Why people cheat

[Fatboy39]

For all bros and sis' to understand why we do what we do!

Please share!

[Johnston]

Why dont u start first

[Johnston]

Man does not live on bread alone.

Here - why dont u try to eat bread or any other food item or dish or what have you for a period of several days and see how often u can take it.

I grew tired of shark's fin after consuming it on a semi-regular basis for 4 months and yet there are people paying crap loads of money for it still

Here's another misconception:

1)Pretty people lead beautiful lives and whoever is so lucky to be their partner would fall down on their knees and give thanks to *religious entity of choice* that they managed to snag such a specimen.

WRONG.

There are right now, and have always been, and will always be - pretty men and women getting cheated on while You And Me and the rest of them would sell half our soul for a smile from them.

[coolnrelax]

watched some show before that science proves that us men are hard wired to spread our seed as far and as wide as possible, so once we see women whom we think will be good mother/pretty/big breast/etc, we will automatically want to off load our 'seeds' in them. doesn't matter if you are married or not as your primal instinct takes control over everything else

[Lios]

It's not cheating unless you get caught. And if you are caught, it's not your fault cos the lights were low, you were drunk and thought that she finally got the boob job you asked her to

[fledged]

If you reduced Man to it's basest form, you get a creature that say - I like, I want and I must have.

[Fatboy39]

Thanks for the thoughts guys. But it seems that this thread is making some of the bros unhappy as they have zapped me!

Agreed. We do not live on bread alone and we do have the basic instincts to spread our seeds to as far as possible. But though we are human and we should be able to go against animal instinct, we cannot go against the urge to get the buldge when we see a hot chick. Or sometimes we have the urge to satisfy our curiosity of what it feels like to have sex with a different woman.

If I cheated, it would be I feel, not the instinct of satisfiying the libido and curiosity and I'm not sure if it is linked to my instinct of spreading seeds. So I am more for the 'live on bread alone' theory.

After cheating, is it usually common to feel guilt that we have betrayed the one we love most? For example, after having sex with another woman out side of the relationship, when you see your girlfriend or wife, you would feel ashamed or guilty to even look into their eyes and then isolate yourself?

Please be understanding bros and do not zap me further. I just wanna know if I am normal and not a psycho who feels nothing after cheating!

[digdug]

I don't feel guilty after cheating (and still cheating). I will still go home and love my wife as I've always done. I still work hard for the family, ensuring everyone is well fed, well clothed and given all the opportunities to learn/experience that they can get.

Straying for me is another outlet to release pressure/stress from work. Some people play golf, some people keep stamps.. I prefer sex.

[frivolous_ami]

People cheat for many reasons. Even if happy, also will cheat. A lot of men tend to cheat.

But, women also cheat these days. Some more power than men at cheating. eg, one leg step two boats or even three boats. If not enough boats to step, they even use facebook.

Most important is, cheating shouldn't go overboard and hurt people until too serious. Just my view.

[Fatboy39]

Originally Posted by digdug

I don't feel guilty after cheating (and still cheating). I will still go home and love my wife as I've always done. I still work hard for the family, ensuring everyone is well fed, well clothed and given all the opportunities to learn/experience that they can get.

Straying for me is another outlet to release pressure/stress from work. Some people play golf, some people keep stamps.. I prefer sex.

Good one bro. I like how you are out going with your attitude! But the problem is, does this make us any more evil? or would you say that it's perfectly normal. I was always feeling guilty, but up till my 12th time with a WL, I started to feel like a bitch not having any guilt doing what I did.

[Fatboy39]

I feel that I was always thinking with my dick before I cheat and then think with my head and heart after I cheat.

But recently, my dick has always been doing the thinking. Maybe have been doing it too much till the extant of havin no feel anymore.

See, at first I was always feeling guilty that I have cheated on my GF and avoided contact for a few weeks after being with another woman or a WL just in case so that I do not pass any STDs in case I caught one to my GF. But now, I do not give a shit as I have never caught any and I always play it safe (no raw, not even BBBJ). But now, I can look into her eyes and tell her that everything is fine and I am an honest guy and screw her anytime I want. But when I'm alone, once in a while I feel that I may be loosing my humanity. Or is this just a bunch of bullshit. I need your opinions bros!!!

[fjFTW]

Simple answer to your question...

Bored

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Fatboy39

But it seems that this thread is making some of the bros unhappy as they have zapped me!
:
Please be understanding bros and do not zap me further.

Besides why people cheat, the answer to why people zap you is the same:

Originally Posted by fjFTW

Simple answer to your question...

Bored

Check this "Why Lie" thread out:
http://sbfonline.site/showthread.php?t=178456

[retepoet]

because they are not honest and not everybody can be a saint..... just like why are there wars every now and then....

[eeemen]

Could it also be a case of a " thrill " ? There's always an adrenalin rush and excitement when one is doing a FL or WL or FB, because its a forbidden fruit. Just like bro digdug stated, we will still go home and love our wives and work damn hard for our family. Its just a past-time and a hobby .

Guess that's how I put it in perspective. . Happy bonking bros, cheers .....