caught gf flirting

heye · #1 05-05-2010, 07:00 PM

Dear Brudders and Sista,

i have gone tru 3mths of hell and i am still pondering whether i shld continue my relationship.

I have caught her nt once but 4 times flirtin and dancing wif strangers wen i am nt by her side, ie , she will juz goin missin and it makes me wonder wat will happen if she goes clubin wif her frends.

Recently she got more overboard i found out she have patron giggolo disco.
She neglected me for the the companion of her frends and worst still those arsehole.

Nw she is jobless and back to my side but i wanna knw for a gal point of view is tis normal , does most youngster behave luk wat my gf is doin.

I luk to knw why would she rather put out relationship at stake even knwing she will be caught by me .

Nw she has grown smarter, i cant trace any sms , fotos and wen i am ard she will nt log on fb or msn .

Do you tink i am over reacting or shld i juz learn to let go

A lost soul

i1papaya · #2 05-05-2010, 07:18 PM

Bro,

If you dun mind to wear "Green Hat" in the future then you go ahead.

Cheeky GUI · #3 05-05-2010, 07:31 PM

bro, your 3 months is nothing... i suffered the exact same fate as you for 1 year and now i have had enough and is letting go.

i also caught her going to those gigolo discos... told me she is very stress with work and need to de-stress.... and her cheebye friends also damn 1 kind.... fucking bitches....time after time she promised me she wont go and time after time she lied to me.

told me she idolized a singer there and only treat him as an idol but i caught the piece of shit sending her home... lied to me she will break all contacts with him but time and again i caught her chatting with him over the phone, and even went out together with him. lied to me she is working but actually is her off day and went out with him.

she still loves me, and she told me she will never be together with him cos of his job where he will always be surrounded by girls.

im not that bad a catch also... tall, not bad looking and rich. it's her loss if u do the maths... so after 1 year, i'd had enough and told her to get the fuck out of my life for good... she's very pretty, but divorced with 1 kid, 27 years old but still fucking immature and naive... let her go do what she wants to do... 1 day she will regret and come begging me to forgive and accept her which i will never do.

heye · #4 05-05-2010, 07:42 PM

bro ,

same sentiment , i caught her twice too taking moblie phone from singer and 1 time frm a stranger. sometimes easlier sae than done. haiz , i feel luk dyin , i gave her so much i been spending luk 10k plus on her for our past 6 mths hopin to salvage the relationship.

All craps and bullshit.
We no longer make love and she dun luk to kiss me anymore nor if i kiss her.

I am juz a tool to her i tink.
i knw eventually i will be kick away by her

axeman24 · #5 05-05-2010, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by heye

Do you tink i am over reacting or shld i juz learn to let go

A lost soul

留着双手在,哪怕没奶及.Its either you let go or you will kena play by her. Its your choice. It may be painful initially but after you get over it. You will be very thankful that you have let go when you look back.

muskscent · #6 05-05-2010, 07:54 PM

well, bro my sympathies,seems like she hurts u alot. my advice just as d oda bros said is kick her out before she kicks u out! easier said than done but d earlier u do it d faster u get ur life back together. cheers!

freefuck · #7 05-05-2010, 07:59 PM

Flirting can also happen to u, maybe future.
It become a nor in this sociaty. Bro, let her go if u start to suspect her.

Cheeky GUI · #8 05-05-2010, 08:04 PM

i know it's very hard to let go... but if u dont u will suffer like me... we broke up after chinese new year this year, and from then till now i'd been suffering like hell... everyday emo... cant sleep, cant eat... now im getting better cos i told her i had enough and wont contact her anymore... then from her msn and facebook message can tell she a bit emo over it... and thats what i want... her to regret doing all these for a lifetime of happiness with me...

like u i also did a lot to salvage the r/s... put in more effort, did lots of sweet things for her, buy branded stuffs for her... but no use... girls they cant see the bigger picture... they just want a moment of fun, and never think of the future...

thats why i am also fucking dulan with the cheebye zheng hu for letting these hang flowers joints to open 1 after another...

1st its the thai discos for guys.. then those gigolos clubs... now i heard even have taiwan, korea, thai boys working in these gigolo joints... chao cheebye...

thirsty · #9 05-05-2010, 08:10 PM

get out of the r/s b4 roots grown too deep.
the deeper it is, the more hurt is present

Cheeky GUI · #10 05-05-2010, 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by axeman24

留着双手在,哪怕没奶及.Its either you let go or you will kena play by her. Its your choice. It may be painful initially but after you get over it. You will be very thankful that you have let go when you look back.

bro, i love your chinese quotes... made my day...

BigGuy · #11 05-05-2010, 08:11 PM

Guys, we live in different time. Gals used to tolerate our makan outside n now they too can. Juz we can't accept.

It happened to me with the few gf I had. But no lost. At the end of the day, Let us admit it's the pride that's being hurt.

Move on......live another screw another day.

simple2kee · #12 05-05-2010, 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by heye

i feel luk dyin , i gave her so much i been spending luk 10k plus on her for our past 6 mths hopin to salvage the relationship.

I am juz a tool to her i tink.
i knw eventually i will be kick away by her

bro, definitely u hv a "tool" what. my advice is give her up & move on.

Haste · #13 05-05-2010, 08:24 PM

Agree with what most, if not all bros said : Let her go.

No matter what she promises and even should she keep her word, you will still be suspicious and that will just compromise the relationship. No point living with that type of shadowy doubt in your mind.

axeman24 · #14 05-05-2010, 08:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheeky GUI

bro, i love your chinese quotes... made my day...

You are welcome we are here to share thoughts and quotes as well

nickahben · #15 05-05-2010, 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by heye

Dear Brudders and Sista,

i have gone tru 3mths of hell and i am still pondering whether i shld continue my relationship.

I have caught her nt once but 4 times flirtin and dancing wif strangers wen i am nt by her side, ie , she will juz goin missin and it makes me wonder wat will happen if she goes clubin wif her frends.

Recently she got more overboard i found out she have patron giggolo disco.
She neglected me for the the companion of her frends and worst still those arsehole.

Nw she is jobless and back to my side but i wanna knw for a gal point of view is tis normal , does most youngster behave luk wat my gf is doin.

I luk to knw why would she rather put out relationship at stake even knwing she will be caught by me .

Nw she has grown smarter, i cant trace any sms , fotos and wen i am ard she will nt log on fb or msn .

Do you tink i am over reacting or shld i juz learn to let go

A lost soul

u should let it go.. but quietly in your heart.. find a replacement.. if can't replacement den die die also must give up.. if in future u still suffer 1 de.. u wan to be with someone tat make u stress and unhappy everytime???.. if like tat might as well be alone and fuck chicken every week..the slut not worth ur love la..believe me i when thur it too.. tis kind of girl i hav many ar...let them f around la.. dun take it too hard.. only treasure those that r worth..