any advise?

[oownihs]

hi, i've been reading this discussion thread. seen stories of some bros really makes me jealous of the gals. i've been married for 2yrs. my husband is the only first and only man i had sex with. did not really enjoy the sex as i didn't orgasm at all for the 2yrs.. he always feel tired after he cum and tat's all.. leaving me still horny and masterbate. dun wanna hurt his ego so always fake orgasm. i still get horny, sometimes seduce him he say tired. dun even wanna have sex with me. see this forum u guys always ready for sex makes me really curious y he's not like that. any advise?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by oownihs

any advise?

Should be "Any ADVICE?".

"Advise" is a verb.

[goodpartner]

Oh wow... the cumming of a loooong thread (with short posts)
Gee....did someone post sbf link in flowerpot recently?

Okie sis, go seek a counselor and invite your hubby along.
Or talk to him about it - can't u?

[Johnston]

Stand by the horde of supplicants.

[owenfang]

wat ur hubby work as?? sometimes when stress u really dun have the mood to do it.

btw are u working?

[dromedary]

Hope I am wrong. I think he may be unhappy with you over something. Is there an issue concerning your fidelity towards him?

[reading]

sis, how old is your hubby? u 22y if he more than 50 y then big gap, otherwise he should can satisfy u

[sonny]

Originally Posted by reading

sis, how old is your hubby? u 22y if he more than 50 y then big gap, otherwise he should can satisfy u

That's an insult.

[HyperV]

worse case, he got any other girl ?

[Greendevil]

Sis, as for your question,there a lot of possibilities. However,you must understand not everyone is the same. Some people can run faster, jump higher while other just cant.


Your hubby un-satisfation performance can be either he really not into sex at all? Since married 2 years, I guess you had tried all the possibilities sex combination with your hubby so let not explore on that.

Simply it may be he just not interested in getting well fed, i.e. 'I had my share, it time to sleep' or maybe you just someone who dont get orgasim easily.

Well, since your hubby is the only one you ever had sex with, I cant tell for certain who having the problem. But there a sure way to find out......you know the answer

Cheers

[GemKeeper]

Maybe he enjoys eating out just like me.

[hoA123]

i for one isn't 24/7 active-ready-to-fire.
mood makes a big big difference.

too many variables for exact comments.
maybe ya not notti enuff,
maybe he's always under heavy stress,
maybe maybe maybe~

yup: communicate with ya hubby, or if there's no choice, consult a professional.
long term sexual mismatch will definitely cause higher stress on the relationship.

good luck sista~

[MaleInSG]

Seriously, convince him to go for marriage counselling.
The current situation is not healthy for you - and most likely for him. Thst's probably the reason why he behaves the way he does. Nothing wrong with him being tired after a long day. How about weekends? Better luck there?
Men mostly do fall asleep sfterwards. That's just normal and natural. Read some articles about difference in male and femal orgasms and sexuality and you will get a better understanding.
I guess you have already tried to talk to him but he will say, nothing wrong, right? So get professional help. 2 years marriage is still young. So no doubt, it can be 'rescued'.
Good luck!

[VanGogh]

any foreplay involved ? and what's your foreplay like ??

[Neman]

Was he also like that before marriage ?