always feeling horny

[rs07]

i am a guy in early 40s and i'm just wondering if i am normal with the rest coz i always feel horny and i almost mustabate at least 4-5 times a week. is it normal and healthy? I didnt smoke and did not drink alcohol and is it because of that i always feel horny and high sex drive?

[supernewbie]

I think and do hope its normal, but just dun get into trouble

[Minty Mint]

Well, I'm horny too. I'm in my late 20s. It's really normal to be horny everyday. I think at least 20-40% of the male population would think that way.

As for masturbating almost daily??? Not really healthy.

Perhaps, you could shift your focus on other things instead of thinking horny.

I have tone down a bit since i got my new job.... damn stress. For my case, that is also unhealthy.

I think we have balance ourselves.. be it - fun, sex, self-responsibility, family and other stuffs.

[Wynhan]

If U don't smoke and drink alcohol......

So, U don't chong often, don't U?


If that is so? This could b the reason why U are behaving the way U are.

I think MOST of the chongster don't masturbate that often, bcos they already have fun outside. Hence they don't masturbate that often.

Not healthy lah, bro. (Don't meant to b rude here)

[GL-Roamer]

Hi rs07

Don't worry i think you have high sex drive (normal) and your male hormone level is quite high. Since you are not smoking and drinking I guess you can keep it that way as it is better (save money, your health and gd for sex oso). As for masturbating 4-5 times a week i think maybe you should cut the frequency down.

I am also a horny guy, used to do masturbate once a day but started to cut down and put my sperms in the right place instead (a pussy hole). Now just visit geylang once a week (actually i also find that it is too much) and trying to cut down to once a month.

Try to exercise more (I find running, swimming or cycling tends to be better, with a good intensity) and keep your mind busy with work, use your drive to push you through all the hard work. Boredom is one of the main causes of the urges. Hand and dick get itchy when you are bored.

Soon you will find that after a while you will have better control over your erections or you may become numb to your urges (some how it dies down). It felt numb to me after 5 days of continuous sperm storing.

By the way I am not anywhere near 40.

[HPoirot]

kudos to you!

40 plus and still raring to go! i'm mid 20's but i'm only horny like once a week. lol

i do, however, agree with most of the others. while it's not literally unhealthy, it's not a very good lifestyle to be leading. perhaps you should spend you time on other activities? i found that it really helps to remove sources of temptation. (eg. porn.)

maybe a sport would be good.

[lao Gui]

Think this is normal..... i m in my early 50s and i bonk at least twice a week.
One time with wife n one time with gf....
If i go china...... at least bonk 4 to 5 times a week
By the way, r u married?

[supernewbie]

I think Ts is a successful person, career stable, children all growing up, they have their friends, wife busy with children....... I can understand. I'm also similar, but comes in cycles. Now slump, tenants leave, lokk for new tenants, stress again, libido go down again.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by rs07

i am a guy in early 40s and i'm just wondering if i am normal with the rest coz i always feel horny and i almost mustabate at least 4-5 times a week. is it normal and healthy? I didnt smoke and did not drink alcohol and is it because of that i always feel horny and high sex drive?

Bro, I am 46. Also always feeling horny cos I like to admire women. I don't masturbate 4-5 times a week now...cos due to stress, etc, sexual drive has been low. What I understand is that for men above 40, if can keep a healthy sexual life is good (i.e. thru intercouse, love making). I think "laoGui" is having a wonderful sex life. Not too exerting but yet enjoyable. Too much masturbation is not good for the penis due to the pressure applied by our hands/palm. Sometimes, my penis get sore even I applied lubricant. So, I limit myself through HJ once a week. If you are married or having a sex partner, then that is different, having sex 2-3 or maybe even 4-5 times I think is Ok. Good luck.

[Esprit]

I think you may have high sex drive.

[kyc2110]

Originally Posted by rs07

i am a guy in early 40s and i'm just wondering if i am normal with the rest coz i always feel horny and i almost mustabate at least 4-5 times a week. is it normal and healthy? I didnt smoke and did not drink alcohol and is it because of that i always feel horny and high sex drive?

Masturbation daily is not a healthy sign, first of all, the skin of the penis will be rotting soon due to the constant friction and secondly your sperm level will be used up in due time if you dont STOP and by the age of 50, you sperm level will be more dilute than concentrated. Anyway above statement is my own assumption.

[Mankok]

I am 40 and I think about girls all day. I am single and I can enjoy sexual encounters with different pretty gals 2 to 4 times a week.

I never masturbate myself; you should let the gals do it for you.
I don't smoke, hardly drink and I eat vegetarian.

[workwee]

Hope this helps...

CAMP - Community Addiction Management Programme

The G-Sexual Addiction Screening Test (G-SAST)
Patrick Carnes PHD & Robert Weiss LCSW

The Male Sexual Screening Addiction Test (G-SAST) is designed to assist the assessment of sexually compulsive or "addictive" behavior. The G-SAST provides a profile of responses which help to identify men with sexually addictive disorders. Answer each question yes or no. Depending on the particular pattern of symptoms:

* 1- 3 of these symptoms found to be true may be an area of concern and should be openly discussed with a friend or family member
* More than 3 positive answers would indicate the need to consider more professional addiction and consideration of a 12 step support program like those for Sexual Addicts
* 6 or more true answers clearly presents a problem with potentially self-abusive and/or dangerous consequences. Should seek treatment.
* Cautionary Note: There is a wide range of prevailing opinions as to what is acceptable sexual behaviour. If you are concerned about your own sexual behaviour, and you feel that your behaviour is causing you problems, or may get you into trouble with the law, please talk to a professional.

1) Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
2) Have you subscribed or regularly purchased/rented sexually explicit magazines or videos?
3) Did your parents have trouble with their sexual or romantic behaviors?
4) Do you often find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts?
5) Has your use of phone sex lines, computer sex lines etc. exceeded your ability to pay for these services?
6) Does your significant other(s), friends, or family ever worry or complain about your sexual behavior? (not related to sexual orientation)
7) Do you have trouble stopping your sexual behavior when you know it is inappropriate and/or dangerous to your health?
8) Has your involvement with pornography, phone sex, computer board sex, etc. become greater than your intimate contacts with romantic partners?
9) Do you keep the extent or nature of your sexual activities hidden from your friends and/or partners? (not related to sexual orientation)
10) Do you look forward to events with friends or family being over so that you can go out to have sex?
11) Do you visit sexual bath houses, sex clubs and/or video bookstores as a regular part of your sexual activity?
12) Do you believe that anonymous or casual sex has kept you from having more long term intimate relationships or from reaching other personal goals?
13) Do you have trouble maintaining intimate relationships once the "sexual newness" of the person has worn off?
14) Do your sexual encounters place you in danger of arrest for lewd conduct or public indecency?
15) Have you spent time worrying about being HIV positive, and continue to engage in risky or unsafe sexual behavior anyway?
16) Has anyone ever been hurt emotionally by events related to your sexual behavior, e.g. lying to partner or friends, not showing up for event/appointment due to sexual liaisons, etc., (not related to sexual orientation)?
17) Have you ever been approached, charged, arrested by the police, security, etc. due to sexual activity in a public place?
18) Has sex been a way for you to escape your problems?
19) When you have sex, do you feel depressed afterwards?
20) Have you made repeated promises to yourself to change some form of your sexual activity only to break them later? (not related to sexual orientation)
21) Have your sexual activities interfered with some aspect of your professional or personal life, e.g. unable to perform at work, loss of relationship? (not related to sexual orientation)
22) Have you engaged in unsafe or "risky" sexual practices even though you knew it could cause you harm?
23) Have you ever paid for sex?
24) Have you ever had sex with someone just because you were feeling aroused and later felt ashamed or regretted it?
25) Have you ever cruised public restrooms, rest areas and/or parks looking for sexual encounters with strangers?

[bendictz]

i personally think that at the age of 40 and you are still so sexually active is a good thing. it is so much better than suffering from erectile dysfunction.

but i do agree with some of the bros here about the masturbation part though. perhaps you can channel your extra sexual energy for exercising or practising taiji.

[goenitz]

Haha, got a friend also same thing but maybe even worst, he blamed it on the internet technology and has to mast 1-2 times everyday with all the different porns available. He's also 40's... So dont worry u are not alone!