Hardness issue

playboy82 · #1 22-02-2010, 11:48 PM

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

doomvell13 · #2 22-02-2010, 11:55 PM

is it the partner? cos sometimes the partner foreplay no good, not seductive enough i will go soft too. If I get to bonk a partner with good body and skill will stand for damn long

Johnston · #3 22-02-2010, 11:56 PM

Hard is hard, but u want it to be hard at the correct times

Some people who take Viagra end up with a LONG TERM ERECTION which is no good and u need to see doc-ter.

cheekp · #4 22-02-2010, 11:58 PM

eh, TS, you must see whether your bird willing to work OT or not, also, must see if you are already sian of such stuff, need something more exciting to wake up.

sickwormm · #5 23-02-2010, 12:02 AM

During our foreplay I would caress my gf breast, meimei, ear etc and my gf would not leave my didi unattended throughout the foreplay session, I guess this is keeping my didi hard all the ways. At time she also uses very seductive actions and words I hear already can wait to bonk her.

Parden me of asking is your partner actively playing during the foreplay or you are only doing to her?

alvin36 · #6 23-02-2010, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by playboy82

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

yes, once in a while will have this problem, especially when the partner is a dead fish.

if the gal is passionate and knows how to make love, she should continue to touch the guy's sensitive area.

if your gal is not skillfull enough, then u have to do some tricks... turn yourself to 69 while licking her.. hint to her to BJ you

longwinter · #7 23-02-2010, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by playboy82

Just want to ask all the old birds here, when you having sex, are you able to stay hard through the whole session ? For me, it do get abit soft after a while of foreplay, then when want to penetrate , then will need to wake up the penis again.

Is this normal?

Bro, l think the best thing is dont think too much about this hardness issue. the more u think, the more u cant enjoy and the more u cannot stand n perform. l can understand u do feel frustrated at the moment. Allow me to share my experience, Earlier on, l encountered such problem, can u believe, l went out to fuck 5 to 6 times, and all the sessions l cant managed to succeed at all. l am not able to perform or able to cum. I was damn frustrated and feelin very headache about it. The problems l encountered are turning soft when l am going to penetrate, cock turning hard n soft mode during foreplay...

But thankfully now l am alright le. l just told myself not to go think so much about it. l actually even did think of eatin those sex supplement pills to boost my cock, but after friends advices and thinkin of the side effects these pills give, l decided not to. Lucky l never take. And those pills are too x anyway.

Now l am back to normal, able to bonk happily with no problems. Well this kind of thing actually normal lah, maybe u are now on a bad patch. But no worries, who knows, the next moment u will be hitting on a good run. As long as ur cock can stand, this means u have no problem.

Having a smooth n successful sex session actually involve a no of factors. Sometime it maybe not ur problem, maybe the girl looks n body dun appeal to u? Are u feeling very tired, do u hav enough rest? Are u feeling stress lately?

Achelouz · #8 23-02-2010, 12:12 AM

I think our mentality during the foreplay is important leh, what we thinking and our mood when the girl is licking and playing. I think you need to focus on her sexy actions and what's going on to stay hardened. Of course, I think if the girl's skill is no good or if you don't find her attractive then these may be the cause of your softening la. For me, I just try to appreciate every girl that I got the chance to bed with, and only think of her during the whole seXXXion.

rh8611 · #9 23-02-2010, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by longwinter

Bro, l think the best thing is dont think too much about this hardness issue. the more u think, the more u cant enjoy and the more u cannot stand n perform. l can understand u do feel frustrated at the moment. Allow me to share my experience, Earlier on, l encountered such problem, can u believe, l went out to fuck 5 to 6 times, and all the sessions l cant managed to succeed at all. l am not able to perform or able to cum. I was damn frustrated and feelin very headache about it. The problems l encountered are turning soft when l am going to penetrate, cock turning hard n soft mode during foreplay... ...

I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps

longwinter · #10 23-02-2010, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by rh8611

I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps

ya, exercise more, do helps! Cos having sex requires good stamina. but well, for me, l only exercise once in a while, lazy lah, hahaha.

playboy82 · #11 23-02-2010, 01:07 AM

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Originally Posted by rh8611

I second that! I am also like u! even went to see doc.. doc say as long can stand in the morning, means normal.. just need to exercise more and avoid deep fried stuffs

hope this helps

huh? the doc really say that? lol
i am rock hard when i wake up..lol

rayalpha · #12 23-02-2010, 01:23 AM

bro, it means u are alright.. but take my advice.. exercise more.. it will build up ur stamina and in no time u will be rock hard and perform way beyond expectation..

try this... go for a jog or gym before your bonking session.. conserve alittle of ur energy... n then bonk all u wan.. plus lots of foreplay.. best if your gf or maybe ur FL is a wild and fantastic one u will have a great bonking session..

my 2 cents worth.. well it works for me till now..

rh8611 · #13 23-02-2010, 02:08 AM

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Originally Posted by playboy82

huh? the doc really say that? lol
i am rock hard when i wake up..lol

yeah! i swear doc said that! went to TTHS for specialist consulting.. cost me a bomb if not for polyclinic referrer.

try to exercise at least 3 time per week.. each around 30 mins.. cheers!!

rh8611 · #14 23-02-2010, 02:10 AM

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Originally Posted by longwinter

ya, exercise more, do helps! Cos having sex requires good stamina. but well, for me, l only exercise once in a while, lazy lah, hahaha.

thanks bro for the up! will return once recover

try to arrange for group exercise like weekend running or go for RT! ahaaah
for me i train for yearly IPPT to exercise!

goodpartner · #15 23-02-2010, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by rh8611

try to exercise at least 3 time per week.. each around 30 mins.. cheers!!

Didn't they say having sex is a form of exercise?
So does having sex for 30 min at least 3 times per week yield the same result?

I've this hardness problem from time to time too - for me the mental influence overrides even the effect of any pills/juice. Therefore, nowadays while shopping for FL, I'll rather leave for home empty handed (and still loaded) than to waste $ to be embarrassed.

On the other hand, if the chick can seduce my mind...blah blah blah.

P.S. This is one reason why OKT must understand the need for punters to be choosy as if picking a wife