that? TO PROVE THAT YOU ARE RICH OR WELL TO DO TO HER? You are crazy... In a serious and truthful relationship, no gals will want you to spend that much of $ on them. They will rather you to save that $ for the marriage as they know $ IS HARD-EARNED.
THINK ABT IT. When you married yor ex-wife, how does she handle yor finanical? Does she demands you this and that before marriage or does she save every cents and dollars for u?

4) You mentioned your PRC FLs get jealous and does not want u to go to the backlane of GL...Let me tell u the truth The reason as to why she is angry because SHE KNOWS YOU ARE A BIG FAT FISH and if you go to see other PRC, there is a possiblity that U MIGHT GO FOR OTHER PRETTY FACES OUT THERE... This is the usual kind of KC SCAM. Act jealous and angry abit and you will start to trust her that she is truthful to you and love her even more...

5) U mentioned that yor PRC FL wanted to buy a BELT for u and yet she got no $ and have to save for that? JOKE... DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH A PRC FL EARN FOR THAT PERIOD WHEN SHE IS IN SG? Not sure? Ask some seniors SBF bros over here and they will tell u... No $ to buy belt for u plus u have given her allowance of $10K... JOKE OF THE DAY.

My advice to you.... GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP ASAP. YOU MIGHT BE A WELL TO DO NOW... IT IS JUT A MATTER OF TIME THAT EVEN WITH YOUR HUGE $ RESERVE WIL NOT EVEN LAST. I CAN ONLY SEE YOR FUTURE. ANOTHER NEW SAD SBF THREAD COMPLAINING HOW YOU GET CHEATED.

Paisei.. i might sound very hash... Hopefully it will wake u up and see the light. End of the day, it is alway yor DECISION.

[Barracuda]

Hmmm its very hard to judge. Like what some bros here said, u've already given her so much money and now its hard to see weather if she's true to you or not even thou she stops u from visiting GL and only be true to her only.

It could be also what titan bro said that she's afraid that u get hooked by some other girls at GL and she lost a "Big Fish". IMO if she really loves you i dun think she needs that $10k gift to be insurance for her.

She can always go back and work even if you and her breaks up in the future and she can still earn that kind of money in a very short time.

Acutally my own personal case which i'm having now is ABOUT the same as yours but the difference is that no money is invloved and i'm not rich at all. My girl also stops me from visiting KTVs and she herself has found a new job and has since quitted her KTV job but there's still some issues around her and me but it could be me being too insecure.

But that's another story and do not want to hijack your thread.

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by Barracuda

Acutally my own personal case which i'm having now is ABOUT the same as yours but the difference is that no money is invloved and i'm not rich at all. My girl also stops me from visiting KTVs and she herself has found a new job and has since quitted her KTV job but there's still some issues around her and me but it could be me being too insecure.

But that's another story and do not want to hijack your thread.

Bro, finding love with FLs, WLs and KTV is always high risks cause you never know their intentions... True there are cases where some relationships are succesful. I remb I have read some other threads whereby one bro talked abt his marriage with a FL...

As he had stated... IT IS A LONG, DARK AND LONELY ROAD. It is up to you to decide if she is real to you.

There is no rush for you to settle down with her. BTW, you mentioned yor gal had changed to a new job? Wht kind of jobs? Same job scope but different environment? . Unless she is sincere and quits from doing the same things as what she had been doing... MY ADVICE, WAIT and MONITOR.

IMHO. I dont encourage pple to find love with FLs. There are many decent gals out there.

[Barracuda]

TS u also did mentioned that u told her that do not cheat your feelings and money lost can be earned back.

But do you know that you've already thrown in your feelings into this relationship? If not you will not spend so much money on her.

its always Feelings comes in first then money go in.

[Barracuda]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

Bro, finding love with FLs, WLs and KTV is always high risks cause you never know their intentions... True there are cases where some relationships are succesful. I remb I have read some other threads whereby one bro talked abt his marriage with a FL...

As he had stated... IT IS A LONG, DARK AND LONELY ROAD. It is up to you to decide if she is real to you.

There is no rush for you to settle down with her. BTW, you mentioned yor gal had changed to a new job? Wht kind of jobs? Same job scope but different environment? . Unless she is sincere and quits from doing the same things as what she had been doing... MY ADVICE, WAIT and MONITOR.

IMHO. I dont encourage pple to find love with FLs. There are many decent gals out there.

Hi bro, thanks for your advice. her new job is an 9 - 6 Office job and she went back to china while waiting for her work permit to be approved and she just came back to Singapore 2 days ago.

I do agree with you 100% that its a long, dark and lonely road to walk and you really need to give her 110% trust in her that she doesn't have other guys behind your back. It all boils down to trust.

Anyway this thread is to help kefuso bro with his problem. Let's help him with it ba.

[pewpew]

Bro Kefuso,

Yes bro you are a romantic man who is rich enough to spend so much on a (which i have to say) prostitude which i believe you should know that as like you mentioned, she works as a PRC FL in H81 serving customer.

The way you mentioned in your story are HINTS about asking for money, money and more money.

I believe you are not some rich brag and old enough to think since you knows how to enjoy life and goes to a 5 star hotel for relaxation.

Hope you can pull yourself out of this trap and spend your money wisely, 20k can bonk 133 x $150 cat girls all at once which can make your leg soften like jelly!!! (each girl call you lao gong, royal rumble until u mad also can)

[naemlo]

If u always have reasons to convince yourself she is the right ger then no matters how ppl say, the words will not drill into your thick skull. Then by all mean go ahead with your desire, else just move on with next "love".