Guys should really LEARN

[geckoSG]

Recently managed to get into another fling but was short-lived.
All thanks to a guy whom keep pestering my fling to go out, sent
brainless SMS daily to her asking why she didn't call him, why she
didn't sms him, keep pestering her to meet him, etc. Stressing her up.

Even when she replied him harshly and told him off not to msg her
again, he still continue to do it.

Why can't some guys learn when to stop when the lady says FARK
OFF?

For us, if a lady is comfy with you, she won't reject you. If she
rejects, and ask u to stop contacting her. For god sake, let go.

I really wish she could give me her number so that I can call the
guy and fark him upside down on the phone. Such guys are damn
immatured and so damn desperate and brainless.

Just venting my frustration here. Hope anyone that does that recently
or has been doing that will read this and realised to stop. Don't spoilt
the market, I'm sure a lot of seasoned samster will understand what
I mean...

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Recently managed to get into another fling but was short-lived.
All thanks to a guy whom keep pestering my fling to go out, sent
brainless SMS daily to her asking why she didn't call him, why she
didn't sms him, keep pestering her to meet him, etc. Stressing her up.

Why was it short-lived?

[geckoSG]

Shes now having phobia over guys tat try to get near to her,
some sort of stress symptom.

I can understand as I have a few friends who have that problem
before. They can still socialise in Office, but not after Office hours.

They just go back to their own world and for a period of time
will keep themselves clear of men, even those close to them.

Damn TuLan over the pestering bugger who dun know the meaning
of "STOP Messaging ME"

[luv1299]

Can get her to change a new nos, may help.

[geckoSG]

Its not that simple as in change of HP. Now its the mental barrier that
has already been placed up, she's not even replying my SMS when I offer
to help her end the irritant's pestering.

I really wish I could get my bloody hands on the guys mobile and FARK
him upside down. Not to be a hero, but to make sure tat SHE dun get
too stressed up tat I worry she will do something silly to herself.

She still have a young kid with a bloody useless Ex-Husband who keep
irritating her at her home with all the senseless nonsense. Hence, I worry
for herself and her child.

[Base Star]

Stalking is not healthy and what has been described comes across to me as harassment. Maybe a call from the police would sort things up. Strongly recommended.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Its not that simple as in change of HP. Now its the mental barrier that
has already been placed up, she's not even replying my SMS when I offer
to help her end the irritant's pestering.

I really wish I could get my bloody hands on the guys mobile and FARK
him upside down. Not to be a hero, but to make sure tat SHE dun get
too stressed up tat I worry she will do something silly to herself.

She still have a young kid with a bloody useless Ex-Husband who keep
irritating her at her home with all the senseless nonsense. Hence, I worry
for herself and her child.

Bro, maybe that could be a scam to get you to be her front to tell the other guy to F off?
Maybe she did something to that guy that she will never tell you about?
Maybe if she cant take this kinda STRESS, like many who couldnt, maybe she shud get BAO and go back?
If one never hears 2 sides of the story, dun be harsh.....last thing you wanna be in a situation where 狗咬狗!

[geckoSG]

Thanks for the advise, I get your point bro. I've seen the SMS that the guy
sent, but unfortunately, forgotten to note the number cos she wanted to
solve this by herself initially.

She is a kind lady by nature, she dun demand things from guys, just that
she is a nature man-magnet on the road due to her c-cup, sweet smile
and sexy dressing in town.

So some guys will try their luck all the way til it becomes harrassment.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Thanks for the advise, I get your point bro. I've seen the SMS that the guy
sent, but unfortunately, forgotten to note the number cos she wanted to
solve this by herself initially.

She is a kind lady by nature, she dun demand things from guys, just that
she is a nature man-magnet on the road due to her c-cup, sweet smile
and sexy dressing in town.

So some guys will try their luck all the way til it becomes harrassment.

Bro be very mindful of your intentions.
May be of good will, n for that I salute you
U r not a newbie so u know the rules of the game
unless she has quit this line, she aint never yours
worst, like i mentioned, using another person to solve an earlier prob she created
Yes, u saw the sms yes, but u dun know how it all happened do you????
My advise, be there emotionally but dun be there to fix anything before ur appearance in her life my friend

[geckoSG]

Oh... maybe I post wrong place also, this lady is not an FL or WL or watever.
Just a nice lady I got to know and became my short-lived fling. She has a
decent job in town area...

Sorry for confusing the bros here... Paiseh, my bad.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Oh... maybe I post wrong place also, this lady is not an FL or WL or watever.
Just a nice lady I got to know and became my short-lived fling. She has a
decent job in town area...

Sorry for confusing the bros here... Paiseh, my bad.

Same above applies bro.

[ekemono]

Unless she is your spouse or family members, it is better to let her solve it herself. If things turn ugly she can always go to the authority since she has the sms as proof. PPO is good enough to scare him off.

I understand it is a joy to help or protect someone we are interested in, but in such a case, your intention to screw him up over the phone may just add oil to fire and instigate the guy to do more. E.g: stalk her, write her ctc on public toilet, pass her ctc to dubious ppl to add to the disturbance.

So, til she is your spouse, you can only comfort and do small acts to cheer her up. It will also let you witness her capability to resolve her personal issue. Isn't it good?

[longwinter]

l too dun like these kind of irriating guys. but sad to say, there will always be these people around. l think the word PESTS suits them well.

Even when the gals are totally uninterested in them, they still thick skin, hover around them, trying and pushing their luck, machiam like no sense of shame.

[EtherC]

Territorial instincts at work TS. She's not exactly your exclusive pussy, so like you say its a short lived fling. Move on, you got your share. What's the point of getting pissed rite?

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by geckoSG

Oh... maybe I post wrong place also, this lady is not an FL or WL or watever.
Just a nice lady I got to know and became my short-lived fling. She has a
decent job in town area...

Sorry for confusing the bros here... Paiseh, my bad.

Bro, dont make me laugh...Y do u need to get so pissed off abt that? Let me put it this way and you can think abt it...

1) Who is she to U? First of all, you already tell us that she is a short fling to u. Means she is nothing to you except a FB or someone to fulfill yor desire.

2) Are you her BF? NO? She does not belong to you exclusivly. As to what kind of relationships she had with others, you do not need to know.

3) Trying to be a hero in SG? U better think twice... Unless U R F..KING RICH, then stop being a hero... u never know who u r messing with. Let her solve her problems since she also does not want u to be involved. What makes you think she is not lying to u? What if she ask you to help her beat up the other guy? Are you going to do it? I believe you are a matured guy.. If needed, ask her to go to get some legal actions done.

Dont forget... HEROS DIE YOUNG.