How Close????

[JoJo]

Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

[Piranas]

WAKE UP!

Originally posted by JoJo
Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

[KCLIM73]

Originally posted by JoJo
Just wondering how close in terms of relationship our brothers here have gotten with the girls. I mean some ask u to send them home, some ask u out for supper, even some all u to chit chat over the phone and call u friend friend.

I mean getting emotionally attached etc. sounds stupid but sometimes cannot be help, in the head I am sure they are only aftering money but the heart ... sigh.

Someone give me a WAKE UP call....

Actually, it's simple. But I just have to ask if you have a regular partner or relationship. GF or wife already. If have, it's not difficult to resist all others...

[Piranas]

I have heard and seen too much stories about emotionally getting involved with gals in the line. Up to now, I have not known of any successful cases.

[JoJo]

Even with close partners ... well that is why we are in this forum right? we have different needs met by different people and this girls I tell u they are good.....at what they do.

[Piranas]

These girls? Seems like you got too much load on your shoulder. Let me help you to off-load some

Originally posted by JoJo
Even with close partners ... well that is why we are in this forum right? we have different needs met by different people and this girls I tell u they are good.....at what they do.

[teraterm55]

well some of these girls are not really after your money
more of your company. they know its impossible
but once in a while they want someone to treat them
like a normal lady. Sometimes they will pay
for the meals when you all go out to dine. and
share cab fare(3M sticky)

And then there are those that are only after your money.
they will start off lovingly and then proceed to ask
you to buy small items, send them to work etc.
if they dont see you resisting then they will ask
for bigger items and cash. (Vampire sticky)

they will usually use the excuse of :
- cannot pay phone bills ask you to buy top up cards
- ask you to send them to work (save on cab fare)
- ask you to lend them money to pay rent or other stuff.
- when they go out with you they will want you
to buy them things.

if your sticky is a vampire. i would say.. GIVE IT UP.
they are just after your money. they are no different
from a social escort. to give you a "first love" feeling
in return for your money.

if you get really attached to them the only person
that will lose in the end is you.

they wont care if you jump off a building or get
fired from your job. they just want your money.
they will offer consolation words or pretend to care
but in the end they will still go after your money
like a vampire they will suck you dry,
smash your bones and then
dump you dried carcas into a boiling pot to make soup.

[rambochan]

You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[rambochan]

You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[Piranas]

But what you have done for them? Pay $$$$ and f u c K them?

Originally posted by rambochan
You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

[rambochan]

This is a mutual agreement between us, we pay and they let us ...
On the other hand, they are taking advantage of our inborn kind-heartedness - no money to pay this and that ..........
So try to be firm , help once OK , help second time also OK ,
but third time Sorry man , we become their ATM oredi.

[cheongkid]

I think bro JoJo had started the thread in the wrong section. Should be better off in the Adult Discussions. But anyway, which cat doesn't like fish? To fall into the KC trap is both emotionally and financially draining, regardless of whether you are attached or not.

[KlubMad]

Originally posted by rambochan
You are right ! They don't care what you have done for them
in the past , when you have no $ , they dump you.
Don't be taken in by their pitifulness or crocodile tears , don't
spend any of your hard earned money without any returns.
We are gentleman , we pay for their service but the same cannot
be said of them.

You are right too, I have a friend who started out with one of the FL (Filipina) at Orchard Towers. Initially he was made to feel top of the world, and soon after personal msg and sms came his way.

It started to go downhill when he was 'given' 'free' service (overnight). The rest is classic tirak.

Shoppings started and then 'loans' for every conceivable reason.

I had warned him but he was so 'drawn' to her and maybe 'charmed' that there was no use talking to her.

He even bought her 'two' way ticket back to Philippines !
(So he thought, that she would return)....and then she called 'collect' with sob sob stories, and got him to send money to Phillipines....What a sucker!!

The last straw was when she asked for another US$500 to be sent there...

Now I gotta buy him beer to cheer him up.

[KCLIM73]

Dun let lonliness rule your head. Remember this.

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by KCLIM73
Dun let lonliness rule your head. Remember this.

and don't be a mobile ATM.