I always been ditched after

Big Sister80 · #1 03-12-2009, 04:08 PM

I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.

sex4LiFe · #2 03-12-2009, 05:03 PM

As they will always say - "It's not you, it's me."

Maybe you're just way too good with sex.

Chin up, you're definitely be able to find one who'll appreciate you other than your bedroom skills.

wheregotghost · #3 03-12-2009, 05:18 PM

well. next time dont jump into sex too soon after u 2 are togather.

Big Sexy · #4 03-12-2009, 05:23 PM

you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.

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Originally Posted by Big Sister80

I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex.

waahaa · #5 03-12-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sister80

Maybe i not good in it.

don't jump to the conclusion that you're not good. lots of chaps here would be happy to help you evaluate before you come to a conclusion

Big Sister80 · #6 03-12-2009, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.

I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned. I always trust my bf so much even we know less than 3 months. I put trust and end up being betray n hurt. Wat else can i say. Maybe i trust guys too easily and when they ask me i will give in. Is it wrong to trust a person you love dearly.
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.

JumpinJackFlash · #7 03-12-2009, 06:40 PM

[QUOTE=Big Sister80;4343984. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.

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I would surmise that you gave away your body too willingly, I may be wrong, in the hope of gaining love from those guys. That is not going to get you the "trophy". Many reasons why the guys walked out on you, can't even think of trying to second guess, sister. A lot has to happen and click between two persons other than physical sex, in order for a relationship to take shape and flourish.

For now, ask yourself an honest question- what's your strength, values, personality etc. Work on these areas to present yourself as one wholesome lady and not one who will immediately take off her panties when the next guy lock eyes with you.

Guys are easily stimulated sexually and everyone wants to "conquer" the next lady. Avoid this game. Gets you no where.

Ask yourself - you're in the circle of friends? cultivate outdoor activities? Hobbies ( don't tell me it's sex) In other words, groom yourself to be a desirable person to be with, arh arh.... don't jump into bed so easily.

Sorry for the long "sermon" hope you find out why things don't work out and chnage for the better, cos it's worth it.

JJF

Big Sister80 · #8 03-12-2009, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by JumpinJackFlash

I would surmise that you gave away your body too willingly, I may be wrong, in the hope of gaining love from those guys. That is not going to get you the "trophy". Many reasons why the guys walked out on you, can't even think of trying to second guess, sister. A lot has to happen and click between two persons other than physical sex, in order for a relationship to take shape and flourish.

For now, ask yourself an honest question- what's your strength, values, personality etc. Work on these areas to present yourself as one wholesome lady and not one who will immediately take off her panties when the next guy lock eyes with you.

Guys are easily stimulated sexually and everyone wants to "conquer" the next lady. Avoid this game. Gets you no where.

Ask yourself - you're in the circle of friends? cultivate outdoor activities? Hobbies ( don't tell me it's sex) In other words, groom yourself to be a desirable person to be with, arh arh.... don't jump into bed so easily.

Sorry for the long "sermon" hope you find out why things don't work out and chnage for the better, cos it's worth it.

JJF

Many many thanks for your advise. I received too much of pm that most of them want to have sex with me. Pissed me off. Why in this world, in this small country hidden so many perverts? I must thinling that i thread abit misleading. But i not into this type of so call sex without love game.
Just too bad i do not have any power to zap those pervert.

ipwnyou · #9 03-12-2009, 07:13 PM

I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

Big Sister80 · #10 03-12-2009, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ipwnyou

I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

At the age of 18, i trust that is my direction. But after i fall madly in love with my first bf, i lost my determination for that. Is really my fault. Whenever i think back i always break down to tears.

see see only · #11 03-12-2009, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sister80

I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.

Hi Sis,

It may not your sex skill or ..... it could be the things that happened before sex

Or worse,

you got armpit hair SI BO

bad breath maybe, me setting examples only and trying to help help only ... so dont get upset with me ok

But me & a lot of bro here, dont mind trying the S.. things out with you to check check if that is the reason

HCKing · #12 03-12-2009, 07:27 PM

always rem for a r/s to last the guy must love u as a person and not yr body only

simple2kee · #13 03-12-2009, 08:06 PM

Big Sister80, LUCK would change from time to time. u need NOT worry too much. move on!

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #14 03-12-2009, 09:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.

Like that will her bfs leave her faster? Cos they cant get what they want

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Originally Posted by ipwnyou

I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

Wow....

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Originally Posted by see see only

Hi Sis,

It may not your sex skill or ..... it could be the things that happened before sex

Or worse,

you got armpit hair SI BO..bad breath maybe, me setting examples only and trying to help help only ... so dont get upset with me ok

Bro, maybe you try to ....her...then QC by u liao then tell her what's wrong..

knylim · #15 03-12-2009, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ipwnyou

I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

You don't let your boyfriend piakpiak you then i am very sure he is doing piakpiak with someone else!

You can respect yourself of course but can your boyfriend respect you?

In the end of the day, be an adult. Be responsible.

If you are so angelic, please don't post in sbf... you are in the wrong forum.