Is it wrong to satisfy my sexual needs?

[taylortaylor]

Hi fellow brothers, recently my partner has been constantly saying no to sex and that she is always too tired for it. Do take note that we are in our late 20s. However, since she is always tired and does not want to do it. I have been on this forum reading on others sex life and their mongering life. It has nonetheless made me jealous about people having frequent sex making me want to go out and explore. Do you guys have any advice? please feel free to share! Thank you!

[oxeso]

Hell yes! Satisfy ur spiritual needs instead.. like us! Om......

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by taylortaylor

Hi fellow brothers, recently my partner has been constantly saying no to sex and that she is always too tired for it. Do take note that we are in our late 20s. However, since she is always tired and does not want to do it.

Are both of you married?

Have kids?

Usually married women who had given birth sometimes will tend to have lack of sexual desire.

If she is your gf, then maybe she is seeing some other ppl.

[taylortaylor]

Originally Posted by Cerberus

Are both of you married?

Have kids?

Usually married women who had given birth sometimes will tend to have lack of sexual desire.

If she is your gf, then maybe she is seeing some other ppl.

Nope, both of us are 6 years into the rs. She doesnt really have much guy friends and does not go out very often. I am afraid that if this goes on I may go crazy..

[shimhae108]

Originally Posted by taylortaylor

Nope, both of us are 6 years into the rs. She doesnt really have much guy friends and does not go out very often. I am afraid that if this goes on I may go crazy..

Hi Bro taylortaylor. Thanks for sharing. How is it like previously? Meaning, previously are the 2 of you having and enjoying sex regularly? Is her behaviour sudden?
There are women who are born with low sexual desire. If your gf is of this type, then you have to accept it if you want to be with her.

[taylortaylor]

Originally Posted by shimhae108

Hi Bro taylortaylor. Thanks for sharing. How is it like previously? Meaning, previously are the 2 of you having and enjoying sex regularly? Is her behaviour sudden?
There are women who are born with low sexual desire. If your gf is of this type, then you have to accept it if you want to be with her.

Previously when we were younger she was very into it and she loved doing it with me but after the 2 year mark it was obv that she does not want to do it as frequent. I am not sure if her desire went down or the problem is me. However, there are rare time when she is in heat but it happens only once in 2-3 months.

[shimhae108]

Originally Posted by taylortaylor

Previously when we were younger she was very into it and she loved doing it with me but after the 2 year mark it was obv that she does not want to do it as frequent. I am not sure if her desire went down or the problem is me. However, there are rare time when she is in heat but it happens only once in 2-3 months.

Suggest you have a talk with her, sincerely and nicely, and ask her what happened. Tell her that her reluctance is affecting you.
I am not sure how the relationship between the 2 of you is. I mean, how is it like in terms of the mutual affection between 2 of you.

[Newton221]

Originally Posted by shimhae108

Suggest you have a talk with her, sincerely and nicely, and ask her what happened. Tell her that her reluctance is affecting you.
I am not sure how the relationship between the 2 of you is. I mean, how is it like in terms of the mutual affection between 2 of you.

Yeah the talk is definitely needed, but be prepared that shes lost interest and on the verge or already seeing somebody else. Its pretty common now in this era, its not just a girl thing either...

I had acquiantances who treats their gf this way...

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by taylortaylor

Nope, both of us are 6 years into the rs. She doesnt really have much guy friends and does not go out very often. I am afraid that if this goes on I may go crazy..

6 years and haven't BTO? Why leh?